im with a cancer

Ok im just wanting advice im dating
a cancer/leo and she has my heart and im a aries/taurus
and i just want to make her happy and so i guess any advice or tips
would be nice if you post on here with bullsh*t
i will report you i only want people
that have genuine helpful things not hurtful things
i just want to make her happy so
understanding her sign i figured would help me
out well people post away need any more info ask me

Value her as a woman. Give her honest, heartfelt compliments. Rub her back after a long day, massage her feet. Take over the cooking from time to time.

don't do what winter suggest she may bite it off.

ty for your posts

I Think venusianbull is spot on! 😉

uhm...ask her. i mean she's gonna read whatever suggestions we offer anyway 😉

ask her what she needs, wants and do what aries typically doesn't do...LISTEN!

He has asked me, i told him to figure it out. LOL... My guy wanted advice and i am glad he is getting it! If you are going to just bash every question we ask, geez whats the point. Just because were a couple? i guess my answer from now on should be "Oh why the hell are you posting in here, just ask them" sorry that kinda tipped me off....

*bowing with a flourish* Sounded like just the thing CG. 🙂

C.G. can do a bit of Ball busting when need be.

Posted by CancerianGoddess
He has asked me, i told him to figure it out. LOL... My guy wanted advice and i am glad he is getting it! If you are going to just bash every question we ask, geez whats the point. Just because were a couple? i guess my answer from now on should be "Oh why the hell are you posting in here, just ask them" sorry that kinda tipped me off....

oh, so that makes you a jackass.

he cares enough about you to ask you what you want and you decide the best course of action is to tell him to figure it out and laugh about it.

wow, you have women who would kill to have a man that was concerned enough about her needs to want to know how to better please her and your genius ass tells dude to go to the internet instead of having an adult discussion.

some women deserve to be alone.

scorpio_chic - no need. they've already broken up once before and it's not difficult to see who is a primary contributor to the dysfunction.

i mean seriously, dude cares enough about you to ask how to make you happier and you tell him to "figure it out?" he goes so far as to post on the internet cause you are being an unhelpful twit? aries men may be jackasses but when an aries male takes time to want to do better, that's a good man. her on the other hand....pffffffffffffffffft!

Posted by tubbyscubby
scorpio_chic - no need. they've already broken up once before and it's not difficult to see who is a primary contributor to the dysfunction.

i mean seriously, dude cares enough about you to ask how to make you happier and you tell him to "figure it out?" he goes so far as to post on the internet cause you are being an unhelpful twit? aries men may be jackasses but when an aries male takes time to want to do better, that's a good man. her on the other hand....pffffffffffffffffft!

I Didnt say to him figure our relationship out. I Said "figure IT out" as in the question he asked. He wants to know every trait on a Cancer woman and how compatible they are with Aries, You are just butt hurt because i called you out. Every post you have posted in, you have always played your little passive aggressive card. I Am glad to see you finally burned it. Now, tell us how you REALLY feel about crap.

wow really? should i go there?

you got some chick stalking your ass. you've got like 6 kids right? your man is posting for help on a forum on how to please you. your actually replying to the same thread instead of going into the other room and saying, here's a list. and you have the nerve to think you're calling ME out? HA!

i see why his ex is threatening a beat down. she can't comprehend how in the hell he left her for such a twit.

now go back to discussing your private life on a public forum because at the rate things are going, you're bound to break up again.

oh and by the way, passive would imply that my aggression is not overt. you so stoooopid!

C.G. If I have said it once I have said it a dozen times when it comes to Tub Butt you can't fix stupid. Choe must go to spain and make a pound or two.

i thought you went on your imaginary trip already.

Good news for you T.B. I leave in two hours waiting for a mate who needs a ride to Calais the M's have less traffic at night.

@tate - bring me back a t-shirt.

@love - the sad part is, i wasn't trying to be offensive. i mean sheesh, do i come across as the subtle type?

based on what they have said about why they both have accounts, it makes sense but this particular thread is just weird/wrong. i feel sorry for dude cause he genuinely seems to want to do better and treat her well. i wish him luck.

and tate only revived this thread cause he's bored.

my point about the kids was that he obviously accepts her and her family. not that there is something wrong with having 6 kids...at her age.

if i'm not mistaken and she does have 6?, that's a lot of responsibility to take on is it not? add that to his wanting to be a better partner and "figure it out" does not compute.

hmm...you either are an aries or you have a lot of aries in your chart because only an aries would appreciate saying the first thing that comes to mind 🙂

eeeeeeeeeewhew, virgo rising. yuck 🙂

ok, don't get me started on lesbians. some don't like being penetrated...refuse to allow it to happen which is a sign of sexual trauma to me but what do i know.

i understand gays a lil better. they love penis, i love penis. nuff said...

and i think that might be the difference between aries and scorp bluntness. i think with aries, there's not necessarily thought behind the question. it's just a genuine, "it popped into my head and it's coming out of my mouth." with scorps, even with the REALLY loud ones, i don't get that type of vibe from their forwardness. it's more...calculated? i can't think of the right word. i just know it's different.

that's a VERY strong but good word. not sure if it's fair because i don't know any scorpios THAT well but overall, yeah, i think they just lack the innocence of aries. not to say that they're always up to something sinister but...uhm, yeah.

First of all TS, when me and my man broke up, i left him. He didnt leave me, get your facts straight!
Second of all, I Have sent him emails of Cancer Women for weeks,he kept asking i kept telling him. Finally i said if you dont get it when i say it than maybe you should ask other people who have Cancer partners, and find out for yourself from them. and he posted in here on his own without me knowing till i signed in and saw it,,asking what i have already sent. He said "I Wanted to get other peoples view,you mentioned it and its a good idea" I didnt know he would choose this thread. Originally i have been posting in here forever,he would see me post in here than he would comment and i told him if he liked i he may aswell get an account. Gee whiz, i idnt think us being on here together would stir up such a negative comotion or i would have told him its a bad idea.

Third.. I Love my man, not only is he good to me but i am good to him aswell,. If that is a crime, than punish me. I like getting feedbackfrom other people not just my man. I ask my man on advice on stuff, but someties i post in here, and not only do i read it, but he reads it, and ya know what? its 100% more effective to hear it from moer than one person. That makes us lucky! This thread is done. Its going to be deleted soon because i think some people have got out of control. If anyone loves the hardest, its a CANCER!

Posted by tubbyscubby
my point about the kids was that he obviously accepts her and her family. not that there is something wrong with having 6 kids...at her age.

if i'm not mistaken and she does have 6?, that's a lot of responsibility to take on is it not? add that to his wanting to be a better partner and "figure it out" does not compute.

1st)ok this has gone way to far tubby look wnt to talk aboout my kids hmmmmm.... makes ya look like an ***(figure it out)

2nd) ask her how many kids i want(tubby pissin me off)

3rd) this post was about me figuring her sign out and the trait tendencies
noyhing more

4th) well this mite get me in trouble but for those of you not giving nice comments PISS OFF

~MrCeribdis

1st) i feel sorry for the kids. reminds me of "i am sam" but with two penn's.

2nd) who cares? you both need to be fixed.

3rd) your gf posts as much general sign info on this site as anyone. i guess she can help everyone but you. yeah...makes PERFECT sense.

d) no 😛

amen

ceribdis and CancerianGoddess,

i read through this thread and i could help thinking, this is the same thing my leo daughter and her aries bf is going through right now.

she needs attention and "shown" that she is loved. not all the time, even tho that's what it seems like. she wants to know that she is the most special person to him. she loves to play, laugh and have tons of fun. she loves being put on that pedestal. but only the man she loves is the only one who's allowed to do that. if he's not, she will find it somewhere else and fast! she is one of the most caring ppl on this earth if she is cared for. she is very generous when happy. cuddle time is important, as well as alone time. when someone is disappointed in her, it kills her. she doesn't like to make anyone unhappy. she needs lots of encouragement that he trusts she will always do the right thing. with cancer being in the mix, i can only imagine that the emotions are much deeper.

the likeness is, my leo daughter answered him, several times, and he just kept asking the same questions. just like she had never answered them. i can see the frustration in that. ppl do get upset when they aren't heard after the 100th time. especially, when all he needed to do is hear her and then take it into consideration. when he didn't, she felt that he couldn't take her word for it and he couldn't trust her.

i hope this helps, as i can only speak of my outside experience. with sitting back and watching my leo daughter with her aries bf, i see how beautiful this match can be. they make each other's soul smile. i wish you both the same. 🙂