Cancer: Do's & Dont's

Do...

Treat your Cancer to a home-cooked meal, or pick him flowers from your garden.

Focus on him - he needs the attention - and appreciates the tokens of material security.

Learn to enjoy quiet, private evenings at home. Your Cancer will show you how fulfilling these times can be.

Remember and commemorate `special days', such as Valentine's Day and the anniversary of your first date.

Enjoy his nurturing nature - he will protect you from the harsh world on all the other days of the year.

Be a caring companion and emotional ballast. Your Cancer will shower you with love and emotion.

Show your Cancer how much you appreciate the emotional richness of your life together.

Open your heart - he will show you how to give and receive emotionally, trust completely and find true security in a relationship.

Don't...

Make fun of your Cancer, even if you think you?re being gentle. He will take you seriously and could get very hurt or angry.

Let yourself be influenced by this Sign's mood swings. Your Cancer will take you on an emotional roller coaster that will leave your head spinning.

Try to be too bossy with your Cancer; he won?t be stepped on. Emotional Cancer has definite ideas of what he wants, and can be a bit manipulative when it suits him.

Be too pushy at first or too rough later on. Your Cancer will lash out or shrink away from this kind of treatment. Cancers prefer to be petted or adored.

Ever, ever treat family matters lightly or flippantly. Your Cancer may determine that you undervalue loved ones and domestic life, both of which Cancer holds dear.

" Make fun of your Cancer, even if you think you?re being gentle. He will take you seriously and could get very hurt or angry. "

That's so true! We like to tease other but no us in a playful manner. LOL! CancerianGoddess very good list & true!

Not us*

DONT
''Try to be too bossy with your Cancer; he won?t be stepped on. Emotional Cancer has definite ideas of what he wants, and can be a bit manipulative when it suits him''

My Cancer bf recently said he likes me being bossy. Ive been worrying lately due to things in my personal life and he picked up on it. He says if I worry then he worries. Then he said that he would like me to be my usual self .. ''bossy'' he said. and that he looks up to me.

Maybe it doesnt work for all Cancer men...

I don't like bossy at all, that's most def a negative for me.

Oh very good list! I regret not reading this earlier..probably would've saved my relationship *sobs*

Posted by Scorpion sting
DONT
''Try to be too bossy with your Cancer; he won?t be stepped on. Emotional Cancer has definite ideas of what he wants, and can be a bit manipulative when it suits him''

My Cancer bf recently said he likes me being bossy. Ive been worrying lately due to things in my personal life and he picked up on it. He says if I worry then he worries. Then he said that he would like me to be my usual self .. ''bossy'' he said. and that he looks up to me.

Maybe it doesnt work for all Cancer men...

Bossy in the bedroom, HELL YES!!!!!! Bossy out of the bedroom.. NO! I Noticed when guys boss me out of the bedroom, it pisses me off. BUT Lately, I been seeing a Cap, and he tells me his opinion on something and than gives imput and adds, but you do whats best for you.. Almost like he is being the boss, but not overbearing. I love that. If you come off strong on it, we will snap your litle fingers..lol

Posted by EmotionalMoon
Dont take them for granted.....

and what to do if you made a little fun of them and it hurt them? do they ever give you a second chance?