Aquarius and Virgo similar??

I posted the same topic in the Aqua forum.

Do you think Aquas and Virgos are similar in their lack of emotional expression??

both signs are probably the two most intellectual of the zodiac.

I agree. Ideas matter to both. I enjoy talking to Aquas - very different perspectives from mine.

in way yea but they methods of doing things are way different also virgos hate chaos aquas loves it because they can solve them with ease another common thing is virgos and aquas love helping people

Shaks: So that's what the attraction is with Virgos, LOL.

I must admit I have the best conversations with Virgos varying from the simplest to the most complex of topics.

Something I find similar is both signs SHOW their mates that they love and/or care from them. I personally distrust people who constantly need verbal confirmation of how I feel about them.

Shaks single posted-ly answered this, Bravissimo.

"Virgos are usually more warm and emotional on one to one relationships and a little cold in group settings"

Actually, that would be the complete opposite.

They are warm in public, group settings and cold to one on one relations with people.

P, I can testify to being a PERSON person, never a PEOPLE person.
So I concur with Shaks.

1st Decans are probably better people persons.
2nd Decans PERSON people
3rd Decans more all rounded I s'pose?

I have been chatting to an aqua boy and find we get on really well, never really had much contact with an aqua before!! P I will have to disagree, I'm a person 'person' I don't really fair to well as a people 'person' never have!

Maybe, My father is a Aqua and tho I have not spoken to him in almost 17 years it is said that we never got along because we are alike.

I have good convos with aquarius's they're very cool people.

Posted by theVirgolady
Maybe, My father is a Aqua and tho I have not spoken to him in almost 17 years it is said that we never got along because we are alike.

Ah, yes Same here! My pops is a aquarius, we definitely have our ups and downs. We get along most of the time, but we also have our ka-pow moments & we're the most alike in the family lmao sadly we're both loud in da house.

i dated an aqua for years...good times. i just needed more affection and attention though. mentally defenitely a great match, but like someone pointed out here, virgos do value one-on-one times a lot more than aquas...and virgos do not live for their friends...they do have as many friends, but just dont invest in friendships as much or more than their love relationships...that was the hard part with my aqua...way too much focus on friendships lives and friendship time. i think a mature aqua who is willing to balance things out a bit more and not be so focus on just friends and other people will do well with a virgo..and a virgo who learns to trust an aqua will also reciprocate that love very strongly and firmly. there is defenitely potential for great friendship and/or relationship there, but it will take a little compromise on both ends.

I am an aqua currently smitten by a virgo boy I know through work. There is a strong attraction there and I do love how dominating and controlled he is. I won't touch him because he has a girlfriend, but the attraction between us is undenyable.

I don't know what to do next. He invited me to his house last weekend and we sat outside and talked for hours. It was sweet and effortless.

How are virgo's in bed? Are they dominating, submissive, giving, aloof, cold? I'm just wondering for my own imagination. He is so distant and cold yet sensitive toward my feelings its hard for me to guess.

Any experiences with aqua's..are we compatible?

Aquarianbrat,

I dated aquas in the past, one relationship lasted years and years. Personally, I always have felt and still feel strong attractions towards aquas and aries signs...because of the way in which they interact with others and because of the conversations we are able to have.

I wouldn't suggest to go too far mentally with this specific guy because as you said he is in a relationship and it could be a bit risky for both of you, but Im sure you have considered all this, Im just mentioning just in case. But I know you aquas live things in your mind, so only you know what you will do with all the thoughts you got going on right now..

I can tell you this, aquas and virgos can really good potential for friendship...and I don't like recognizing this publicly but I will here, aquas and virgos have really good chances for casual situations...the attraction is there already in most cases so it only takes the aqua to be a tiny bit forward and the virgo to loosen up...so in an ideal situation in which both people are free and single (otherwise there could be some unnecessary drama by others around)...it defenitely can be one of those experiences that could surprise a virgo and show him/her a side he/she never knew and an aqua understand something new about him/herself not yet experienced as well...

However, if feelings are developed (as it has happened in my cases and in other people I know) then things get tricky because deeper levels of intimacy (emotional and such) can be a bit more of a challenge for the couple..since Virgos appreciate and need more one-on-one interactions that aquas might be used to give and need...and at the same time Virgos need to give more trust that what they are used to give or give it quicker than what they are used to..since Aquas like to run free to all sort of places and with all sort of people.

Im not saying relationships can't work, they can, but a good understanding about expectations will save a lot of pain and confusion later on.

I can't say much about the sex stuff since that is pretty personal and I don't know how virgo guys might be or if they should talk about it haha, but I hope everything else helped!

ABee

Posted by AiryWater
I posted the same topic in the Aqua forum.

Do you think Aquas and Virgos are similar in their lack of emotional expression??

Brief answer: Yes, but for different reasons, and the timeframe and continuity of it is different in each case as well.

uh no i have a Aquarius brother cant stand him to different.

nah, virgo and aquarius are very down-to-earth with their emotions, yet i have noticed them going as far as to showing the emotions, just nobody notices them on a literal level.

Ex:

My mistress\' eyes are nothing like the sun;
Coral is far more red than her lips\' red;
If snow be white, why then her breasts are dun;
If hairs be wires, black wires grow on her head.
I have seen roses damasked, red and white,
But no such roses see I in her cheeks;
And in some perfumes is there more delight
Than in the breath that from my mistress reeks.
I love to hear her speak, yet well I know
That music hath a far more pleasing sound;
I grant I never saw a goddess go;
My mistress, when she walks, treads on the ground.
And yet, by heaven, I think my love as rare
As any she belied with false compare.

~William Shakespeare.