Aqua & Virgo

Here's something new. What I only know about virgos is from my sister, acting like innocent but also fussy. Also that we have "the farer the better" kind of relationship.

The thing is, I know this virgo lady for some time (but we don't meet/keep in touch often) who is acting kind of flirty/innocent or seems like 😉 But can't read the signals. Any precious idea from any virgo or someone with experience ? She's really cool and in contrast with moody cancer (no offence mc !) she seems to be motivated and sweet (well ok point to cancers too).

Her response whenever I email/txt her is like she's interested in me but dunno if she's just an enthusiastic person. In my last txt I told her, more of a typical way, that I will call her when I'm around her area. And she even suggested thing we can do like go bowling or eat ! I'm thinking of taking the chance and show her I want to go out with her but not as friends, but dunno how do virgos flirt.

i am an aquarian man with a virgo woman.i suggest that you right now atleast keep it at friends only.
try to know her better by being with her in other ways.what i mean is don't go all romantic on her in the begining.virgo women tend to feel a little uncomfortable when the romance thing just starts abrubtly.
take it step by step.get to know her better,that way you will know about her nature,as all virgo women are not similar.then move forward.this way you understand her signals better.
these women like class,and take their own sweet time to respond to your gestures.self preservation is a very strong motivation in this area for them.
you will need your reserves of patience.one more thing,dont get fooled by that cool exterior.they very emotional and even moody at times.
there you go.🙂

hey tas!!! no offense taken on the above comment 🙂 us cancers can be pretty moody creatures. i wish you luck on your adventure with this new virgo gal! my aqua and i are still together, but still many miles apart.

HLG....the more non-chalant you act around your aqua, the further you will get with him.

hotlovinggirl on the contrary she IS enthusiastic. What confuses me is whether it's virgo's style to be flirty and also how I should flirt a virgo. I maybe an aloof aqua but personally when comes to liking a girl I try to distinguish my intentions from the beggining, so that she will not get the wrong meaning (friendship). I've also heard, not sure, that she's with someone (?) so you see I'm totally confused. Don't get me wrong, she's ok girl.

What I'm thinking, and I need your advice, following my last post (see what happened at her last email to me), I will email back to her with a meaningfull msg to show my intentions and let her know I will call her to confirm. Was thinking sthg like "I would LOVE to go out with YOU if you ARE FREE this weekend". Note the words in bold 😉

Also let me know about your aqua

Hmmm I'm a Virgo/Leo cusp and I'm currently interested in a Aqua with Cap Moon....
we seem like eachother alot.....and well we have this kind of thing going on.....we notice eachother and make alot of eye contact.....but we are both apprehensive about making any moves.....and it's been a while and I still seem to still have this Aquas attention.....we actually got close very quickly but then things just died down.......it kinda seems fated in a way
so who knows.......how this will turn out

star,whoa you are into an aquarius male too? this is strange,very strange.
(if you are confused as to why i am saying this,i am nyx's fiance🙂)

longterm virgo and aqua not a good match on a longterm basis, unless Aqua turns a blind eye to virgos critical, sneaky, half truth telling bs...was friends with a virgo for 10 years and I kissed ass 9 1/2 of those years....good luck!

""longterm virgo and aqua not a good match on a longterm basis, unless Aqua turns a blind eye to virgos critical, sneaky, half truth telling bs...was friends with a virgo for 10 years and I kissed ass 9 1/2 of those years....good luck!""

hmm funny I have seen 4 couples and they are all Virgo and Aqua......they are all in long term relationship..and seem pretty happy..so something seems to be working.....but yes I have to agree......being critical is an annoying trait even to me......I don't ever critize anyone that is not my style ....the only person I critize is myself...but the rest I say live and let live!

sorry you had a bad experience but not all Virgo are like that!

oh trust me I know all virgos don't fit in that crazy box, I personally had great experiences up until I had an opinion but hey it was what it was, most of my good times was with virgo and to be honest it wasn't a bad experience, it was life and it happened to be with a virgo, I do feel aquas can be in a longterm situation with a virgo given he/she allow virgo to live in his/her own world and these 2 signs tend to be able to do this but it can get ugly when aqua starts to feel unappreciated, when aqua has to go along with everything virgo wants to do, this can be a very one sided relationship...again I hung in their 10 years with that friendship but once we parted ways, I was so over that and I never looked back.

hotlovinggirl pls check your pm

hotlovinggirl pls check your pm

"be yourself"

UC now I realize this may be a great advice for everyone but an aqua lol I do am myself but some times catch myself trying to intentionally act not alike a typical aqua but act more...normal 🙂

"You can't expect ANY sign to understand that completely ignoring someone means you actually like them. Good luck!"

BRILLIANT!!!

🙂

I dunno why but this scene from Friends poped into my mind. For the fans, at early episodes, before Monica and Chandler make up, Chanfler was asking for her advice before he hits on a girl at the coffee house. Monica said "don't worry, these come naturally, just be yourself" and just after Chandler rushed up from the couch, Monica touched him and added "but not too much" lol

lol tas :p

Aqua & Virgo seam ok cause virgo has allot of logic & are quite smart/witty so Aquas have someone on there level (i am full of compliments toda 😛). as well as that I have noticed virgos love there music one thing the Aqua will share in common

Who really knows which people will work out as a couple & who wont - its a personality & circumstance thing and only partially a star compatibility thing u know

"Aqua + Virgo == GOOD LUCK"

Don't you drop such a bomb and go away :-\ explain...

I'm an aquarius, my ex is a virgo. It didn't work out. I felt suffocated in the relationship, as if i couldnt breathe. Also, my virgo ex was very predictable and very practical....two things i am not and two things i cant stand. I get bored very easy =/
he's the only guy thats ever truly loved me though.....even with my unpredictability and my kraziness....he is steady and caring and made me feel secure.

My dad is a gemini and zodiac says we match. But a crazy thing seems gemini forget easily or they have many sides : we had some epic fights with my dad that even me, an aloof aqua, makes me angry and the next week he's like all cheerful like nothing happened. I can't act that way as I'm still angry but when I try to show it he's like puzzled why am I like this ! what the...

i love gemini women, and i have many female gemini friends. i just love how witty and intelligent they can be, although they can also be very flaky at times...i still hold them very close to my heart! BUT, gemini men i don't go well with. i dated one for 2 yrs. and my gosh we were SO different!!! he drove me nuts most of the time...

lotsa gemmi men are sluts

yeah me too......but as the same time I want someone who won't smother me.....I'm a person of contradications....I like my space but I also want someone to call my own ...I'm a Virgo/Leo Cusp.....and I'm not materalistic but like nice things......I could less about anyone's financial status.......because I take care of that myself.....I don't need anyone to take care of me financially

I do love those Aqua Boys😉 Oddly enough I find it hard to believe that Virgo is not a good match considering how much fun we have together. I've been with my Aqua boy for over 9 months and we have arguements just like everyone does but overall I have never been this happy with anyone else before. We have great conversations and he is extremely honest about everything. I trust him especially with my heart and that is huge since Virgos are slow to be vulnerable to anyone.It's the first time ive felt safe to share my feelings. I don't know if any other aqua boy and virgo girl has had this experience but it has been nothing but pure bliss.And to be honest I love that he needs space because I do too and when we come together without seeing eachother for a few days I truly miss him alot.

Bad news HLG, she's with someone but he's rarely mentioned (mostly out of nowhere). Seems like an independent bird to me. She's like innocently flirting when we talk but then again "he" pops up. For example remember we were arranging to go for bowling ? She promised to let me know and after dissapearing for 2 weeks she starts chatting on msn (she appeared offline). We arranged for this Friday but then she said "he" "may" be there (??). I don't get it, I know I should just give up but again she initiates chats and is quite flirtous or it's just virgo style . I'm just trying to change some of my mistakes and not miss good chances again. Any suggestion hotlovinggirl ?

hello forum,
just wanted to add my two cents if that's okay. I'm an aqua sun leo rising pisces moon that had a 3 year journey with a virgo guy. It was the best of times and it was the worst of times. We loved each other still do but we are way too different. Be nice to aqua, even though they may not verbally express their love they show it through action, and if you're lucky enough to hear an aqua say I love you, they are not kidding and at their most vunerable and most likely to run and hide right after saying such a thing. what an aqua express love? silly people aqua's don't say i love you we love everybody equally! (it's a secret love we cherish just for you-and we'll deny it)

that's probably the best thing you can do, care from afar, keep the friendship if you can, just remember to not lose yourself in the aqua panic

Nimbus indeed we're very different. Maybe I just like that she's communicative open minded the aqua style but in a flirty way. Very judgmental though.

HLG I know she sees him but from her behaviour I can't decide whether she's in a situation where eg she's with him fine but having actually better communication with someone else (eg me !!). And I don't want a)to be the cause for them to break up and b)to play her game and then end up fighting with him.

You know I've already told you how much I want to correct my aqua mistakes as far as humanly possible. In such situations I want to be more direct, not go the friendly way. Do you find it a bad idea to open myself a bit, somehow, with the current situation ?

PS Now I understand your pic justifies your nickname (if it's real :p)

I am a Virgo woman with an Aqua man as you can see by the name To be honest this has got to be one of the best relationships that I have ever been in he more like my best friend then anything else and I like it that way he doesn't smother me and I damn sho don't smother him but one thing tho is that he tends to pull away from me when I am the one that should be doing that it seems we both have a cold side to us can I please get some help on that

I've seen lots of Vir-gurl Aqua man marriages. Seems to be a great combo.

I have two Gem guy platonic friends and they are the best for laughing, making jokes, sharing ideas etc. etc.

GrounHog''sVirgoGurl227 & hotlovinggirl I need your advice. Hope you remember my situation with the virgo girl. After all I couldn't make it for the bowling event although it was arranged for us and some of her friends to go. We were like all txt msgs like "we should go", "great is arranged for friday at 8" etc. No calls. Then I texted her I will not make it, and she called me to show her dissapointment. Second time she called in a similar situation in the past where we arranged to go for a fireworks event.

Now this time, yesterday on xmas day, I texted her to wish her. She texted back with a warm txt with wishes and she's "looking forward to seeing me next year". As I said before I'm puzzled by the flirty nature of virgos and I indend to reply with sthg between wish/direct flirt this time. Sthg like "I wish you that your thoughts will be heard for the new year. My new year's thing will be to avoid regreting for things I didn't do. So I would like to confess that I had been always finding you..." and improvise from there.

I mean what is the worse it can happen ? Any suggestion HLG & GrounHog''sVirgoGurl227 please ?

Oh and happy xmas to all

Tas I'm not an expert on Aqua & Virgo....I admit I was in a 10 year friendship with a Virgo female, we were very very close friendship but it was a very intense connection *spiritual maybe* but as an Aqua girl I was the one bending and yielding 99% of the time for Virgo girl.

Maybe your Aqua can sense the same and prefer friends over relationship, Aquas don't like losing themselves in relationships so she may be opting not go in that direction with you, plus the chemistry and emotions may not be as strong on her part for you and thats something you may have to build up....

I personally feel it can work but I also feel virgo's tend to do a lot of things that messes with Aquas self confidence. Suggestion is to be patient, don't spill your guts about your feelings because it will make your Aqua feel uncomfortable, be her friend because truly thats the way to our hearts, ignore her sometimes ie don't always text back or call back right away, be elusive like you have this HUGE secret and you will gain her attention and she will try to pick you apart because we love mysterious things and people. I hate to say it but don't be so open towards her, make her feel like she has to work to get in your path, she has to work to get next to you.

hey there Tiki! good to see you around 🙂

as for Tas, he is the aqua...and the girl interest is the virgo!!!

HLG...any word from your aqua friend?

HLG... if it makes you feel any better my aqua did not send me anything (not even a card) for Christmas. so, i was a litle sad myself and i LOVE Christmas and he knows that very well. so, it did hurt me that he couldn't have been just a little considerate.

anyway, maybe your aqua is still thinking and kind of playing tug of war in his head between what his logic is telling him vs. what his heart is feeling. he was quick to respond to you, which shows that he still cares, but maybe he had time to think about it afterward, and maybe realized he was not quite ready to see you yet. don't give up so quickly...when you least expect it, he will come back around.

HLG to be honest I had plans to tell her sthg, as you know I try to act as a typical aqua and get things moving. But if you say it will be better not to I guess I will have to wait so that we plan sthg else next time 😢 So I have to think how to speak throug words, as you said.

HLG - i've been following your "situation" - kind of reminds me of mine with my aqua guy/friend.
I didn't hear from mine on christmas either (i did last year) and i didn't get a card either MC! 😛
But i've decided to not let any of that bother me because i realize they just don't get it!

HLG you did what you need to after everything that happened - i say, for 2008 let him come find you - he already knows you cared.
Thats my plan with mine anyways.

Taz - a general observation i've made - when someone you're "talking" to doesn't really tell you if they are seeing someone its because they probably like you and don't know what to do if they are seeing someone! Let her come to you too

Good luck to all of us!

correction above: "I try NOT to act as a typical aqua"

Just spoke to my Virgo sister who adviced to take it the easy way ie go out with her with/without friends (with is better). The thing is I know her for around a year but we have been out incl her friends only once and that was back at the beginning. Since then we moved (still within the city though) and we mainly communicate with sms. But clever/funny & flirty (indirect) sms, really enjoy it 🙂

Now you see why I really wanted to go to the bowling thing last week and why she called instead of text to say she dissapointed. So I'm looking for a situation for us to go out which probably take another century !

But since that last xmas sms I mayble acting the very opposite of aloof ! So I think I will call first on 31st for some wishes and then a few minutes after 1st I will text her what I showed above (p4), not in a mushy way, just above the lines. I mean what may scare her if I express it lightly enough (not in a sentimetal way) and hypothetically she's interested so she may respond accordingly.

Thanks all for the advice.

Aquas are so hard to read one minute your sweet, and on some mushy shit the next you don't want to talk about it what the hell am I suppose to do with this aqua man that I love some much and me being a Virgo I am not straight forward when I need to be so that make him think I'm not in to him I think we're to much a like but we don't understand each other I say if you are feeling your Vir gurl this much Tas to ask question then to hell with it go out with her rather you are in a coward or by yourself this chemistry is gonna take some time and if its worth then you will take the time to get to know her more don't rush it let it flow .... I heard from my Aqua Sorry ladies

that suppose to bullshit not butter

Remove your filter and you too can see your own expletives.

well this thread might have some insight for you!......it's a good read ....cause what is said is somewhat true

well I'm having trouble with Aqua with Cap Moon.......I really don't know what to do about this situation.....cause I'm ready to just give up....and just let go...
But it's hard to let go.....when all you see this person....in a crowded room full of people and all I see is the Aqua..and I'm soo confused as to why I feel this way about a person I hardly know...and the stares we give eachother...it's heartbreaking

Happy new year to all in good health with lots of happy moments but also wisdom and self-discovery :p

For me the 2007 left with a good taste, and feel good for the year to come. The virgo has sthg to do with it (I hope). Below is my txt and her reply:

"i wish u a healthy year & 2008 happy moments this year, an average of 5.5 moments a day ! sorry to mess up (2ice) with ur greatly planned arrangement but promise to put it on schedule next time, lets arrange a new event, i2 want us to go out as i find u a great lovely talker, hope u agree.."

her reply "may 2008 bring u much happiness, adventure, prosperity & wisdom. cu in the new year. xx peace karen"

hey tas

that seems like a good message.......especially the see you in the new year part!🙂

Hmm is it ? It's obviously a nice response from her to my indirect flirting but a very stingy message isn't it ? Now I have to see when our paths will meet again. You see virgos are very stereotype apart from slow.