Gemini really does not care?

Fell out with my bestfriend a Gemini and it seems to me like she doesn't care anymore. At first she did and when I tried to apologise and make up she was not letting me she just kept brushing it off but went back to being bitter again, telling all her friends about what happened and just Indirecting me even though I apologised?!

She keeps going on like she doesn't care but does sneaky things to get my attention and I just ignore it, wtf do I do now?
Do geminis really lose interest when they say they do? She's a Gemini with a Gemini moon

When i fall out with someone cause they hurt me or i felt like the betrayed me, they are dead to me, for ever and ever and there is nothing the other person can do to make me go back to how things were :/
I wont ignore you, maybe at first, but after my head is clear again i can go and talk to you and maybe one day hang out, but you will feel my coldness and distance.

I wont accept an apology i don't feel honest, i doesn't matter how many times you do, or how, you can print it on a huge board in the center of the city for everyone to see it... but if i dont feel your honesty, that you are truly sorry, it will only make me feel worst about it.

Ive fall out with 3 BFF in my life...
One of them is another gem and we sorted things out and we are strong as usual
The other one, another gem, we still talk, but nothing is or will be the same.
The other one, a Leo, she hurt me bad, i never again went back to be her friend... she is out of my life since the day i found out she lied to me... She was the one i care about the most...

I tend to cut people off if they hurt, betray, lie to me. I have had a major falling out with my bff of 17 years. After what she did, she's dead to me.
Some people I will give the opportunity to speak and be heard bc I would want the same respect. But they are the ones who didn't do something major.
I have a tendency to be very cold towards people who have hurt me and I just out and out will ignore you. I don't give many chances and if you get one and burn me- your done.
You may want to write your bff a letter. Break it down. I am very analytical. The more you delve into something, I am able to see things from your perspective, it helps your case. Tell her how you feel, how you've noticed her coldness and the little games she is playing to get your attention. Be completely blunt and forward. A letter may help. Then just leave it alone. Once you've said what you need to say you will feel better and she will see what she is doing. Let her come to you after that. It may not be immediate. But she will. Connections us gems make are important to us. We love hard and care deeply. Give her a handwritten detailed letter, then leave it alone. She will come to you. Good luck!!!

Posted by GeminiGem
I tend to cut people off if they hurt, betray, lie to me. I have had a major falling out with my bff of 17 years. After what she did, she's dead to me.
Some people I will give the opportunity to speak and be heard bc I would want the same respect. But they are the ones who didn't do something major.
I have a tendency to be very cold towards people who have hurt me and I just out and out will ignore you. I don't give many chances and if you get one and burn me- your done.
You may want to write your bff a letter. Break it down. I am very analytical. The more you delve into something, I am able to see things from your perspective, it helps your case. Tell her how you feel, how you've noticed her coldness and the little games she is playing to get your attention. Be completely blunt and forward. A letter may help. Then just leave it alone. Once you've said what you need to say you will feel better and she will see what she is doing. Let her come to you after that. It may not be immediate. But she will. Connections us gems make are important to us. We love hard and care deeply. Give her a handwritten detailed letter, then leave it alone. She will come to you. Good luck!!!

I agree 100% about the letter... in handwriting, is something very personal and she will see your honest intentions and that you are really sorry, then leave her alone and let her come to you...
Good Luck!!

Posted by GeminiGem
I tend to cut people off if they hurt, betray, lie to me. I have had a major falling out with my bff of 17 years. After what she did, she's dead to me.
Some people I will give the opportunity to speak and be heard bc I would want the same respect. But they are the ones who didn't do something major.
I have a tendency to be very cold towards people who have hurt me and I just out and out will ignore you. I don't give many chances and if you get one and burn me- your done.
You may want to write your bff a letter. Break it down. I am very analytical. The more you delve into something, I am able to see things from your perspective, it helps your case. Tell her how you feel, how you've noticed her coldness and the little games she is playing to get your attention. Be completely blunt and forward. A letter may help. Then just leave it alone. Once you've said what you need to say you will feel better and she will see what she is doing. Let her come to you after that. It may not be immediate. But she will. Connections us gems make are important to us. We love hard and care deeply. Give her a handwritten detailed letter, then leave it alone. She will come to you. Good luck!!!

Thanks. I did try but she was very more like whatever about it and proceeded to change conversation then I got a feeling she was still upset with me and she kept making statuses about the situation so I've left her alone, wow geminis can be really heartless can't they lol

We can be, when we are hurting. Our cheeriness hides a lot of pain usually.

A handwritten letter, in my opinion, shows commitment, thought and personal care for the person. You took time to do this just for me. It's special and almost unheard of anymore bc of email, text, social media.
We can't be very vindictive too. I know I have a tendency to be out and out cruel.
Just give her time and give her something to think about. A letter she can hold and read over and over. We gems like to see things. We are show me people. Invest time I. Me and I'll do the same for you.
We like to feel like we are important to you. Just give it a shot! Good luck!

Let me give you an example.

I have been married three times. My first 5 1/2 years. He beat me, cheated on me and treated me like butter. Once I was stable- divorced him. We have two children. I never speak to him. He speaks to his children. I cannot. Even for the kids. Everything is handled legally. He emotionally and physically hurt me. He's dead to me.
My second marriage was 5 1/2 years. I refer to this as my heartbreak. He was a wonderful man. We have no children. He got into an accident and became addicted to prescription medications. He hid it, very well. It progressed into harder drugs. He betrayed my trust, love and devotion. I divorced him. Have him what he needed for help and walked away. Betrayed me. Hid things from me.
We talk still. He is a great friend on the mend and I couldn't be prouder of him. Now has a lovely son and dealing with butter from his mother. He needs support, he knows I'm here.
My third husband, married only 9 months. No children together. Cheater, abuser and liar. I refused to deal with it. Divorced him. I will not live in a situation that is bad for me or mine. He is dead to me.

So you see. It depends on what happens in these relationships. What reaction you get. My best friend slept with my husband. She's dead to me. There is no I'm sorry that can ever heal that wound. I won't even entertain an excuse.

He minis catch a bad rap. But when we love we do it with every fiber of our being and we are so loyal. And when you betray that, we take it so personally. Some of us build walls, some just ignore. I build walls. They can be brought down, but I choose whether or not. I wo t let anyone in. I'm cautious and I tend to push people away that I feel will hurt me. I just cut them off. That's the Virgo placement in me.
You have to give her time. Time can heal some wounds. Let her vent- ignore it. Act like it doesn't bother you. That will also make her question her decision. Because we want to know you care. The minute you do t seem like you care, we get curious.

Posted by estellajones
Fell out with my bestfriend a Gemini and it seems to me like she doesn't care anymore. At first she did and when I tried to apologise and make up she was not letting me she just kept brushing it off but went back to being bitter again, telling all her friends about what happened and just Indirecting me even though I apologised?!

She keeps going on like she doesn't care but does sneaky things to get my attention and I just ignore it, wtf do I do now?
Do geminis really lose interest when they say they do? She's a Gemini with a Gemini moon

Trust me...she cares, but Air signs can detach very quickly when they are hurt and because of our stubborness, rather it's as friends or lovers we will sacrifice a good relationship. Once we form a friendship out of love, we never let you go in our minds and hearts even if we never talk to you again as crazy as that may sound. I will tell you this though, as a young Air sign, we tend to be a lot less understanding and forgiving, but as we get older, we loosen the restraints of our expectations of others because we realize just like we're not perfect, other people are not either. Through our own fault, Air signs just expect a lot from people because most of the time we tend give a lot once we let you into that crazy space of ours. My son is a Gemini and it's amazing how much alike we are. Actually it's a little scary..lol..because I see myself in him all over again as a younger version. But again, trust me, she's thinking about you just as much as you're thinking about her. Air signs are not as cold as you think. We just express ourselves a little differently.

Posted by GeminiGem
Let me give you an example.

I have been married three times. My first 5 1/2 years. He beat me, cheated on me and treated me like butter. Once I was stable- divorced him. We have two children. I never speak to him. He speaks to his children. I cannot. Even for the kids. Everything is handled legally. He emotionally and physically hurt me. He's dead to me.
My second marriage was 5 1/2 years. I refer to this as my heartbreak. He was a wonderful man. We have no children. He got into an accident and became addicted to prescription medications. He hid it, very well. It progressed into harder drugs. He betrayed my trust, love and devotion. I divorced him. Have him what he needed for help and walked away. Betrayed me. Hid things from me.
We talk still. He is a great friend on the mend and I couldn't be prouder of him. Now has a lovely son and dealing with butter from his mother. He needs support, he knows I'm here.
My third husband, married only 9 months. No children together. Cheater, abuser and liar. I refused to deal with it. Divorced him. I will not live in a situation that is bad for me or mine. He is dead to me.

So you see. It depends on what happens in these relationships. What reaction you get. My best friend slept with my husband. She's dead to me. There is no I'm sorry that can ever heal that wound. I won't even entertain an excuse.

He minis catch a bad rap. But when we love we do it with every fiber of our being and we are so loyal. And when you betray that, we take it so personally. Some of us build walls, some just ignore. I build walls. They can be brought down, but I choose whether or not. I wo t let anyone in. I'm cautious and I tend to push people away that I feel will hurt me. I just cut them off. That's the Virgo placement in me.
You have to give her time. Time can heal some wounds. Let her vent- ignore it. Act like it doesn't bother you. That will also make her question her decision. Because we want to know you care. The minute you do t seem like you care, we get curious.

Thank you so much Geminigem, I called someone a name which she is insecure about and she thought it was about her I did try to explain I wasn't saying it about her but she doesn't believe me and I wouldn't believe me too if I was her I just feel hurt that my friendship is over something so pathetic but to her something so important which is why

Geminigem. It's sad to see what you have been through but thank you for the example anyhow, I suppose in your circumstance I can understand why you would cut someone off like that that is really a big betrayal.

I'm a Pisces with Scorpio moon, and I cut people off for any little reason I don't really give second chances :/

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Thank you so much Geminigem, I called someone a name which she is insecure about and she thought it was about her I did try to explain I wasn't saying it about her but she doesn't believe me and I wouldn't believe me too if I was her I just feel hurt that my friendship is over something so pathetic but to her something so important which is why I don't blame her for feeling how she feels.

I added her on my new Facebook before I even knew she fell out with me and she accepted and liked a picture so I was shocked when I found out I had apparently done her wrong.
Also. She has my number still because I can see her on my whatsapp whereas if someone else who she hasn't got in her contacts adds her on whatsapp they can't see anything so maybe there is a chance she hasn't cut me off or maybe I'm just reading too much in to it

Just give it time. Sometimes that's what we need. We do analyze things- a lot.

I don't let my past define me. I feel these things have made me. Stronger woman, better mother, friend, sister, etc.
I choose happiness. As should you.
Just exude love and it will come to you. But in any instance you feel someone doesn't value you or see your worth- value yourself enough to let it go Nd understand they aren't worth your time.

You tube made a speaking about seasonal people. It's a very spot on explanation of the types of relationships in our lives. One of my favorites. _??__??__??__??_

Madea. Darn phone!!!!_??

Bye Estella- the ex husband I am good friends with and was able to forgive Nd forge a fruitful friendship with after that mess----- he's a Pisces!!!!! Like you!

I think it's you, who doesn't really care ... while the Gemini appears to care very much, that's why she feels upset.

You appear to just want to apologize and pretend nothing happened, because in doing that, you don't really have to face how little you care about what you did to her.

A part of being in a relation that is built on trust and respect is NOT saying that in which hurts their feelings. And sometimes it just happens, because you never know what kind of a mood they are in.

In that event, you are supposed to understand that you fucked up, and take responsibility for that fuck up.

You owning up to being at fault isn't present here. In fact, you think it's pathetic that she can't get over It. "It" being your words to her that crushed her.

I can't sense any sincerity in you, in truly caring about her feelings when you verbally hit her below the belt.

Whereas, by virtue of her wanting to release your energy from her surroundings ... is clearly an indication that she cares about what you did.

Bestie gem and I lived together. We had a huge fallout. Mainly miscommunication and immaturity on both sides. Some neighbors made up crap etc. We didn't talk for 6 months. She called out of the blue and I agreed to meet and talk. We got everything worked out. We're more close than before.

Good luck but also take in account her feelings too. She's probably hurt and can't "get over it".

Posted by estellajones

I called someone a name which she is insecure about and she thought it was about her

I just feel hurt that my friendship is over something so pathetic

but to her something so important

You take no responsibility here, at all.

It's important to her. If that isn't acceptable enough to you to value your friendship in a higher regard than "pathetic" ... then she is doing the right thing by erasing you from her.

You're extremely self-centered.

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Posted by estellajones

I called someone a name which she is insecure about and she thought it was about her

I just feel hurt that my friendship is over something so pathetic

but to her something so important

You take no responsibility here, at all.

It's important to her. If that isn't acceptable enough to you to value your friendship in a higher regard than "pathetic" ... then she is doing the right thing by erasing you from her.

You're extremely self-centered.

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Excuse me?? I'm calling the situation pathetic, I'm heavily pregnant and I would love my bestfriend in my life right now not some situation to dwell over that was misunderstood! I have better things to think about than this, so if that's being self centred then I'm definitely not sorry

Posted by GeminiGem
Just give it time. Sometimes that's what we need. We do analyze things- a lot.

I don't let my past define me. I feel these things have made me. Stronger woman, better mother, friend, sister, etc.
I choose happiness. As should you.
Just exude love and it will come to you. But in any instance you feel someone doesn't value you or see your worth- value yourself enough to let it go Nd understand they aren't worth your time.

You tube made a speaking about seasonal people. It's a very spot on explanation of the types of relationships in our lives. One of my favorites. _??__??__??__??_

Thank you. I agree, I did apologise anyway and I left it at that I think it's for the best, I'm weeks away from having a baby and it's all that's been on my mind. Maybe I should just focus on my baby and my life, and if it's meant to be it will be. I don't blame her for cutting me off. But I wish she had listened to what I had to say properly and believed me, but I know she has trust issues as it is so ..

Posted by GeminiGem
Bye Estella- the ex husband I am good friends with and was able to forgive Nd forge a fruitful friendship with after that mess----- he's a Pisces!!!!! Like you!

Oh dear, lol!!

Posted by kissmygrits
Bestie gem and I lived together. We had a huge fallout. Mainly miscommunication and immaturity on both sides. Some neighbors made up crap etc. We didn't talk for 6 months. She called out of the blue and I agreed to meet and talk. We got everything worked out. We're more close than before.

Good luck but also take in account her feelings too. She's probably hurt and can't "get over it".

I agree, and when I said get over it I didn't mean it in that context it's often hard to hear how people say things over typing so thanks for not biting my head off.

I don't know if I will try again as I already have, but I do want to reconcile the friendship somehow just I'm way too stubborn to try again. If I did something wrong then I would be persistent about it but because I know I haven't and she won't believe me I find it difficult

Lol!! I meant by the way!! Btw. Phone loves to auto correct.

Posted by GeminiGem
Lol!! I meant by the way!! Btw. Phone loves to auto correct.

Haha don't worry I gathered it, I'm using my iPhone right now so I understand lol!!

My iPhone loves to talk for me!!! It's aggravating at times. _??_

Gemini's are usually really smart and when they feel like someone crossed them in a way that they would never do to their friends then they tend to move on because they're not fake and wouldn't continue to be friends with someone if they don't like their true colors. I would say just keep trying to communicate with her. Put your pride aside for the sake of the friendship if you feel that she is worth it.

I'm fed up of people saying I don't care and I'm blaming it all on the Gemini if that was the case then I wouldn't have gone and made this post would I ?

At the same time why should I be blamed for something I did not do to her?

Secondly I could go on all day about this but I have only gave you insight in to the issue and not the whole relationship and how it was before..

The reason why we stopped talking was because she thought I said something about her but it was to someone else, fair enough the shoe fitted at the time and I should have been more clear who it was directed at. Anyway, I was fed up of always being the friend to contact her first and make an effort with her whereas she would never reach out to me or do the same back. So I left her alone for a while to see if she really valued our friendship. Next minute I saw I was deleted off her social networks and etc so I assumed she fell out with me, then I saw her and said hello and she wasn't interested and pretend she didn't see me, that's when I knew we had fallen out and I wasn't sure what I had done and when I confronted her she told me. But I assumed initially it was because I hadn't spoke to her for a while, so basically it's all bitchy teenage girls stuff and we are in our 20's I'm a mother and about to become another one again which is why I'm just stressing out with all my hormones etc but seeing as I made an effort to explain my self before I don't know if I can again. I don't know how this is all about me but whatever I guess people know everything these days

I'm fed up of people saying I don't care and I'm blaming it all on the Gemini if that was the case then I wouldn't have gone and made this post would I ?

At the same time why should I be blamed for something I did not do to her?

Secondly I could go on all day about this but I have only gave you insight in to the issue and not the whole relationship and how it was before..

The reason why we stopped talking was because she thought I said something about her but it was to someone else, fair enough the shoe fitted at the time and I should have been more clear who it was directed at. Anyway, I was fed up of always being the friend to contact her first and make an effort with her whereas she would never reach out to me or do the same back. So I left her alone for a while to see if she really valued our friendship. Next minute I saw I was deleted off her social networks and etc so I assumed she fell out with me, then I saw her and said hello and she wasn't interested and pretend she didn't see me, that's when I knew we had fallen out and I wasn't sure what I had done and when I confronted her she told me. But I assumed initially it was because I hadn't spoke to her for a while, so basically it's all bitchy teenage girls stuff and we are in our 20's I'm a mother and about to become another one again which is why I'm just stressing out with all my hormones etc but seeing as I made an effort to explain my self before I don't know if I can again. I don't know how this is all about me but whatever I guess people know everything these days

It doesn't really matter that you didn't say "it" about her! If the "shoe fits", what you said is relevant to her as well. It showed how you really think about people like her. It cannot be used as an excuse.

If you really didn't mean what you said, try to explain to her in writing that your words were said in a moment of confusion (hormonal or otherwise...) and that they do not represent the way you really think. Some action to prove your sincerity and regret would also help.

Gems are more sensitive than Pisces to other people's opinion. My Gem boyfriend fall out with his mum and brother for several years, for a reason that I would consider minor, even laughable. For him, it touched a very sensitive spot.

You need to see things from your friend's perspective as well!

Posted by estellajones

If I did something wrong then I would be persistent about it but because I know I haven't ....

And there it is ^^^^^^^^^^^^

You're taking any responsibility for your own fuck up.

You said to her that hurt her, whether it was a misunderstanding or not ... you still said them, which still makes you responsible.

I don't a rats ass if you're pregnant. Why are you mentioning that? Are you looking for pity validation? You want people to agree with you because you're pregnant? there's no other reason for you saying it .... twice.

You are the one who fucked up with this particular situation. Your history of being friends with her doesn't pardon you, and give the right to not only hurt her feelings, to then turn around and ignore the fact that you're responsible.

So long as you stay this oblivious to reality ... you're believing you are victim will be life long.

I feel sorry for your children, considering you are their role model ... and you're a pity freak who is so deluded that you think you're a victim, when you're not. You're the abuser.

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You're not taking any responsibility for your own fuck up.

Oh shut yo what do you know..

You don't know anything, and I would have you know thanks to the lovely and non judgmental posters on here I have apologised to her AGAIN and we are now friends, and she's coming to my baby shower. So thank you to the lovely people who have helped and not judged and actually gave advice instead of critisizing what they don't know 🙂

Posted by P-Angel

*not


You're not taking any responsibility for your own fuck up.

Excuse me, but don't you dare bring my children in to this you absolute waste of space who the fuck are you other than a fucking troll? Move from my post and don't you dare mention my innocent children in this.

I feel sorry for your fucking mum she obviously didn't do a good job in raising you did she? How dare you make something so personal in to an issue and for your lovely information nobody is looking for attention or sympathy by mentioning I'm pregnant I couldn't give a rats ass if you care or not go find some fucking manners you absolute rude vermin

Posted by Undine
It doesn't really matter that you didn't say "it" about her! If the "shoe fits", what you said is relevant to her as well. It showed how you really think about people like her. It cannot be used as an excuse.

If you really didn't mean what you said, try to explain to her in writing that your words were said in a moment of confusion (hormonal or otherwise...) and that they do not represent the way you really think. Some action to prove your sincerity and regret would also help.

Gems are more sensitive than Pisces to other people's opinion. My Gem boyfriend fall out with his mum and brother for several years, for a reason that I would consider minor, even laughable. For him, it touched a very sensitive spot.

You need to see things from your friend's perspective as well!

Thank you and I had a good thorough think about it and that's what I did I put what I did aside because as you said whatever I said did offend her and I apologised I didn't mention that I did not say it about her like I did before but instead just apologised and took the blame for it because after all she is my best friend.
I told her I miss her and I want her there through the rest of my pregnancy and the baby shower and she told me it's fine there is no negativity between us and she wants me there. Thank you so much for your kind advice, it has definitely taught me for future reference if anything like this happens again. I know we will probably not be the same again but at least I can work on that and show her she can trust me and sometimes I say things without speaking🙂 so thank you very much for your advice xox

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Posted by kissmygrits
Bestie gem and I lived together. We had a huge fallout. Mainly miscommunication and immaturity on both sides. Some neighbors made up crap etc. We didn't talk for 6 months. She called out of the blue and I agreed to meet and talk. We got everything worked out. We're more close than before.

Good luck but also take in account her feelings too. She's probably hurt and can't "get over it".

I agree, and when I said get over it I didn't mean it in that context it's often hard to hear how people say things over typing so thanks for not biting my head off.

I don't know if I will try again as I already have, but I do want to reconcile the friendship somehow just I'm way too stubborn to try again. If I did something wrong then I would be persistent about it but because I know I haven't and she won't believe me I find it difficult

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Oh I know what you meant. It's ok. Just let her know that you're REALLY sorry and hope to work out things soon. Let her know that you'll wait for her to work it out. Just let her know that. She does care. Trust me. Let her know you do too and are willing to work on your friendship.

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Posted by estellajones

Posted by kissmygrits
Bestie gem and I lived together. We had a huge fallout. Mainly miscommunication and immaturity on both sides. Some neighbors made up crap etc. We didn't talk for 6 months. She called out of the blue and I agreed to meet and talk. We got everything worked out. We're more close than before.

Good luck but also take in account her feelings too. She's probably hurt and can't "get over it".

I agree, and when I said get over it I didn't mean it in that context it's often hard to hear how people say things over typing so thanks for not biting my head off.

I don't know if I will try again as I already have, but I do want to reconcile the friendship somehow just I'm way too stubborn to try again. If I did something wrong then I would be persistent about it but because I know I haven't and she won't believe me I find it difficult

Oh I know what you meant. It's ok. Just let her know that you're REALLY sorry and hope to work out things soon. Let her know that you'll wait for her to work it out. Just let her know that. She does care. Trust me. Let her know you do too and are willing to work on your friendship.

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Thank you babe, I did that and she's forgiven me I feel so happy and relieved took a lot of pride but was worth it x

This topic is hilarious considering the OP has a Scorpio Moon.

It would take much less for a Scorpio Moon to feel offended than a Gemini Moon so the hypocrisy levels are off the charts.

You wouldn't be able to cope with 10% of the way you managed this if it was done to you.

Posted by estellajones
Oh shut yo what do you know..

You don't know anything, and I would have you know thanks to the lovely and non judgmental posters on here I have apologised to her AGAIN and we are now friends, and she's coming to my baby shower. So thank you to the lovely people who have helped and not judged and actually gave advice instead of critisizing what they don't know 🙂

I am glad you two were able to talk and come to some resolution!
Everything works out in time.

Posted by Damnata
This topic is hilarious considering the OP has a Scorpio Moon.

It would take much less for a Scorpio Moon to feel offended than a Gemini Moon so the hypocrisy levels are off the charts.

You wouldn't be able to cope with 10% of the way you managed this if it was done to you.

I'm sure you know me very well because of my moon sign 😉 bye bye troll 🙂 don't just jump on the bandwagon now naughty girl xo

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Posted by estellajones
Oh shut yo what do you know..

You don't know anything, and I would have you know thanks to the lovely and non judgmental posters on here I have apologised to her AGAIN and we are now friends, and she's coming to my baby shower. So thank you to the lovely people who have helped and not judged and actually gave advice instead of critisizing what they don't know 🙂

I am glad you two were able to talk and come to some resolution!
Everything works out in time.

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Thank you! She said that she knows everything I said wasn't about her and that she's sorry that she took it like that in the first place and that we are just both very hormonal people lol we're planning our catch up date already, love how fast it's all moving thank you again darling xx

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Posted by Damnata
This topic is hilarious considering the OP has a Scorpio Moon.

It would take much less for a Scorpio Moon to feel offended than a Gemini Moon so the hypocrisy levels are off the charts.

You wouldn't be able to cope with 10% of the way you managed this if it was done to you.

I'm sure you know me very well because of my moon sign 😉 bye bye troll 🙂 don't just jump on the bandwagon now naughty girl xo

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Anything that keeps your hormones in check is fine by me. 😉

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Posted by Damnata
This topic is hilarious considering the OP has a Scorpio Moon.

It would take much less for a Scorpio Moon to feel offended than a Gemini Moon so the hypocrisy levels are off the charts.

You wouldn't be able to cope with 10% of the way you managed this if it was done to you.

I'm sure you know me very well because of my moon sign 😉 bye bye troll 🙂 don't just jump on the bandwagon now naughty girl xo

Anything that keeps your hormones in check is fine by me. 😉

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Okay that's lovely, good bye now hope you can sleep now that you got to let off some negative energy on a random person's post.

Posted by estellajones

..... I have apologised to her AGAIN and we are now friends .....

Like we didn't know this was your next move.

It's this deceiving that leads you to having to make a move to save face, but, I don't expect you to be able to get that.

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Posted by estellajones

..... I have apologised to her AGAIN and we are now friends .....

Like we didn't know this was your next move.

It's this deceiving that leads you to having to make a move to save face, but, I don't expect you to be able to get that.

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Oh piss off how old are you? You sound like a child go away you annoying thing, if you have a problem with me then message me kindly don't come and cause drama on my post for no reason I don't even know you and I don't even know why you woke up on the wrong side of the bed but I can assure you it's not my fault, get a life please. I apologised before and I said I apologised again so what? If you have such an issue with me which you clearly do then personal message me otherwise stay irrelevant

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Posted by Damnata
This topic is hilarious considering the OP has a Scorpio Moon.

It would take much less for a Scorpio Moon to feel offended than a Gemini Moon so the hypocrisy levels are off the charts.

You wouldn't be able to cope with 10% of the way you managed this if it was done to you.

I'm sure you know me very well because of my moon sign 😉 bye bye troll 🙂 don't just jump on the bandwagon now naughty girl xo

She's right ya know. As a Scorpio moon I can't handle half the BS that Gemini moons may go through emotionally. It's because we don't detach ourselves from our emotional issues whereas they can.

You're getting upset with people who are telling you to be a bit more sensitive to your friend's perspective (i.e. empathy). You said something to hurt her, is that it? And then? What would you do/feel if she had done it to you? From there you can work on the best course of action, how to speak to her, what to say. Apologising to her is one thing - actually knowing what she went through is quite different and more in depth (requires more work from your end).

You value the friendship? Then it takes a lot more work than just saying you're sorry.

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To be honest I just I'm not getting upset at all! I don't think you're reading the whole post properly, I have just been ganged up on for no reason and of course I'm gonna be defensive about it.
I'm not trying to justify myself, I said something about someone else to her and she thought I was saying it about her which is why she fell out with me but I didn't know at the time.
What I said about the other person I said because they hurt me and I was just letting off steam like I always do to her, anyway she got hurt by it I didn't know until trying to speak to her and she completely let rip at me.

And I don't know how I'm having my innocent children brought in to this by random people who I don't know for a situation I wanted advice on, I didn't ask to be critisized actually and I'm assure you're all adults so why not act like one? If you don't like what I did then don't come on here guns blazing, i'm sure my friend isn't bothered about what their input is and she doesn't

and she doesn't even know that I've wrote this so to be coming on here practically bullying me and ganging up on me is childish.

The topic is over, I said I apologised yet still have people letting off their negative energy on here and bringing my kids in to it.

Furthermore, I acknowledge I hurt my best friends feelings and I'm so grateful she has accepted my apology this is our first ever fall out and I'm not one to hurt my best friends feelings, you don't know me or her so don't act like you do just because of your knowledge in astrology.

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I was just letting off steam like I always do to her ....

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I'm not one to hurt my best friends feelings

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There you are talking out of both sides of your mouth again.

Hopefully, there is another person to give your children guidance because you can't even keep track of your own lies. And they need someone with some sensibilities ... because you aren't it.