Posted by sagiluvOK but why is he active on my Facebook and he got my Instagram too. Why won't he just delete me then if he's over me?
He's probably over you by now. Any man that likes you will try to remain in touch. If you really want an answer. Speak clear and ask him what's going on. 👌🻠nothing better than speaking as clear as the water. Then you can decide to move on if needed. Good luck
Posted by JkatsOh man ..but he is so freaking hot I can't help it 😉 its like hello why only social media...you care what I'm doing or how I'm looking but not texting to even say hi?
You will never know where a Cancer stands with you lol, they go every which way, prepared to be confused for a looooong time! I was "seeing" a Cancer man, and I swear I was gonna have to be admitted to the psych ward on many occasions, no joke.
Posted by WynterI will try and relax
Relax, let him come to you. This is a delicate time...if you start pestering him you're going to lose him.
Posted by victoriageminiMine was/is too, such a charmer, romantic when he wanted to be, smoking bod, beautiful eyes, the nicest smile, hot car, good job! BUT, all that didn't matter because I was only good for fwb. Just be careful is all I gotta say (mine tried and got me prego even though we weren't together, I miscarried), and I couldn't tell you why he's active on social media but won't text you, Cancer men are weird like that.Posted by JkatsOh man ..but he is so freaking hot I can't help it 😉 its like hello why only social media...you care what I'm doing or how I'm looking but not texting to even say hi?
You will never know where a Cancer stands with you lol, they go every which way, prepared to be confused for a looooong time! I was "seeing" a Cancer man, and I swear I was gonna have to be admitted to the psych ward on many occasions, no joke.click to expand
Posted by CrabraActually our last convo left the ball in his court. I initiated and he replied in seconds and was telling me he's OK but still hurting then a few days later I text him and he doesn't reply till 5 days later...I'm like wtf? Why are you acting like a douche? Sooo he did wish me happy new year and now all it is ...is social media flirting. So I'm being patient and thinking maybe he will actually text me because I'm all about fun too but so far nothing..
Just gonna take a couple stabs here cuz I feel like throwing darts. I'm gonna guess it is simply because he was the last person to send a message. If his last message to you was anything short of a flat out "good bye" "ttyl" etc. that conversation is still going, love, and he's waiting for your response 😉
Another guess is if the last text message conversation left him with a vibe that was uncomfortable for him. Perhaps a feeling that he shouldn't text you, or that he should wait for yours? Think carefully. The crab is an emotional analyst. He might even pick on emotions you didn't know where there, or he interpreted them that way.
Last guess: He's a dick 🙂
Posted by sagiluvPosted by victoriageminiHe just want to keep you around. Just in case he needs you later for more foreplay.. If I were you I would just ask him. Worst thing can happen is he wants to be friends & you can move on.Posted by sagiluvOK but why is he active on my Facebook and he got my Instagram too. Why won't he just delete me then if
He's probably over you by now. Any man that likes you will try to remain in touch. If you really want an answer. Speak clear and ask him what's going on. 👌🻠nothing better than speaking as clear as the water. Then you can decide to move on if needed. Good luck
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Posted by MiZLeoYeah but he always texted me first thou
Text him already omg. (Married to a cancer man) He's probably wondering why he hasn't heard from you.
Posted by piscesmoon2What do you mean? There isn't. We went out then he asked me to his party for second date. I stayed over we didnt have intercourse only foreplay he's not texting me at all after that just liking my photos on Instagram. Oh and we live like an hour from each other. I'm 30 he's 36.
There is more to the story... Gem's have a front... Can't tell you what I think if you don't level.
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Posted by Arielle83OK but you're a woman not a man cancer. He always texted me always! What would of suddenly changed? He's the one on my social media liking my posts.
Your passive aggressive af.
Text him. You're annoying me, as a cancer.
I can't stand this shit. If I found out u were creeping me in FB, id be turned off,
You wanna talk to a cancer? Just talk. No passive aggressive FB bull
Posted by Arielle83Hun I'm not scanning Facebook the notification shows he liked my photo or post for example so its kinda hard not to notice. Anyway I like the guy I don't hate him....maybe I will just say hiPosted by victoriageminiHe's doing the same!Posted by Arielle83OK but you're a woman not a man cancer. He always texted me always! What would of suddenly changed? He's the one on my social media liking my posts.
Your passive aggressive af.
Text him. You're annoying me, as a cancer.
I can't stand this shit. If I found out u were creeping me in FB, id be turned off,
You wanna talk to a cancer? Just talk. No passive aggressive FB bull
One of you has to be the assertive one and ask what's up.
I think it should be you cuz then you can move on with life!
You're scanning FB like a detective looking for clues when you should be worried about you, not him.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83It does make sense when you slept together... Did you read my post on the cancer thread?
Well you're using Facebook as a measure of him liking you.
It makes no sense. You can like things on FB and not be attached to them
Posted by exxtasyxThere was no sex! Only foreplay. I declined sex
This is not a Cancer thing. This is a guy thing. You gave it up too soon, he got bored and now he's over it. Men like a challenge.
Posted by exxtasyxYou're 22 so your mind i way different from a 35 man
This is not a Cancer thing. This is a guy thing. You gave it up too soon, he got bored and now he's over it. Men like a challenge.
Posted by exxtasyxPosted by victoriageminiStill. You have to make him work for it before getting that much intoPosted by exxtasyxThere was no sex! Only foreplay. I declined sex
This is not a Cancer thing. This is a guy thing. You gave it up too soon, he got bored and now he's over it. Men like a challenge.
it. What kind of foreplay? If you wanna drive a man crazy you make him wait and the only thing he gets is a kiss.
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Posted by exxtasyxPosted by victoriageminiHe's 35? So that must mean he's looking for something super seriousPosted by exxtasyxYou're 22 so your mind i way different from a 35 man
This is not a Cancer thing. This is a guy thing. You gave it up too soon, he got bored and now he's over it. Men like a challenge.
at that point in his life. He's definitely not going to stick around
for the easy girl. Most men don't unless they're just looking for FWB.
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Posted by exxtasyxPosted by victoriageminiOh my God how long have you known this guy? You shouldn't have went that route. Now your best bet is to make him jealous on social media with hot pics of yourself and pretending you moved on. Then the Cancer will get all in his feelings and come running back. If not then it's safe to say he's over it.Posted by exxtasyxFingering kissing hand job. He stl check in on me but only on social mediaPosted by victoriageminiStill. You have to make him work for it before getting that much intoPosted by exxtasyxThere was no sex! Only foreplay. I declined sex
This is not a Cancer thing. This is a guy thing. You gave it up too soon, he got bored and now he's over it. Men like a challenge.
it. What kind of foreplay? If you wanna drive a man crazy you make him wait and the only thing he gets is a kiss.
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Posted by Arielle83Really he has nothing else to do but feed my ego? Oh come on...I agree he's keeping me for the future and he's letting Mr known he doesn't hate me for not having intercourse with him. I'm 30 he's 35,
Plus he's prob liking your shit to feed your ego. It's like saying "you're beautiful, sleep with me" without the effort.
You put importance on his "like" to your pic, so in your head that means something.
It just means he likes the pic and wants to bang.
I don't think it means he wants to know your hobbies. He'd have to actually talk to you to figure that out, right?
Posted by happyface1Bullshit because its my body I get to do what I want. I gave him a hand job to compromise.
He's baiting you....you let him get that far and pulled back. You teased him now he's teasing you.
You let him stick his finger in you in a sexual situation...then try to play goody goody wondering why he's playing with you....
shyt...you played with him
Posted by Arielle83Damn you just don't get it. Anyway its okPosted by victoriageminiSo you think all of that is why he "likes" ur shit?Posted by Arielle83Really he has nothing
Plus he's prob liking your shit to feed your ego. It's like saying "you're beautiful, sleep with me" without the effort.
You put importance on his "like" to your pic, so in your head that means something.
It just means he likes the pic and wants to bang.
I don't think it means he wants to know your hobbies. He'd have to actually talk to you to figure that out, right?
else to do but feed my ego? Oh come on...I agree he's keeping me for the future and he's letting Mr known he doesn't hate me for not having intercourse with him. I'm 30 he's 35,
"He doesn't hate me for having intercourse with him"
WHAT THE FUCK?
Sorry i can't relate to you
and your way of thinking.
Maybe his "like" means you're his soulmate.
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Posted by thinktoomuchI get it..thanks
The point is: he doesn´t care enough about the situation to be so dramatic as to delete you. Why not instead keep you around if ever in need?
Don´t take facebook or social media interactin so seriously.
Posted by thinktoomuchYou weren't rude I just like the man so I'm emotional lol
Yeah sorry, didn´t mean to be rude, but seemed like you didn´t get it based on the last post in this topic, your reply to Arielle. Anywhos, if all is good with you and this situation, then all is good.
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