@geminiiii
14 Years
Gemini/Taurus cusp & Scorpio/Libra. Help?!
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Hi,
This is my first post at dxpnet. I'm totally afraid with this scorpio.
I am a Gemini, born on the 23rd of May (Taurus Cusp)
and he is a Scorp, born Oct 24th (Libra Cusp).
I have an Aries moon, Cancer Rising, Gemini Mercury, Taurus Venus, a Cancer Mars, and Jupiter in Aries.
He has a bunch of Scorpio/Water in his chart:
Capricorn Rising, Moon Cancer, Mercury Scorp, Venus Scorp, Mars Aquarius, and Jupiter Pisces.
I am super emotional and EXTREMELY passionate, but I mask it with logic. My feelings go through a "filter", and many of them don't make it out, alive. I easily become a jumbled mess of emotions that don't make sense to me. Trying to articulate them is a nightmare. I occasionally have very clear moments, but I have THE hardest time conveying my feelings about half of the time. All I know is that right now, I am completely in love with/petrified of this Scorp I'm exclusive with. But, I feel like a bull in a china shop.
I was previously with a Virgo (scorp moon) for three years, who was extremely critical, but drew me in like a moth to a flame. I presume I have some attraction to men with Scorpio Moons? Can anyone explain this?
Prior to that guy, I was with a Pisces for seven years. Leo Moon, loony beyond loony- but I could read him like a book.
Water attracts me, and I attract it. I know Geminis are known for being shallow and unable to comprehend the depths of water emotion. Despite this, I know I have been there, and I experience pain/love so profound that I often have no appetite, and I am, unfortunately prone to crying a lot (though I hide it away).
I am currently at that point in this relationship. I am so afraid of how attracted I am to this man, and so afraid of being hurt that I've dropped a lot of weight, and have been in deep personal pain because things started off somewhat turbulent. I have trust issues (from abuse). He has his own brand of trust issues, and is rather secretive. The secrets scare the hell out of me. The intensity scares the hell out of me.
Looking at our charts, and reading what I can offer for information, I have two questions:
1. Are we astrologically compatible/do things look like they have reasonable potential? What might be a weak point, and what are the strong points?
2. What can I take in to have a better understanding of how he operates?He has said that I am very good at reading him, and at first I would agree. I stopped trusting my intuition and distrust kicked in. Now, I am a big