Help!!! Virgo Man is Driving Aqua Lady Crazy.

I have never ever dated a Virgo guy.. This one is driving crazy.. I am at the point of just telling him to leave me the hell alone.. He is altogether confusing..

Ok here the storyline.. I have had several classes with this Virgo guy. I have noticed him in all my classes..(he's fine) We would have small talk after class not flirty mostly about class material. He always manages to get my number by asking me if I want to partner up with him on projects. AGAIN HE NEVER CROSSES THE LINE!!! This went on for about 2 years. He randomly called me and asked me out Feb 2011.. So happen I was in one of my breakups with my Leo man and to my surprise he was fresh out of a long-term relationship as well. We both acknowledge that there has been an attraction for years 🙂 Basically, he knew all his facts about me before hand... He knew where I lived, worked, and etc before I told him. I was very impressed with the homework he put in.. EVEN-THOUGH IT WAS ALMOST STALKER LIKE BEHAVIOR.. Anyway, we hit it off.. I mean it was all good: intellectually, sexually, friendship, in all aspects!! So, good he kept running from me emotionally and then comeback like a rubber band something.. Which is fine with me games keep me interested & intrigued to some degree. He would say he need space then call me in 3days. lol.. In 7/11 he hit me with his ex and his daughter got evicted and she and their daughter needed a place to stay so he let them come move with him temporarily.. Okay wasn't feeling that at all but we continued to date for about month until I was tired of that crap. So, I start standing him up.. Then he calls me in 9/11 tells me she's gone.. We start dating again but I was not all that into it.. But, he start pouring emotions my way and finally after several shots of tequila his words became increasing aggressive. Telling me if I cheat on him what he would do to me.." RED FLAG " We had fun that evening and I wrapped it up.. I was done.. After that I would just see him everywhere like I couldn't get a way from the dude!!! So, we started back up again for a short time. Finally, I just stop contacting him and returning his calls. He called me 2 weeks ago under the influence confessing his undying love for me... LOVE... First, time I heard that one. But, I finally open up to him as well and now we are at a stand still again.. WTF——?

Aqua lady, you are not forthcoming with your feelings, by your own admission ... which means he was attempting to have a one-sided relatinship with you.

I would suspect all of your relationships end up this same way.

And I would also suspect that with all of them ... you never look at this about yourself, and always think it's the guy.

And how long d'ya reckon before you get tired of him again?

@25thDecan

In the beginning we both were in long term relationships.. So, we could not explore that connection. But, if you know anything about Aquarius women we seek friendship before relationship. He was fine as wine always look good from head to toe, and smell real good all the time. Basically, the physical attraction NO PROB!! But, I just have to get past the physical and into the mental realm. Caress my brain then my body will follow. Emotionally I admit we are a bit detached BUT just because we don't say doesn't mean we don't feel it. We simply show it.. Actions speak louder than words!! The fact that I incorporate you into my space is how we do!! But, yeah I'm gonna cut my losses with him 😢 I don't do drama and confusion.

So are Sags...annoying as hell.

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So are Sags...annoying as hell.

PRobably to virgos but everyone annoys virgos and many people don't like virgos because of their discrimination.

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Yup...you never lied there. Everyone does annoy me. As far as people not liking me...who cares.

Posted by Aquapanosh
@25thDecan

Emotionally I admit we are a bit detached BUT just because we don't say doesn't mean we don't feel it.

That is true. Alot of Virgos are notorious for this. Most people think that we are cold. Not true. He is most likely mirroring your actions.

The fact that I incorporate you into my space is how we do!!


Right, but being that you're not expressive with how you feel, may be interpreted as "she's not interested". I had the same problem with guys. My coolness was often misconstrued as I didn't care & I cared too much. I'm just not so free to express my emotions & sometimes that is very detrimental in a relationship. I'm learning to become a little more "interested", lol.

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So are Sags...annoying as hell.

PRobably to virgos but everyone annoys virgos and many people don't like virgos because of their discrimination.

Yup...you never lied there. Everyone does annoy me. As far as people not liking me...who cares.

Thats a facade too, virgos care what people think about them, virgos are also sensitive but they hide it like the other earth signs. Capricorn is the "toughest" earth sign.

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Facade my ass. I don't give a fuck about what anyone thinks of me who doesn't matter to me. People that I actually CARE about, yes, I DO care about what they think because they matter. What are you an expert on the zodiac signs? FOH, with that bullshit. Sags are the biggest ass kissers & people pleasers.

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So are Sags...annoying as hell.

PRobably to virgos but everyone annoys virgos and many people don't like virgos because of their discrimination.

Yup...you never lied there. Everyone does annoy me. As far as people not liking me...who cares.

Thats a facade too, virgos care what people think about them, virgos are also sensitive but they hide it like the other earth signs. Capricorn is the "toughest" earth sign.

Facade my ass. I don't give a fuck about what anyone thinks of me who doesn't matter to me. People that I actually CARE about, yes, I DO care about what they think because they matter. * What are you an expert on the zodiac signs?* FOH, with that bullshit. Sags are the biggest ass kissers & people pleasers.

as a matter of fact i am.
you getting mad? Mercury Leo and/or venus Leo showing through?

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Kudos to you for being a shit licker & living your life for others. That's what people do when they have no identity of their own. What the fuck are you talking about venus leo or mercury leo? Lol, you don't know me. I don't have ANY of
those placements. You sound like a jackass. Lmao! Leo...really? What an idiot.

^^^Whaaaaaaaaaaa—? *exiting convo*

Yeah, two idiots made for each other, have met each other yay 😛

capricorns being the "toughest earth sign" nah lmao, most of them get frustrated when i think out of the box because they are scared of being flexible.that fact that virgo is a mutable sign surpasess every attribute capricorn attains and adds more(intelligence, wit,humor etc). as for capricorns trying to live without routine, nevr would happen, they setlle for simple lving. as for the thread starter all you have to do is simply assure him that you are emotionally attracted then he will react better. atleast for one day show compassion, then once he gets it go back to your detached self and youre good.

Posted by Aquapanosh
I have never ever dated a Virgo guy.. This one is driving crazy.. I am at the point of just telling him to leave me the hell alone.. He is altogether confusing..

Ugh. If you're already thinking this it seems kind of pointless to carry on, IMO.

I have Pisces in Venus

Why the hatin' on Sags? This is a thread on VIrgos! 😢

Neither do Virgo and Gemini but they continue to seek me out... (putting on my track shoes)