EXCLUSIVE

Hey yall,

Quick question, I recently asked my cancer if we are exclusive he said "Yes, why would you ask me that" I told him " I needed to hear you say it." He said "Well yes."

silly me, I should've just asked if I was his girl. Which i'm still not too sure of. I thought exclusive meant "No outsiders" I'm dating you and your dating me and we are seeing where it goes.

What do you guys think?

lol. Yes i'm the cusper. And could you elaborate on being careful? My best friend is dating a cancer she's a Taurus though, but she always says the same thing. I've always been crazy about him, but he just really gets under my skin sometimes.

@SweetLibra I hope your right. Thanks for the feed back girlie 🙂

Thanks! You keep giving me bits and pieces your reminding me of him, he does that when he's trying to explain how he feels or whats on his mind. lol.

I'm a cusper but I also have a moon in pisces if that mean anything. I'm half virgo half Libra, I think I have more libra ways though. How would I take him for granted? My friend says i'm doing too much, he says he wants more O_O. I want to send him cute text, and tell him I miss him every second, but I don't want to overwhelm him. I want to see him everyday but I don't want to smoother him. I don't know how comfortable he is with me yet.

I know what your talking about. Libra's are famous for suddenly changing their mind about a situation, or start to second guess their feelings for a person without warning. However, I would only do that if he starts to change on me first. If he responds to my text, and shows me affection let me know i'm appreciated and it's just us, then I wont change or start flipping the script. But if he crawls into his shell for too long or starts rejecting/ignoring me then yes the Libra in me will retaliate and mirror his actions. I'll start to treat him the same way.

I really like this guy though, so i'm hoping it wont go that route.

Okay. I will. Thanks so much for your replies. I just don't know how to address it. He has this brick wall up it seems when he's around me, he lets loose a little bit, then in a split second he's closed shut again. He wants me to open up and be more all over him, but I cant do it if he doesn't open up to me too. I need that balance. Perhaps I should tell him that huh? But I've read that the more you verbally try to get a cancer man to open up the more he closes up. Is this true?

Thanks Sugarfoot. Cute screen name by the way.lol. Your right, it's just that the person I am urges me to always want to know —whats up?? at —all?? times. If that makes any sense. I don't want to push this Cancer, but urrgghh I hate not knowing when I like someone. When I start liking someone I have a million and one questions I need answers to, so I know that my feelings are safe and wont be hurt. Smh. Of course I know better than to tell a man this, sometimes I just wish I could be honest with someone about my thoughts without them running scared or judging me. Crazy thing is I'm bestfriends with a Cancer and have been for 13 yrs, I can tell him anything. I wish I could have that connection with my current Cancer, but idk. The 13 yrs, developed when we were kids.

Wow. That's great. Thanks for your input. Your making me feel better by the second. Do you mind if I inbox you our background. I'm not a fan of the awful long post on the threads lol. There's a bit more to the story.

Also I should add, that I've often told my Cancer that he comes off mean and that he has this hard exterior. I told him I've only seen him show compassion and anytype of softness to the women in his family. Everyone gets rocks including me.
😢 That's how I feel.

K! Thanks, it should be in there.