Xin
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Gemini Ex
I know! I don't know what the hell just happened but I keep sitting here thinking wow is he trying to live vicariously through his girlfriend who happens to look like me because he lost me? What are the chances? I just know that this can't be something completely random.
I am so sorry. : ( That is kind of actually creepy. It seems like he's almost delusional, doing things that remind him of you and getting a girlfriend that is similar. I don't really know him, but it seems like he may be in dire need of a therapist. No doubt he has some mental/emotional issues of some sort that need to be taken care of. He could also be doing these things unconsciously, like getting the same type of car or going after people just like you, but either way, it seems unhealthy.
If I were you, I would try to get him out of my life as much as I could. I'm the paranoid type, so I'd probably imagine him losing it and trying to make forceful, unwanted advances on me. Don't know how you think he rates on the danger zone, but there is no instance that I would think it would be in your best interest to start talking to him again.
He may actually be a really nice and non-delusional guy, but from the info you've given, it sounds like he's not someone you should deal with.
Also, I did mention I'm paranoid, so you should listen to other people's opinions, too. They might be a little more realistic. Haha.
If I were you, I would try to get him out of my life as much as I could. I'm the paranoid type, so I'd probably imagine him losing it and trying to make forceful, unwanted advances on me. Don't know how you think he rates on the danger zone, but there is no instance that I would think it would be in your best interest to start talking to him again.
He may actually be a really nice and non-delusional guy, but from the info you've given, it sounds like he's not someone you should deal with.
Also, I did mention I'm paranoid, so you should listen to other people's opinions, too. They might be a little more realistic. Haha.
@Scenic
Oh I am totally paranoid though. He used to show up all the time super drunk late at night knocking on my door begging to come in. Four years of that stuff. Anyways, it just seems really strange to me. He literally lives one street down south of me. I am like okay? Then he found out that I had a certain type of car and bought same brand. His girlfriend does look or shares the same features. Then today he talks to me and hes like giving me a picture perfect view of his life. Of course I got mad and I was very surprised. Things can't be that good right now. Or maybe he's just doing it to make me mad I have no idea.
Oh I am totally paranoid though. He used to show up all the time super drunk late at night knocking on my door begging to come in. Four years of that stuff. Anyways, it just seems really strange to me. He literally lives one street down south of me. I am like okay? Then he found out that I had a certain type of car and bought same brand. His girlfriend does look or shares the same features. Then today he talks to me and hes like giving me a picture perfect view of his life. Of course I got mad and I was very surprised. Things can't be that good right now. Or maybe he's just doing it to make me mad I have no idea.
Yeah oh btw. His girlfriend is a property manager and hes a mortgage loan officer now. And guess what I do? I am in accounting for a MORTGAGE/PROPERTY MANAGEMENT firm. Yeah okay what the hell.
Ok so I'm not crazy right? I mean what is this? My friend seems to think I am but there is NO WAY. No way. Even with the same dang jobs! WTH!
No, I don't think you're crazy. If I told this to my friends, they'd think it was really creepy, too.
What do you plan to do about him? Are you going to keep talking to him?
What do you plan to do about him? Are you going to keep talking to him?
Probably not. I'm a bit freaked out. What if I run into him!!! So ill be looking all around when I get home.
Some days I do that anyways but this was before he started talking to me. Definitely stalked me for four years then left me alone for a while, now hes back with all these weird things going on. I joked about how he was copying me. And he is like "ha ha ha no...." Yeah sure. I wouldn't put it past him that he did that so he could possibly catch me at the Target I go to or god knows where and try to talk to me. Last time he wrote me about 6 months ago he asked me if we could meet up for a drink. WTH? Don't you HAVE a girlfriend. Then I took down my pictures on my FB. And put up some random thing and he is like "put pictures up". Heck no. I'm sure that's how he found me in the first place. Uhhhh!
Some days I do that anyways but this was before he started talking to me. Definitely stalked me for four years then left me alone for a while, now hes back with all these weird things going on. I joked about how he was copying me. And he is like "ha ha ha no...." Yeah sure. I wouldn't put it past him that he did that so he could possibly catch me at the Target I go to or god knows where and try to talk to me. Last time he wrote me about 6 months ago he asked me if we could meet up for a drink. WTH? Don't you HAVE a girlfriend. Then I took down my pictures on my FB. And put up some random thing and he is like "put pictures up". Heck no. I'm sure that's how he found me in the first place. Uhhhh!
I know right. Well yeah I'm just like super nervous of seeing him cause that whole fiasco gave me like anxiety a lot. Anyways it seems that he is not over me just another thing I noticed again for the 2nd time. *sigh*
@Decan
Actually I agree with you. That's why I just vanished and stopped talking to him. I was like *poker face* backing away slowly...LOL
Actually I agree with you. That's why I just vanished and stopped talking to him. I was like *poker face* backing away slowly...LOL
Get over yourself, go find someone else.
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