i think he's the lunar type

i am currently dating 2 taurus men. one is a taurus sun and moon and the other has an aqua moon. the 2x taurus man is very calm, reserved, and on the lazier side. he's the guy i can chill with. the aqua moon guy is NOTHING like the other. i barely see a hint of taurus in him at all. he's very active, eccentric, and extremely kinky. they also differ when it comes to relationships. double taurus is a one-woman-at-a-time kinda guy even if it's just casual dating. he also gets pretty jealous. the aqua moon guy is technically a swinger, prefers open relationships, and is not jealous at all.

so what's the deal here? u think aqua moon guy is much more persuaded by his lunar side? i only know one other aqua and he is very similar except when he's in a relationship it's always monogamous unless he's dating casually. so, needless to say, i don't know much about this sign. what's weird is that the guys have their birthdays side by side (may 11th and may 12th) and are only a year apart in age. they're also both drummers in bands!

i tend to prefer the aqua moon guy. he and i are spot on with communication. everything is very direct, we share our philosophies openly, we both know exactly what we want with and from each other. i, too, am not really the jealous type... and i'm a leo! even though what we have is very casual he seems to be rather exclusive with me but i'm not sure if it's by choice. maybe he appreciates the common ground we share? he is an odd individual and i think he has a hard time finding others to accept him as he is. lucky for him, i only seem to like the weird ones. then again, i'm not sure if that's entirely true. i haven't asked him, and i may never due to the circumstances, but i wonder if that's where his taurus side comes into play. before me he was in a 5 year relationship which struck me as another odd thing about him. it was technically an open relationship but neither would have sex with others. just flirting and possibly some kissing. it feels as if, even though he expresses his desire for that freedom, he would actually prefer a steady partner. bah, who knows? anyway, i'm done writing now.

Didn't you make a post about a cancer guy?? I'm confused, you seem be be just messy no offense though.

Posted by Shaks
Im glad Im lucky enough to never meet women like you.

LOL!

Ninjamu. It has become quite tedious keeping up with you. Are you sure you are not a Gemini—

ha! i'm just writing in this place almost like a blog. to annoy the hell outta shaks really. i have a blog and i write stuff there too. funny enough i do not have a single gemini marker in my chart.

I HEART YOU, SHAKS!

i'm sure it looks messy but it's really all neat and tidy over here. just analyzing the guys i'm dating. never done the dating thing before so it's all new to me. it's kinda cool! i'm sure eventually i'll go back to wanting to deal with just one guy, but while the weather is still warm, i'm gonna wade in that ocean for a while longer.

i suppose i keep writing out here because i've never had so many options as i have this summer. trying these men on and gathering opinions. in the end i'll always know what's right for me. i'm only basking in the glow because this is my time. sort of re-living the time i should have had as a teenager or college-aged kid. regressing a little but i figure i'll do it now while i'm still in my 20's. it's fun because i now know myself well enough to successfully perform a balancing act and make it work. i'm really loving my life right now!

Lol aint nothing wrong wit keeping ya options open till u know which guy u want girl..keep dating them both till u know which guy is best 4 u

i are a leo-virgo cuspian!

Oh man.... Shaks! *giggles* That was harsh.

cuz that's so me shaks! i love how u assume that there's a sexual relationship when it hasn't been noted. 27 and only ever had sex with 3 men! i'm such a whore! nope. never had a 1 night stand either. not my style . that's ok, shaks. i'm sure ur speaking on behalf of the bruised ego side from all the rejection u've received.

I STILL LOVE YOU, SHAKS SWEETHEART!

haha, no fighting here. not worth it. especially on a public forum such as this place! i'm just highly amused as to where shak's animosity towards me came from. i never insulted the guy. nothing against him. still don't have anything against him but i find his hostility hilarious. i gotta keep egging him on, don't i? i'm thinking maybe he thinks i'm full of myself or something. far from the truth though. he also somehow thinks i'm slutty. cuz i have a wealth of admirers lately? convoluted logic in the making. i can't help but deduce it to some kind of jealousy or something. something from his past. would make sense. the most accurate answers are most often the simplest ones but i'm sure he would be insulted if i didn't acknowledge his complex nature. honestly though, i do love shaks. i love everyone! i don't ever take what he has to say to heart. our "situation" is so ridiculous i don't know how i could possibly take it seriously.

btw, my venus is in leo and my mars in scorpio.
aqua moon boy: venus in aries and mars in gemini

or are u talking about mine and shaks? god i love that guy...

Lmao virgo wannabe??who would fake their sign?

Hmmmm

whoa, back this love train up. in all honesty i'm not looking for a serious relationship right now. the only 2 boyfriends i've ever had were both long term (first was 3 years, 2nd lasted 7 years). i remained single and celibate for 1.5 years following the break-up with my 2nd. i've stated clearly to the men i'm dating exactly what i want and what they can expect should they become involved with me. i have a LOT going on in my life right now and am very focused on doing the band management thing. i have 2 full-time jobs basically.

though i am playing the field right now i admit that i have my needs (and this is where shaks can berate me). i am somewhat on a quest to look for a steady sex partner. i don't sleep around but i do have a healthy appetite. i want to find one exclusive partner but i have specific demands. they have to be strong enough to not get too emotionally wrapped up in "us" and they have to be compatible with me in that regard. i understand that we can't help who we fall in love with which is why i'll need someone who can also have the strength to lay their cards out on the table and be honest with me. if they do, or even if i do, we need to be able to confront the issue and deal with it. i also can't have him acting like a boyfriend in public. so no jealousy tantrums or clinginess. if i hit it off with someone while we're out then he's gonna have to accept that. i wouldn't care if the roles were reversed. i'd be happy for him.

i'm not sure i believe in "the one" anyway. in my experience, we have many loves in our lifetime. there's nothing wrong with that. we should just enjoy the time that we do get to share with each other. the persistence of forever lives only in our minds. it doesn't mean that i am a swinger, nor am i opposed to the idea of marriage/monogamy, but to adhere to such institutions seems to devalue the experience. we forget to live in the now and fret too much about controlling the future. i think this can put too much stress on our relationships in general.

i'm glad u found happiness with ur girl, shaks. i'm glad u know urself well enough to realize that u are committed to dating only one person at a time. just don't judge or knock others for their different life style s. to each their own. be happy for them and wish them the best!

really? tee hee! we had feuds? now there goes to show u i definitely don't hold grudges cuz i don't remember any.

i feel all warm and fuzzy now.

well! off to support my band. it's a big night for them tonight! they're part of this huge experiment meant to kick start some life back into a certain area of town that shouldn't have died in the first place.