astrology synastry help. ascendant. please! :(

I'm really worried because I read the chart of one site that said I had a sun conjunct. Ascendant but then another site that said I had a sun trine ascendant and I heard you need the conjunct to help show the longevity and longterm love of the relationship. My birthday 03/19/1994 born in Fairfield CA at 5:45 pm him 06/20/1992 in woodland CA at 4:34 pm .

Heres the site that said we have the conjunct.

http://astromatrix.org/Astrology/SynastryChart

Here's the one that says we have the trine

http://sasstrology.com/free-astrology-tools/synastry_line.php

Sorry I added this question twice. I don't know how to delete one.

Yea thank you! It is good to know about myself. Yes I do need to learn to read it but why do you think I shouldn't care to much about what I read? 🙂

Soooo true completely see what your saying. Thank you so much! That really helped me out.