Are most Libra men like this?

I dated a Libra (I'm a cappy) like 4 months ago for two months. Everything was picture perfect for the first 2 weeks,and then he started bringing up things to start fights with me. I told him if we could just talk things out everything would be ok, but he just got SO angry everytime we talked about any type of issue. He went from adoring me and always telling me how he was going to marry me,to breaking up with me over the phone telling me that I was a mistake and wasn't worth it. He drove me crazy with his inconsistency. I was crushed and didn't want anything to do with him so that I could get over it, but he keeps contacting me out of the blue and its extremely frustrating! Especially because now he is back with the ex gf who he broke up with to be with me in the first place. -_-

I know he always told me how he stayed in contact with his ex's,even one who seriously broke his heart. But I told him if we ever broke up,I probably wouldn't want to speak to him,but he keeps e-mailing me and I don't want him to! This is the third e-mail ive gotten in the last 3 months "seeing how my life is". Whats his deal?

Yeah tell hime where to go...he's just keeping you in check incase his gf isnt showing him the love he is craving and then he will look you up again! The Libra guys seem to be more like this than the girls...although we will always hold exs dear to us.

Ya I was pretty crazy about him. But our relationship wasn't "perfect" enough for him. I have a hard time giving up on things,especially when ive invested so much energy and emotion into it. So I pretty much just waited for him to end it...which took a good while for him to make a decision on -_-.

Its really weird though because two of my really good friends are libra females,and I love them to death we've known each other for years and never fight...but Ive always had trouble with the males,my father being one of them. I feel like they just go from one extreme to the next like they can be the nicest person you ever met,and two seconds later they can be so cruel. Maybe its just the two ive had in my life haha.

Yep it's our moods...it's not like a gradual build up, it's instantaneous and could be a reaction to something you just said or the way you said it or something we were thinking and SNAP!!! you've worn it! But just as fast as it happened then it is forgotten too...

libras can be moody and stuff, but that guy is crazy. don't blame it on his sun sign.

AA if you are talking to me....no Libra through and through 🙂

Have never had any aries in me....lol 😛

It is astounding to me when a Capricorn or a Libra comes moaning about how their relationship together didn't work....I mean obvioulsy not.

Libra and Capricorn is one of the biggest zodiac compatibility No-No's ok? Libra and Capricorn doesn't work.

IT DOESN'T WORK

* One more time for the peanut gallery

IT DOESN'T FUCKING WORK!!!!!!

lol. Just don't do it. 🙂

ahh cappy and libra relationship, dayme give me nightmare lol.

Posted by LibraOct1087
It is astounding to me when a Capricorn or a Libra comes moaning about how their relationship together didn't work....I mean obvioulsy not.

Libra and Capricorn is one of the biggest zodiac compatibility No-No's ok? Libra and Capricorn doesn't work.

IT DOESN'T WORK

* One more time for the peanut gallery

IT DOESN'T FUCKING WORK!!!!!!

lol. Just don't do it. 🙂

I was gonna say. OUCH. Libra and Cap. 😢
Sounds like a tragedy waiting to happen.

"Are most Libra men like this?"

tbh, YES.
sorry you had to go through that.

Are most Libra men like this. big Y E S


please... please do not open the door for him.

i'm a Virgo with scorpio influence & air signs are not for me..especially Libra. unless he has a scorpio moon hehe.
sorry to say this.. i never gv a chance when libra men pursued me.
No Libra for me =D they turn me off in every way

Well one, I see the problem here being moreso that him not being able to let go of the past being more of a problem HE has, moreso than ALL Libras having. It is true that Libra men tend to always hold dear those who once meant the world to him. But I think the problem here is that he's already told you AND showed you that he often keeps in contact with those from his past. And I don't even think we need to go into why that's such a big problem for a grown man. It's one thing to hold onto 1 or 2 exes that meant the MOSt in his life, but if this guy is just holding on to any & everybody he's ever dealt with, then I don't know why you're so suprised that he's repeating the same pattern with you! This guy has told & shown you, that even if he doesn't respect or deem a woman worthy to have his heart, he will STILL communicate with them on a regular basis. WELL, that means that now that he's still trying to get into contact with you, it's probably not for the same reason the average guy (who'se not like that) would. It's probably NOT b/c he misses you or realized he made a big mistake in letting you go. After all, when a man comes back UNCHANGED then that's a big indication that he's not taking personal responsibility for his wrongdoings & faults, thus if he's allowed the access back into those women's life after he's proven over & over again that he'll still be the same, it then becomes THEIR fault just as much. This guy is very insecure & he has problems with baggage. He has problems with his head & his heart, which are often probably never on the same page, which is probably the reason all of his relationships never get closure. I say, just leave this guy alone or else you'll just become another woman in the cycle that he's created in his life. If you don't want him anymore, then let him keep writing you BUT just keep ignoring him. He'll get the point. After all, he's prob. got 4 other girls that WILL eventually respond to him b/c that's what he's used to. And quite frankly, that's the PROBLEM. He might be a good person, BUT how you 2 started off (someone had to leave someone just for you two to be together) was already a red flag that the relationship wasn't going to last very long, so just take the loss & move on. Let those other dummies have him & keep entertaining him. YOU though, are too good for this. Go get a man that knows how to let the X's stay ex's. Go find a man who only entertains you, the person that did NOT hurt him