@crabRiot
11 Years1,000+ Posts
Until you show interest back.
No I'm not shiitty, it's the attention and the companionship that they crave so much from me that drive me nuts.My friendship with them feel like an "intimate relationship".My water and earth sign friends knows that I go in my cave sometimes for a little solitude but I'm gonna come back at some point and they always know how to get in contact with me if its important. .They don't question shit either but the Gems...no not them.
Libras are clingy in relationship
Aquas are surprisingly jealous people.
IME, Air signs are clingy - they just aren't needy. There's a difference.
Like, they're pretty self sufficient in terms of emotions and hobbies and things, but they definitely prefer having a "partner in crime" (so-to-speak) by their side most, if not all, of the time.
Except for when they don't.
Posted by blackphase
Yeap.. I am pretty clingy :/ Sorry crabRiot, we just love being in your company 🙂 heh
Yes, you guys do..
I'm gonna strangle one a ya'll, bring you back to life...feed you some food and then shoot you*mutherfuckers*:p
Posted by blackphase
Damnnn 😢 Well it had better be a damnn good meal 😄
Oh it will be (promise)
I'm NOT a clingy friend nor partner, but if someone I'm interested in starts giving me inconsistent behavior.. That jacks me UP!! That's when I think clingy could come into the picture b/c I'm trying to get the stability back. I like stability, I'm very stable if someone is with me. If they are giving me mixed signals I end up mirroring that.
So when I withdrew myself from one of them (the male) he trolled me and when that didn't work. .he tried to make me look bad to other people and they tell me everything (even his own family)cause they know I'm cool and he's just being dramatic cause I'm not talking to him....bastard? Lol
Posted by LittleStar
I'm the opposite. If someone is sending mixed signals, I end up fading away.
Littlestar it really depends if I'm emotionally invested with a person and for how long. If it's someone I don't really know or not invested in, I'm uninterested in that crap.
Crabriot, so it was a love interest?
Posted by WateryGem
Posted by LittleStar
I'm the opposite. If someone is sending mixed signals, I end up fading away.
Littlestar it really depends if I'm emotionally invested with a person and for how long. If it's someone I don't really know or not invested in, I'm uninterested in that crap.
Crabriot, so it was a love interest?
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No just a friend but I have a feeling he wanted to be more than friends based on how he acts.
Posted by blackphase
Yeah, if he's clinging to you badly enough for you to feel this way.. then it's likely more than just friends on his end.
Awwww I shattered his dreams and everything huh lololololssss.
Posted by flowingwater
Geminis are a lot more clingy than Aquas and I'm saying this as a gem rising.
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Exactly! The least clingy is aqua of the three airs. We only get clingy with the one we love.
Posted by LittleStar
I'm the opposite. If someone is sending mixed signals, I end up fading away.
I'm like that too! If you can't be consistent, you're not worth my times
My partners in crime at work are a gem and an aqua though...we love each other.
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by flowingwater
Geminis are a lot more clingy than Aquas and I'm saying this as a gem rising.
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Exactly! The least clingy is aqua of the three airs. We only get clingy with the one we love.
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Agreed.
Posted by exxtasyx
Gemini's are like little puppies. GIVE US ATTENTION! lol.
See this shit
**loads rifle**
No lololololssss either.
Posted by crabRiot
Posted by blackphase
Yeah, if he's clinging to you badly enough for you to feel this way.. then it's likely more than just friends on his end.
Awwww I shattered his dreams and everything huh lololololssss.
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Yeah, he had to have more feelings for you than just a friend!! You must have broke his heart. :/
LittleStar, I'm a watery, earthy Gem.. Cap rising, Scorpio Moon, Venus in Cancer, then 3 planets in Virgo all in the 8th with Neptune in the 12th. I'm a ball of fun!! 😛 hahahahah
Posted by flowingwater
Posted by WateryGem
I'm NOT a clingy friend nor partner, but if someone I'm interested in starts giving me inconsistent behavior.. That jacks me UP!! That's when I think clingy could come into the picture b/c I'm trying to get the stability back. I like stability, I'm very stable if someone is with me. If they are giving me mixed signals I end up mirroring that.
This exactly what I was stating before. That's why I asked if she was a crappy friend lol
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LOL Well, she might have given him mixed signals that he took as romantic interest and started feeling your silence as something he did. Gems really like to know clearly what is going on. If you make them guess, you will get some confusion thrown at you.
However much confusion he throws, it will still be met by silence..
You think I don't know its killing him..
Once again I'm not a crappy friend miss flowing water..but the gems need to keep their double personalities in check when dealing with me...That's a turn off.Another thing is I did not give this man any signals, it's all in his head.
Posted by crabRiot
However much confusion he throws, it will still be met by silence..
You think I don't know its killing him..
Once again I'm not a crappy friend miss flowing water..but the gems need to keep their double personalities in check when dealing with me...That's a turn off.Another thing is I did not give this man any signals, it's all in his head.
I wouldn't be so cold about it, it sounds like he just cares. If you don't want him to contact you, just tell him to back off. If you do, we will immediately back off. Silence leads to confusion...
I won't contact people that don't want me to contact them.
What is this guys Moon and Venus...
Posted by crabRiot
However much confusion he throws, it will still be met by silence..
You think I don't know its killing him..
Once again I'm not a crappy friend miss flowing water..but the gems need to keep their double personalities in check when dealing with me...That's a turn off.Another thing is I did not give this man any signals, it's all in his head.
Do you have a flirty nature? The Cancers I know do.. I'm not saying you intentionally gave him that feeling, he could have mistaken your natural nature as something more.
@Watery Gem....I don't know his moon or venus neither will I try to find
out, just don't care...he is not worth trying to figure out being that I erased the friendship with him..
Yes I'm flirty but I'm sure I didn't flirt with him...as I said before all in his head.
Meh...I'm not clingy at all. I have a Gemini Sun with a Scorpio Moon, Leo Rising. I think I use to be clingy when I was younger,but over time I developed a IDGAF attitude. I'm not snobby..I just dont put much effort into friendships like I use to. Especially if the person acts like they dont really wanna be around me or we have nothing to talk about.
I noticed that since I am no longer clingy like that..I tend to attract clingy people. Whether I am dating or just friends with someone..they usually become clingy. I think that is just human nature though. Sometimes people tend to get attached to the ones that pay them the LEAST amount of attention. Try being clingy to some of those Air signs and see how quickly they either disappear or becoming detached from you....lol
Gemini's are Not clingy.However, if you are not paying them any attention, then it is almost like they are trying to catch your attention. So I would not call us Clingy..I would call us attention seekers.Once you start clinging to us though..we will be gone like the wind.
Aquas are definitely jealous but damn sure not clingy, lol.
Libra can be clingy. I'll leave it at that.
I wouldn't put it past Gemini to be clingy too but they get distracted so easily and will end up somewhere else of course.
Another not at all clingy airy chart here.
Lol at all these airy fairies...every Gem I know drain me emotionally and the ones that don't are trying hard to..
The Leebs are actually ok...in relationships I see them act clingy with their S.O
The Aquas are crazy jealous lover....Watch your back if they ever suspect their man might like you or if they see you as an ecen slightly possible threat(they stay trying to ruin my life lolssss)but what they don't know is I enjoy a good catfight!
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I swear, my Gemini friends are the worst when it comes to giving me space..I can't dissappear not even for a little bit without them thinking I did something to them and asking me..What did I do—??
Motherfuckers even want an explanation for my disappearance lol.
They love attention and are draining.
I end 2 friendship because 1 asked me too many damn questions and it got to me and the other was just ain't loyal and got mad when I withdrew and stop giving them my time.
Wtf is wrong with ya'll?