Do you think ?

Do you think astrology has made your relationship better and easy going ?i think persons knowing about it act differently with the other incompatible signs ?any experiences ?

Astrology plays a small factor of a relationship reason being; personalities r centered around the sign ur born under. when u r picking a long term partner u should definitly consider their sign. It will help in the long run.

Definitely ...... people make immediate assessments, aka judgements, about everything.


We see it, or hear it, or whatever kind of acknowledge respectfully and then we form our opinion of it, based purly on assessed judgements.



Haven't you ever had a boyfriend to whom you adored and then a month later you hated his guts? He didn't change ..... he wasn't a nice guy a month ago and now he's a dickhead .... he was always a dickhead, it's just that you made an assessed judgement of him based on your immediate observation of him.


Same thing with astrology ...... you meet a person, find out their sun, and straight away, you have already started to calculate in your mind your opinions and judgements of what kind of a person he is.

I do it all the time .... as soon as I find out the other person is a Cancer, they cease to exist to me, and are forever irrelevant to me as having any importance ..... regardless of actual character traits.

even though i take an interest in this stuff, i don't ever treat someone differently by knowing their sign. that's stupid. u could miss out on an amazing connection (or lesson) by doing that. i am a leo but i have a great cancer and pisces friend. most of my friends are earth signs too.

i think that it has definetly helped me understand the people in my life. it is not a deal breaker by any means; it's a tool. it just heighten's the senses a bit ;]

Since i knew about astrology i had better connection with air signs though not completely compatible on the level of relationship.though being cancer i get very well along with Leo and sag

"I do it all the time .... as soon as I find out the other person is a Cancer, they cease to exist to me, and are forever irrelevant to me as having any importance ..... regardless of actual character traits."

I'm that way with gemini's, particularily the male ones.

but seriously, yes it's not a deal breaker as mentioned above, but it helps give possible insight. i always try to give the benefit of the doubt, but i keep it in mind. it has helped me understand people better though which makes me more patient with them and willing to overlook certain things. but i do tend to make it a point to not get involved with gemini's. i am biased about that.

I do it all the time .... as soon as I find out the other person is a Cancer, they cease to exist to me, and are forever irrelevant to me as having any importance ..... regardless of actual character traits.

ROFLMAO 🙂

I make a sincere effort not to let astrology affect my relationships with people...because I've formed deep connections with people I wasn't even supposed to be compatible with, astrologically speaking.
(A pisces male, for example - never felt more connected with anyone in my life. I swear, even to this day, that we were soulmates. It's sad he got stuck in the friendzone.)

I have to admit, once I do find out someone is one of my zodiac "favorites," it will stay in the back of my head - often stabbing at my brain.
& of course, if/when they do something obnoxious, it will be because they are a gemini/cancer/etc, and they can't help it. Lol. 🙂





I try not to be an astro-snob, though.

Well, taking into consideration that other person's FULL chart, I do believe that it does help. Just like I can read my own chart & it's descriptions & be completely amazed at the accuracy, I'm sure the same accuracy applies to the descriptions of our loved ones when it comes to their charts. I believe astrology is helpful, in that it can give you insight into what challenges, struggles, weaknesses, etc. MIGHT present themselves in the relationship. Hey, if their chart really does describe them to a tee then how could we look at any of these "fore warnings" as a negative thing.

The problem comes when people center their whole sense of who's worthy of loving, based on the concept of astrology. Some people just simply take things too far. Because there are so many other factors that contribute to personality & the conscious, it's virtually impossible to give astrology all of the credit when we all know dozens of other factors contribute too.

For example, I've studied about Aquarians quite well & how they deal with relationship struggles with other people in different signs. Well, one of the biggest things that was true about me was my Aquarian ability to not be as affectionate as many others in matters of love & relationships. While studying Aquarian compatibility with other signs, I learned that 2 people who disagree don't necessarily have to both be wrong. In my mind, I see affection as something that only comes out of me at certain times throughout the relationship. The need to give affection only snaps into my mind every blue moon. BUT, when studying how Leo's, for example handle and/or view others who are this way (non affectionate), I learned to see how my Leo was probably taking my non-need for affection as a bad thing. B/c I was aware of my ability to be unnaffectionate without any guilt or understanding of why it was such a big deal, I learned how to communicate these feelings to my partner, to let him know that I acknowledged his confusion about me not being as affection & cuddly as most women. To make a long story short, I told him that I understood how he felt & wanted him to know that me being unnaffectionate was no sign or clue of trouble in the relationship (on my part). Once he understood this, communication was successful in this area & since we now understand eachother's differences, while learning not to take the other partner's lack of something offensive, our relationship has kicked up a notch.

And in this scenario, I was thankful to astrology & my understanding of its teaching. How you see yourself may not be how others see you. What you see in the mirror may not be what others see. And astrology is basically another way for us to see how OTHERS see us & view us.