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This guy ive been friends with is acting distant and out of character and wont tell me whats wrong.. im at a point that i want no negativity in my life and have also told him that i will also stop talking to him if he disturbs my peace.he hasn’t given me a reason As to y just says he will call back but doesnt or calls back just to say he will and i guess wants me to chase him bcuz he likes me but i dont want him. Should i block him? I dont wanna be a bitch or seem like one cuz im not but i dont want negative vibes in my space...he did get me something 4 vday but that dont mean shit to me bcuz I shouldn’t be treated badly bcuz u did something 4 me

Are you 2 more than friends, because you seem to take this to personal. In my case it would be a benefit if anyone in my circle flake off because it would just free up time for others. OP I wouldn't deal with any road blocks to my happiness so I would let him know he's getting a block. Your wasting to much energy imo.....

Lol you are contemplating blocking someone who has already been distant. You have told them as well you will stop talking to them. It sounds like you are dying to get a reaction out of them. Just forget them and move on. You don’t have to respond to them if they try to reach out to you again. Nobody has the ability to disturb your peace unless you choose to let it.

Posted by HearttofTopazz

He doesn’t have to tell you what’s wrong lol. Sounds messy. Its only downhill from here... unless you disappear for a couple days. Let him reach out first. Don’t sit there by the phone either. Take some time for yourself.

I would like him to bcuz i feel like if u fuck with someone u dont have to treat them that way. I mean would u treat ur mother that way.

Posted by LibraSupreme

Are you 2 more than friends, because you seem to take this to personal. In my case it would be a benefit if anyone in my circle flake off because it would just free up time for others. OP I wouldn't deal with any road blocks to my happiness so I would let him know he's getting a block. Your wasting to much energy imo.....

Exactly thank u. An ex that cheated and wanted me back

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Posted by HearttofTopazz

He doesn’t have to tell you what’s wrong lol. Sounds messy. Its only downhill from here... unless you disappear for a couple days. Let him reach out first. Don’t sit there by the phone either. Take some time for yourself.

I would like him to bcuz i feel like if u fuck with someone u dont have to treat them that way. I mean would u treat ur mother that way.

Lmfaoooo u r funny

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Posted by HearttofTopazz

He doesn’t have to tell you what’s wrong lol. Sounds messy. Its only downhill from here... unless you disappear for a couple days. Let him reach out first. Don’t sit there by the phone either. Take some time for yourself.

I would like him to bcuz i feel like if u fuck with someone u dont have to treat them that way. I mean would u treat ur mother that way.

Lmfaoooo u r funny

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Update!!!!! I just talked to him he has a baby on the way!!!! Yayyyy!!!!!! 🥰

Posted by GirlygirlNadia

It's your call if you do block him it's not like you have to tell him 🤷‍♀️

He has a baby on the way.

Posted by SassyKiwi

Lol you are contemplating blocking someone who has already been distant. You have told them as well you will stop talking to them. It sounds like you are dying to get a reaction out of them. Just forget them and move on. You don’t have to respond to them if they try to reach out to you again. Nobody has the ability to disturb your peace unless you choose to let it.

He has a baby on the way.

Posted by LibraSupreme

Are you 2 more than friends, because you seem to take this to personal. In my case it would be a benefit if anyone in my circle flake off because it would just free up time for others. OP I wouldn't deal with any road blocks to my happiness so I would let him know he's getting a block. Your wasting to much energy imo.....

He has a baby on the way.

Posted by MissKrabs

Idk everyone is feeling weird right now.

He has a baby on the way.

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Posted by GirlygirlNadia

It's your call if you do block him it's not like you have to tell him 🤷‍♀️

He has a baby on the way.

Huh?

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I just finally talked to him and he said he has a baby on the way

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Posted by GirlygirlNadia

It's your call if you do block him it's not like you have to tell him 🤷‍♀️

He has a baby on the way.

Huh?

I just finally talked to him and he said he has a baby on the way

U decided not to block him?

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He called before i did

Girl. Leave him alone. you don't have to block. Let him have his space, focus on you. when he comes back let him explain. If he doesn't actions speak louder than words. you will have your answer.

Posted by Accountz

This guy ive been friends with is acting distant and out of character and wont tell me whats wrong.. im at a point that i want no negativity in my life and have also told him that i will also stop talking to him if he disturbs my peace.he hasn’t given me a reason As to y just says he will call back but doesnt or calls back just to say he will and i guess wants me to chase him bcuz he likes me but i dont want him. Should i block him? I dont wanna be a bitch or seem like one cuz im not but i dont want negative vibes in my space...he did get me something 4 vday but that dont mean shit to me bcuz I shouldn’t be treated badly bcuz u did something 4 me

Huh 🤔 I don’t follow.

How is he disturbing your peace just cause he isn’t sharing what’s bothering him?

Seems like the opposite is happening, your disturbing his peace by badgering him for answers he’s clearly not ready to give.

Ever thought that what he’s going thru is private and not something he’s willing to share with you at this point in the friendship.

You call him your friend. So be a friend back and stop nagging him. Be chill.

Ok read through the thread.

So dude isn’t a friend he’s an ex with a baby on the way. Block and move on from this dude. He can’t offer you anything worth having.