Open Relationships/Polyamory

I always have difficulty finding someone that will understand me. The way I feel about relationships. I'm all up for more the merrier, but people don't seem to understand me. They're quick to jump to conclusions, that it is all about the sex. I mean yeah, sex is great and all, but I like having different emotional connections with different people as well. It's not that once isn't enough, it's just that lots of people interest me. I want to allow myself to experience whoever comes along. Not only physically, but in different types of connections.
What signs, are more understanding on this? or does it not have any impact? It could be because I live in Honduras and people are so close-minded.

Scorpio, Virgo, Gemini, Sagittarius, Libra to start off

Oh and just make sure your headline says open relationship? I am sure plenty of guys will.

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Scorpio, Virgo, Gemini, Sagittarius, Libra to start off

Aren't Scorpios way too possessive for that? I feel they're okay with fucking around, but not their "loved one" idk,

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What signs, are more understanding on this? or does it not have any impact? It could be because I live in Honduras and people are so close-minded.

It definitely has mostly to do with where you live and the cultural perspective of love and relationships.

I have the same problem, where I am. If I do meet someone with a similar mindset, it always turns out that they have absolutely ZERO idea what that mindset is or a skewed perspective of it.

I am not sure about signs, but the people I have met who were into polyamory were Aries, Scorpio, Pisces and Gemini. Most of them also have Uranus in Scorpio, interestingly enough.

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YES! They never get it. I was talking to this virgo guy, and he has my same birthday and all, same moon as well. I told him off rip how I was and he was okay with it. He told me it made him uncomfortable, but that he was going to work with me, and he liked me the way I was and how I thought about things etc. But then he ended up just hurting himself because he just didn't want to share me in the end. I don't want to hurt anyone either, it's just so hard when being monogamous is the norm.

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Oh and just make sure your headline says open relationship? I am sure plenty of guys will.

Open relationships and polyamory are 2 different things though. OP might want to experience both.

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Yep, I'm open to both. Mostly because what if I find THE ONE (lol), but I will always want to be with other people physically. But polyamory is what i feel is my thing.

@ram76- What is the difference again between the two?

To me it's saying you want to enjoy and have sex with many people at one time. Whomoever doesn't want a long term monogamous relationship for whatever reason. No title no competition against no arguments no bonding..just it is just like a fwb situation..

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
To me it's saying you want to enjoy and have sex with many people at one time. Whomoever doesn't want a long term monogamous relationship for whatever reason. No title no competition against no arguments no bonding..just it is just like a fwb situation..

It's not like that at all.
Open relationships are when both you and your partner are okay with you guys sleeping with others. But he is the only emotional connections.
Polyamory is being in love or romantically involved with more than one person at the same time.

Posted by Arielle83
I was like this when I was younger. Relationships with men and women. Had a relationship with a chick and her bf. My friend and her bf. I couldn't be tied down cuz I felt I can learn so much from different ppl. It wasn't about sex either.

Now I just want one person, cuz all those ppl come with baggage and history and I can't hold onto all that and live for me.

So I've chosen one.

Sometimes I feel that it can be because of that, but I try not to trip on it.

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I was like this when I was younger. Relationships with men and women. Had a relationship with a chick and her bf. My friend and her bf. I couldn't be tied down cuz I felt I can learn so much from different ppl. It wasn't about sex either.

Now I just want one person, cuz all those ppl come with baggage and history and I can't hold onto all that and live for me.

So I've chosen one.

Sometimes I feel that it can be because of that, but I try not to trip on it.

I'm curious OP. You have a Cancer moon. How do you deal with the concept of unconventional relationships, emotionally?

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What do you mean by unconventional?? I want to give a good explanation. >.

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Unconventional by standards set by the monogamous world of relationships.

It sucks, that's why I try to just stick with having sex instead of even trying to even find a primary or develop emotions because I know I'll get hurt and probably misjudged. I get sad because I feel like I would have to be someone other than myself to keep someone else happy.

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Unconventional by standards set by the monogamous world of relationships.

It sucks, that's why I try to just stick with having sex instead of even trying to even find a primary or develop emotions because I know I'll get hurt and probably misjudged. I get sad because I feel like I would have to be someone other than myself to keep someone else happy.

You've just blown all stereotypes of Cancer moon that I've always held. Literally blew it up in my face lol.

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lmao! what where the stereotypes?

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Unconventional by standards set by the monogamous world of relationships.

It sucks, that's why I try to just stick with having sex instead of even trying to even find a primary or develop emotions because I know I'll get hurt and probably misjudged. I get sad because I feel like I would have to be someone other than myself to keep someone else happy.

You've just blown all stereotypes of Cancer moon that I've always held. Literally blew it up in my face lol.

lmao! what where the stereotypes?

The 2 basic ones I'm familiar with are over emotional and paranoid lol

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You know, i'm actually that way, but with friendships. I get attached to my friends like if they're my couple. But I form very strong emotional attachments to them lol

Definitely not a cap, unless just to use and being used is ok with you.

Im Libra, and im accepting of something kind of similar-within health, respect reasons etc...

Posted by Greentea
Definitely not a cap, unless just to use and being used is ok with you.

I am, with a Cap ex...who's now with a Taurus...