Dxp vent

I need to dxp vent to all you strangers.

He went on a work trip with his business partner/ gay best friend the other day, and has told me today that it isn’t going to work because he wants to be with this guy. I’m not hurt that he’s gay or bisexual, just hurt that my feelings i are/were a pawn.

My aqua bestie has sent me this song to keep me from jumping off a proverbial cliff.

Shit....

But look on the bright side...at least he tells you now instead of continuing to hide it from you.

Posted by Ram416
Shit....

But look on the bright side...at least he tells you now instead of continuing to hide it from you.

Yes, better late than never.

Don't take it as a slight (I know that's easier said than done). Just remember that you have a lot going for you and unfortunately not everyone is going to be on your level. You weren't a pawn, this guy just wasn't brave enough to be honest with you (and apparently himself) until now. Take solace in the fact that you know this information now and that things didn't drag on further into the future.

You were simply too good for him. Time to upgrade.

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Was he having sex with him and you at the same time

If so I would take take him to the cleaners

That's disgusting

I don’t know, I bet he was. It’s time to retest again. Bleh 😖

Posted by ItsMeRoman
I'd ask some questions before accepting this fate lol.

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How long as he known he wanted to be with him?

Has he been sexual with him?

If so, how often?

When did he realize he was invested in him?

I think you have a right to know some details. It'll help you close the relationship up. If you just take your pride and walk away you'll never know what came of this story or how it came to be. I've walked away from relationships without ever looking further into its demise and I've always had issues with those relationships the most.

I want to ask questions but he’s too much of a pussy to talk about it right now and is probably still whispering sweet nothings into this guys ear. It’s fucking with me but I have so much pride to say much about it ! I ended up saying fuck you, and if I catch anything I’ll know it was from you. All he had to say is I’m so sorry. If I get the chance I will ask these questions because closure would be nice. I went out tonight and had fun so that has occupied my thoughts.

Posted by Gob_Shite
Was his did was disgusting. He obviously has no consideration for anyone but himself. He's the type of person who's responsible for bisexuals getting such a bad rap.

Please get yourself tested ASAP. I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you.

You’re absolutely right, and I will first thing come Monday. Thank you!