capricorn women ... have feelings too

Recently, I've just started reading my astrologic profile. The capricorn woman has a very hardcore depiction. Indeed, like most signs I can be strong in certain aspects of my life, but I can be very emotional (ultra-emotional). I also read that most capricorn women have a tendency to attract weak men and are unlucky in love ... wow that sucks for someone like me, jeez I'm only a 21 year old college student. In all honest I wouldn't mind having someone with alittle backbone, but if needed me to be his "rock" (so to speak) I wouldn't mind that either. And since I'm supposely unlucky with men (aka cancer man ... darn him, I haven't heard from him in three weeks), then why do I love them so much! LOL. But seriously, I think most cappy females(and maybe the others too) want realness from the opposite sex. Most guys that I've had relationships with (not counting that cancer "friend") just can't be honest ... I'm not your "good time" girl, like a solid relationship with love, stablity, and compromise. I don't think that difficult for any women to ask for. What do you think?

Of course Capricorn ladies have feelings... I'm very sensitive and unlucky when it comes to love. Guys seem to be afraid of me.. it's strange.. hmm

Hope everything works out with your cancer friend.

What does that mean? Tendancy to attract weak men? I've read that before too....

maybe because we 'appear' strong and confident that men who aernt so strong find us comforting. Not something i like the sounds of, Im happy to play the woman, i want him to be the man!

blackgoat Guys seem to be afraid of me.. it's strange.. hmm

same here!!!! men im interested in never seem to feel the same way, its very sad... maybe because we are into them we act to suggests that we aernt interested, 'aloof' if you like, i do that alot 😢 im trying to break the habit

"maybe because we 'appear' strong and confident that men who aernt so strong find us comforting. Not something i like the sounds of, Im happy to play the woman, i want him to be the man!"

Hmm... I personally would have thought being strong and confident would scare off weak men, with timid, shy and easy influenced girls being attractive to the less manly bloke.

Blackgoat:"Hope everything works out with your cancer friend."

Thank you for the support. We are just friends because it would be too mcuh chaos to be anything else at this point. I'm just there when he needs a friend and NOT "a bed buddy" 😉

sb: "I totally agree. But then I think we cap women try so hard to be self sufficient that send the wrong message accross. Or so me thinks."

This is very true, I can come accross as being very self-sufficient but that's because I like to be able to take care of my self instead of being independent and needy. However, I've realized that I cannot be as independent as I want to be because I'm not worldly each.

pdragon:"maybe because we 'appear' strong and confident that men who aernt so strong find us comforting."

Oh my goodness this could be very true. I tried being with a man with a stronger personality than I (a scorpio) and he was a bully. So I'm satisfied with the men I attract ... as long as they are faithful 😉

cap:"A cappri girl has three shells
Top most shell: Docile,Vulnerable,Sweet and innocent
Second Shell: Strong,Not so emotional,Selfish,Ambitious,.....
Third:Sensitve,Caring,Loving,Passionate...Sometimes not so confident,Wanted to be told she is desirable,is loved
Peole at first know her by her first shell,they get shock after they see her second shell very few are wise enough to be able to see her third shell."

That was very clever!!! Cappy women he all three of these shells but it takes someone very special to see our third shell ... we just can't show that shell to every man or else they will take advantage of us. 😉

cap,

It would be nice to find a guy like that. He doesn't have to be as strong as an Ox emotionally. I'll be his backbone if he could be my rock 😉

I'm sure Caps girels are sweet and all that jazz...but the main fact that they are known for being the gold diggers of the zodiac, and are HEAVILY attracted to money, that the actual person.....I think I would rather be with a gemini 8-)

I personally have NEVER been attracted to a guy with money, i always prefered someone in my own class. A family member is quite wealthy and its made him into an obsessive, paranoid person who thinks everyone is after his money and are trying to screw him over to get it... even his family!!!! (FYI Hes a Sagittarius)

I have always been afraid of finding someone with that kind of obsession and insecurity for money.

All i want is someone whos willing to do what it takes for stability, not status.

pdragon: "I have always been afraid of finding someone with that kind of obsession and insecurity for money."

All i want is someone whos willing to do what it takes for stability, not status.

EXACTLY pdragon, totally agree with you 🙂 I don't know who Evo Fish has encountered but that cappy had to have some other elements in her chart ... she wasn't your normal cappy female. Why on earh do we have to be gold-diggers? Shoot, we can make our own WITHOUT the assistance of some arrogant, pompus jerk who believes that 'money' will get him some butt and sees that it gets him nothing but loniness in the end.

Most men belittle women like cappies because we refuse to be dependant. Sure Evo, she probably took your money but most cappies are opportuntists -- why wouldn't she —

LOL, if I had an idiot that offered me money ... LOL, I'll take it! BUT, BUT, BUT! Once, it's given to me ... I'm sill not obligated to do anything!!! It's my body an mine alone. I will feel like a cheap piece of meat to except money in exchange for "relations" ... ewwwww! Sorry, a man has to put down an "emotionally" higher payment than that!

Man, always complainting about situations they create ... jeeezzz. Leave us cappies alone 😉

Cappysweetie,

Loneliness is right! The obsession that some guys have that money wins them friends and happiness is just sad. I should start a human train and sing. "You don?t win friends with dollars! You don?t win friends with dollars!" 😄

I hear stories of guys buying women jewellery, clothes and even CARS! Just because they think, they will get some. Sad to say the least, unwilling to do a little hard work with something called charm and personality.

An I agree with you, many men belittle women like cappies because we refuse to be dependant, they are just insecure about themselves and afraid they will look whipped in front of their mates.

Down here in Oz, men are virtually married to their male friends and vb (beer). I have found that without a stubbie in their hand, your hard pressed for the ozzie male to make the first move and especially in they REALLY like you. No confidences around the ladies without grog (alcohol) in their system especially if you are self made and have a good head on your shoulders.

pdragon: "Down here in Oz, men are virtually married to their male friends and vb (beer). I have found that without a stubbie in their hand, your hard pressed for the ozzie male to make the first move and especially in they REALLY like you. No confidences around the ladies without grog (alcohol) in their system especially if you are self made and have a good head on your shoulders."

I couldn't agree with you more pdragon 🙂

Don't worry, it's the same here in the U.S. Most men are very into what they see on the television or in magazines that they except every women to be an emulation of that image. You have to be 80% false (with you body and your mind) for a man to make the first move -- so their have no confidence with the ladies unless they see a false image. It are hardworking and ambitious, that's looked upon as trying to one-up a man. Most men will not admit this because it isn't considered politically correct but quite a few feel this way. If they don't feel intimidation, they feel that you should take care of them! Hahaha, now we both know that's laughable.

sb:"I call those women, the assembled Girl."

YES! You, Branh, and I spoke about that a month and a half age hehehe. Geeeezzz, I was soooo crazy over that cancer wasn't I? We didn't you just tell me I was being stupid sb .... 🙂

I do think most people confuse our need to be financially secure to make a family etc as gold digging. Which really isn't the case.

This is true. Honestly, I think if 50% of the men had their way ... women would be totally dependent on them ... and them alone. OMG, I would detest having to live that way. Kinda reminds me of the play "Trifles", poor woman 🙂

Well, we live in this day and time. We just have to keep running our mouths so life can stay ... well not exactly fair ... but better than it use to be 😉

Cap women have very sensitive feelings, especially when their hand is looking for your wallet...

You know what I find curious ... the only men I have met who were worried about Gold Diggers were/are men without real money or power ... usually middle-manager types. Men who make tons of money are very, very good at sizing people up ... that is how they made their money in the first place. If you travel in these circles, it is very clear who is who. It is very interesting.

Of course, if you have limited resources you can't afford to lose. Men who are wealthy will weed out the diggers with a pre-nup.

softcookie: "Cap women have very sensitive feelings, especially when their hand is looking for your wallet..."

What? Hahaha, that's SUCH bull-shit ......

ls:"If you travel in these circles, it is very clear who is who. It is very interesting."

The wealthy people (both men and women) seem to go for VERY artifical types. My conclusion on that would be that it's easier to an "assembled" man or woman, then it is to have something real.

An "assembled" person will turn you all that you want to hear and satisfy you in the most INCRDIBLLE WAYS, if they will be WELL taken care. Haha, there's nothing real about there affections, they just wan to live the good life.

Most people who are considerably wealthy or who are considered unique/ geniuses happen to be the most LONEY people 😢 ... that's why they go for "assembled" people ... to boost their ego or to make themselves look and feel good around others.

Hahaha, it funny but Donald Trump is a really good example ... he wants women who will say YES to him ... take a look at the women he chooses to date and marry 😉

Perhaps intelligent people don't suffer fools gladly as much, or that those who accumulate wealth and power are Machiavelian types who note that the majority of the human race are rather plebby and simple in nature.

capricious,

You have a point, I like your perception. I have voiced what you have posted before ... but I get called high-minded or arrogant because of it. LOL!!!!!! figures 😉

cappy women are the sweetest people i know🙂

How do you think,

Can you easily seperate a good person from a bad person?

cappy women are the sweetest people i know 🙂


...We love you too!!!

"I'm sure Caps girels are sweet and all that jazz...but the main fact that they are known for being the gold diggers of the zodiac, and are HEAVILY attracted to money,"

IMO, that stereotype is false. I am not materialistic (I can't stand materialistic people), don't care if a guy is poor (all men I dated were poor), and I make my own money so I don't depend on a man for money (no gold-digging here). So unless you get to know a person well, don't stereotype, we are all different.

Agreeing with CapGirl 1000% !!!

My love has fellings, I just know it and feel it all the time, I only agraid if she dont want me anymore.

cap:"A cappri girl has three shells
Top most shell: Docile,Vulnerable,Sweet and innocent
Second Shell: Strong,Not so emotional,Selfish,Ambitious,.....
Third:Sensitve,Caring,Loving,Passionate...Sometimes not so confident,Wanted to be told she is desirable,is loved
Peole at first know her by her first shell,they get shock after they see her second shell very few are wise enough to be able to see her third shell."

This is the absolute truth!!! OMG! This me to a tee!Hi5! Takes a HELL of a MAN to get to the deep side of me...

@splitnconfused,

Your mother seems to be good at what matters the most, which is her families well being. All of the other stuff is naturally human, as we all have our good and bad. Nobody is perfect, including Capricorns, so for you to list their not-so-good qualities and judge them solely on that is not fair. Bad things can be said about even the nicest signs of the zodiac, but really, all that matters is that she's good to you and puts her family first. I've always disliked that people, even my family, judged me on superficial things, as if any of that really mattered. The loyalty that I have for my family, the depths and pits I will travel with them to just be there and boost them back up compares to none. I don't care what nobody says. To be judged on the fact that I'm saying a firm NO to watching the kids, and NO for borrowing money for your wants, and NO to wearing my clothes, or for lecturing you too harshly on what we all know is right, is silly, but I'm a Cap and will be called a bad or evil person for this. In my mind what matters most is that I can sense an internal problem from a mile away and I have the patience, strength, and love to help you completely through it, and I find that none of these people, the same that think I'm so mean, can sense anything I go through.

I think my Cappie grandmother is the sweetest ever, but her two Cancer children struggled with her lack of emotion. She was a single parent, and raised six kids who didn't want for anything. Went to college on the weekends, graduated in four years, and worked full-time during the week. She retired from her job after 40+ yrs, and she did her part as a mother, I know. We all want our mothers to be perfect, but that's impossible. The two Cancers wanted more of a warm motherly mother, but my Cappie grandmother couldn't provide that, but she did her absolute best, and they are a tight-knit, loving family til this day. Unbreakable, because of her strength. That's all you can ask for in the end..

"I'm sure there are some wonderful cappy women out there, I just haven't had much luck with them.."

I know you are not judging all Cap women, but that sentence right there made it seem as though you've judged the two you've known. Even that "we all make our mistakes, some bigger than others" make it seem as though you view your mothers mistakes worse than the mistakes of other mothers. I still don't see anything you've written about them, especially your mother, suggest that they are anything less than wonderful women. Just because she isn't emotional, or is not the best at expressing emotions, doesn't mean that she's not sensitive. She seems to know what you need and seems to provide that. I've said before that we are not the best at what others want, and unfortunately, you seem to want her to be someone she's not. Not being emotionally expressive is not the worst in the world, and does not mean she doesn't have emotions. She just choose not to share them. You've written enough, for me, to suggest that she's wonderful. You just gotta except your mom for who she is.

I have an Aqua mother, and she's emotional and expresses her own feelings, but she is clueless to what my sister and I feel. Always have been, but I can't complain anymore. She is who she is, and does the best she can. I've come to understand that.

splitnconfused,

I wont hide what I wrote, but I did just realize this thread is about Cappy women and their feelings, and you were just giving your experience on how your mother expressed hers. Sorry about going off on a tangent there. I still think your mother sounds wonderful, but I do see that what you were saying is more in-tune with the thread title. My apologies.

Posted by SoftCookie
Cap women have very sensitive feelings, especially when their hand is looking for your wallet...

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL OMGGGGGGG LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLO

'And out of all the earth signs they're probably the most empathetic about my emotions. Like they *tolerate* my Pisces-ness better?'

Caps can do that with Pi's, yes, which is why they are a match with Pi's...but screw us over/play games and u'd be history in a heartbeat.

We do show a hardened reserved shell UNTIL u get to know us on a deeper level imo...so i agree with the 3 shells, and from there..

You wont find 2 caps exactly the same..u have to look at their overall synastry. An example, I have Pi in venus which means I belong to the world and love all people w/out boundaries. If I had money to spare, I'd give it away if i thought someone needed it more. Mars in scorp..speaks for itself and gets me in trouble..lol.

Hey everyone...im cap,and i have feelings. Believe it or not.
Weird how i stopped being guarded,and started being open. I dnt knw where it started,but i stil get to choose who i let into the most fragile part. People know me as this fragile compassionate person-but if i need to disconnect at that moment,i will. If its an important matter,emotions aside,and i get down to business. But i have feelings. Capzxrock heheheHey everyone...im cap,and i have feelings. Believe it or not.
Weird how i stopped being guarded,and started being open. I dnt knw where it started,but i stil get to choose who i let into the most fragile part. People know me as this fragile compassionate person-but if i need to disconnect at that moment,i will. If its an important matter,emotions aside,and i get down to business. But i have feelings. Capzxrock hehehe

lol.

I'm sure there are women like that out there, but me and my capricorn friends are not amongst them. I have seen this trait in some pisces and taurus women, though.

Capricorns are willing to actually work money; for it which is different to taurus, which is happy as long as it stable by what ever means.
Capricorns are aware of the effect if you rely on somebody to much, and sometimes what others expect is unrealistic.
Because if you keep giving, theres nothing left to give anymore. Sometimes there are those people that keep asking for more and more.

Long term though, it's hard to full fill those desires because they are unrealistic and have a heavy downfall once in it. Whereas Capricorns go in slowly, and are reserved. They'ld rather work towards the romance, then have a romance based on nothing. Doesn't mean theres no emotions; just no connection, at the beginning because each friendship has to be built, to hold grounding. which is why it's so easy to personally insult or fight first year in a relationship.

The only problem being. I have Capricorn on moon. I usually attract males that are more emotional then I care be. This can be a problem, or you can see it as a Balance. I struggled with this earlier on because the males I met would expect a lot, but I didn't realise it actually balances my emotions, which I'ld rather ignore and keep busy and focused on my goal. Sometimes though when it's necessary to turn to someone and show emotions, and when there are times when it's really not appropriate, It may not actually resolve the issue. Because it is a personal conflict from the other. While you can be their for them, you cannot fix their problem, because they have to face it. Problem is Capricorns see this, due to their upbringing. they also see how it hurts others and what types of life challenges can manifest.
In an objective view, this is seen as manipulative, cold, and distant, not caring.