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Astrological Factors Influencing Family Ties
Astrology can reveal emotional goals related to family by analyzing the fourth house and moon placements. These chart aspects influence your desire to cut ties or strengthen family relationships. Understanding these elements helps clarify your emotional priorities and what drives your family connections.
does having 4th house in sag make one feel this way?
does having 4th house in sag make one feel this way?
Which planets are in there?
does having 4th house in sag make one feel this way?
Which planets are in there?
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birth time is not exact
which may make the uranus and neptune border the 4th and 5th
family (especially elders, seem particularly suffocating)
with your family
is there something in the chart that will make you feel as if that's
your ultimate emotional goal?
Is your ultimate emotional goal being emotional healthy and your family is not?
I have done extreme distance ... the slowly allowed them back in based on my strength and growth.
Never completely cut off. I'm a softy and loyal.
Happy 62 dayyyyyyssss laydeeee ! ☺😙
i'm planning to move in to another country
while pretending how it's 'such a sacrifice to be away from family'
very convenient that i'm in love rn and doing business
Hmm! My older bro loves cutting ties with family members he considers fake or embarrassing. He has sun in Cap. Moon and mercury in Sag. Venus and Mars in Aqua.
Lets compare any common placements.
with your family
is there something in the chart that will make you feel as if that's
your ultimate emotional goal?
Is your ultimate emotional goal being emotional healthy and your family is not?
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a family member made a statement, so selfish and damning to... well, everything for me.
i know it seems crazy to base a life-changing decision on one statement but this is really the last straw for me. there's been a build up of resentment over the years and i admit i'm overly-sensitive but i can't live with it anymore.
can't change people and there's nothing else i can do to reverse the situation. and the only solutions left deeply disgusts me.
now i can completely embrace the role of lovestruck fool, the new slate that would be my ultimate scapegoat. 2 birds with a single stone.
maybe i'll stop being so resentful and emotional about it after a couple of years.
Hmm! My older bro loves cutting ties with family members he considers fake or embarrassing. He has sun in Cap. Moon and mercury in Sag. Venus and Mars in Aqua.
Lets compare any common placements.
that's a similar chart to my cap sun/pisces moon boyfriend
but he's the one who wants me to try to mend ties
oh well, my 2nd dom sign in pullen now is capricorn
I have done extreme distance ... the slowly allowed them back in based on my strength and growth.
Never completely cut off. I'm a softy and loyal.
Happy 62 dayyyyyyssss laydeeee ! ☺😙
i'm planning to move in to another country
while pretending how it's 'such a sacrifice to be away from family'
very convenient that i'm in love rn and doing business
Awww congrats .... well that's different ! Your on way your way to build your own family with your partner. That becomes the number priority.
Sometimes the best way to support family is take care of yourself and be happy !🙂
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maybe i'll disappear for 2 years
that's a good enough time
just in time for my first saturn return
with your family
is there something in the chart that will make you feel as if that's
your ultimate emotional goal?
Is your ultimate emotional goal being emotional healthy and your family is not?
a family member made a statement, so selfish and damning to... well, everything for me.
i know it seems crazy to base a life-changing decision on one statement but this is really the last straw for me. there's been a build up of resentment over the years and i admit i'm overly-sensitive but i can't live with it anymore.
can't change people and there's nothing else i can do to reverse the situation. and the only solutions left deeply disgusts me.
now i can completely embrace the role of lovestruck fool, the new slate that would be my ultimate scapegoat. 2 birds with a single stone.
maybe i'll stop being so resentful and emotional about it after a couple of years.
click to expand
What is the root issue that escalated into resentment in the first place? If you feel the need to cut them off then it's your life but I would reconsider holding onto that crap inside you. Total waste of time and can end up becoming a trigger someone can run into later down the road.
with your family
is there something in the chart that will make you feel as if that's
your ultimate emotional goal?
Is your ultimate emotional goal being emotional healthy and your family is not?
a family member made a statement, so selfish and damning to... well, everything for me.
i know it seems crazy to base a life-changing decision on one statement but this is really the last straw for me. there's been a build up of resentment over the years and i admit i'm overly-sensitive but i can't live with it anymore.
can't change people and there's nothing else i can do to reverse the situation. and the only solutions left deeply disgusts me.
now i can completely embrace the role of lovestruck fool, the new slate that would be my ultimate scapegoat. 2 birds with a single stone.
maybe i'll stop being so resentful and emotional about it after a couple of years.
What is the root issue that escalated into resentment in the first place? If you feel the need to cut them off then it's your life but I would reconsider holding onto that crap inside you. Total waste of time and can end up becoming a trigger someone can run into later down the road.
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it doesn't matter what led me here
i've tried to fix it and i feel like i'm just being fake to keep the peace
gotta isolate myself away from these people
that's when i'll stop feeling this way
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with your family
is there something in the chart that will make you feel as if that's
your ultimate emotional goal?