Insight on pleasing this man?

Just curious of anyone has experience with these placements, and has advice for things to do/not to do with winning their heart? This is more for fun/a social experiment. Thanks 😉

Scorpio sun, Gemini rising, Libra moon, Libra mercury, Virgo venus, Cancer mars.

Ex? Who are we taking about.

This is the same Scorpio I've been seeing since November.

pleasing this man?

get your venus in cancer checked. it might have cancer

Posted by Damnata
pleasing this man?

get your venus in cancer checked. it might have cancer

I hate my venus in cancer! Plus my mars in cancer. My insecurities can really creep up, it sucks. My longterm ex was venus in Virgo, mars in Leo. He tolerated sooo much! Although I'm not quite at that level anymore, thankfully.

He's very touching, loves to help and do things for me. Takes care of me.

But also VERY slow moving...seems frightened of too much commitment(while he is exclusive with me and devotes every weds and fri-sun with me straight and I have stuff at his place etc) has very strict schedules/routines, quirky, and can sidestep more serious issues with humor, so I'll keep repeating it until k get an answer. Sometimes he's the most affectionate ever! Other times he's hard to reach emotionally. Can never fully tell what he's thinking, while he is very very open.

I have to work in my jealousy. He went to dinner with a female friend the other night (I've met her, not some random) but I was terribly jealous because they had a 3 week thing 2 YEARS ago. He said they weren't compatible romantically and work better as friends. This is the first time he's hung with a female friend solo since November yet I had a male roommate and am hanging at my friend dans house until he's ready for me to come over. (My married to another good friend platonic male best friend, me as a guy) I have no reason to not trust him or be so hypocritical, he trusts me...he's not at all jealous. He's got 13.5 years on me and has never cheated, but I have. I'm assuming, paranoid, and jealous at times. But he's none of those.

Really want to learn to be more secure in myself

Posted by Damnata
pleasing this man?

get your venus in cancer checked. it might have cancer

Hahaha that was a good one! clever.

Posted by Agentgem24
I have to work in my jealousy. He went to dinner with a female friend the other night (I've met her, not some random) but I was terribly jealous because they had a 3 week thing 2 YEARS ago. He said they weren't compatible romantically and work better as friends. This is the first time he's hung with a female friend solo since November yet I had a male roommate and am hanging at my friend dans house until he's ready for me to come over. (My married to another good friend platonic male best friend, me as a guy) I have no reason to not trust him or be so hypocritical, he trusts me...he's not at all jealous. He's got 13.5 years on me and has never cheated, but I have. I'm assuming, paranoid, and jealous at times. But he's none of those.

Really want to learn to be more secure in myself

He may be an emotional cheat. Not trying to scare you gem or say thats true. But I know men really over pride themselves on not banging other chicks but that isn't the only way to cheat.

Just don't automatically assume your thoughts are nuts is all I mean. You sound more emotional aware than a lot of the guys you seem to date from your posts even though you have your issues too 🙂 just my view.

Well I hope that's not the case...it's hard to tell. He seems pretty close to certain female friends, but then my friends Dan I am exceptionally close. Enough for people to even come up to his wife and say, "um...what's the deal with her?"

But it's totally platonic and harmless. It's like he can be so affectionate one minute, and then the emotional switch goes off

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Posted by Agentgem24
I have to work in my jealousy. He went to dinner with a female friend the other night (I've met her, not some random) but I was terribly jealous because they had a 3 week thing 2 YEARS ago. He said they weren't compatible romantically and work better as friends. This is the first time he's hung with a female friend solo since November yet I had a male roommate and am hanging at my friend dans house until he's ready for me to come over. (My married to another good friend platonic male best friend, me as a guy) I have no reason to not trust him or be so hypocritical, he trusts me...he's not at all jealous. He's got 13.5 years on me and has never cheated, but I have. I'm assuming, paranoid, and jealous at times. But he's none of those.

Really want to learn to be more secure in myself

He may be an emotional cheat. Not trying to scare you gem or say thats true. But I know men really over pride themselves on not banging other chicks but that isn't the only way to cheat.

Just don't automatically assume your thoughts are nuts is all I mean. You sound more emotional aware than a lot of the guys you seem to date from your posts even though you have your issues too 🙂 just my view.

I never really understood emotional cheating but that is certainly what I was accused of, in the past.

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It's where you're romantically emotionally invested in another woman without acting physically on it. Or maybe several. Bad T!

Posted by Agentgem24
Well I hope that's not the case...it's hard to tell. He seems pretty close to certain female friends, but then my friends Dan I am exceptionally close. Enough for people to even come up to his wife and say, "um...what's the deal with her?"

But it's totally platonic and harmless. It's like he can be so affectionate one minute, and then the emotional switch goes off

Yea and I mean hopefully it's all good. Your perceptive though gem, trust that sometimes 🙂

Emotional cheating is worse in my opinion. *slap slap*

Maybe you're just indecisive, libra

NUH UH

Perceptive...maybe? I'm extremely analytical and I over analyze everything. I will look for flaws that aren't there and stew on ones that are. If it's too perfect, I'll wonder when it will mess up.

He really does seem like he has a form of autism at times. I knows he's older and mature (he's very intelligent) but I always forget he's older because 1, he looks great. 2, he really doesn't act it at times.

Posted by Agentgem24
Perceptive...maybe? I'm extremely analytical and I over analyze everything. I will look for flaws that aren't there and stew on ones that are. If it's too perfect, I'll wonder when it will mess up.

He really does seem like he has a form of autism at times. I knows he's older and mature (he's very intelligent) but I always forget he's older because 1, he looks great. 2, he really doesn't act it at times.

Hmm yeah. I guess you have to decipher between what is real and what is paranoia. But feelings come up for a reason I think. What exactly is autism?

Posted by tiziani
I've never had emotional loyalty myself, decisive or not. The concept goes above my head since it seems like a double standard.

justification!!! lol 😛

Posted by tiziani
You're all going to provoke me into making a thread about it 😛 And I never make serious threads. Buyer beware.

Lol!

Caveat emptor!

Make one about male casual sex and everyone will tell you that you're a dick and not entitled to your own body and you will burn in hell lol

Posted by May31Baby
Feed him
Fuck him
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SHUT THE FUCK UP! 🙂

LOL! Oh MayMayBayBay.. You so craycray. In a good way 😄

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Posted by Sag89
Make one about male casual sex and everyone will tell you that you're a dick and not entitled to your own body and you will burn in hell lol

Lol I missed the ending to that thread. First time I've seen you get heated actually. A new side to the eight nine.

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It's that whole be your own sovereign thing that people just refuse to want to do. It makes me upset because its destroying the planet. Judgements are completely normal as are opinion's. But we are that own/ nd are the only taking care of ourselves at the end of the day and you gotta accept that.

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Make one about male casual sex and everyone will tell you that you're a dick and not entitled to your own body and you will burn in hell lol

Lol I missed the ending to that thread. First time I've seen you get heated actually. A new side to the eight nine.

It's that whole be your own sovereign thing that people just refuse to want to do. It makes me upset because its destroying the planet. Judgements are completely normal as are opinion's. But we are that own/ nd are the only taking care of ourselves at the end of the day and you gotta accept that.

So you think it's fear that people are throwing onto other's life style s? I could see it that way, but then when I talk to people of a slightly older generation than us I also have to agree with them that we've lost a sense of community that could be doing it's own fair share of destruction, if you know what I mean. Maybe there will come a time again where we really do need to trust one another to take each other to task, for all our sake's.

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No but if you can't trust yourself you can't trust others. I'm saying you have to be in complete control of yourself before you go off trying to give back in a effective way. No one is perfect. But you can be responsible. Do you know what I mean?

Posted by Sag89
Make one about male casual sex and everyone will tell you that you're a dick and not entitled to your own body and you will burn in hell lol

jesuschrist, dude ....


You make a thread about casual sex, and cannot handle opposing opinions about it to the point that you close the thread down ..... and now this is like the 3rd thread of another persons that I've read where you came in to make snide comments about how you didn't like those those answers you got.

I'm not sure what crawled up your ass ... but, whatever it is, your plugged ass is showing.

Unity in a healthy form.

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Posted by Sag89
Make one about male casual sex and everyone will tell you that you're a dick and not entitled to your own body and you will burn in hell lol

jesuschrist, dude ....


You make a thread about casual sex, and cannot handle opposing opinions about it to the point that you close the thread down ..... and now this is like the 3rd thread of another persons that I've read where you came in to make snide comments about how you didn't like those those answers you got.

I'm not sure what crawled up your ass ... but, whatever it is, your plugged ass is showing.

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There was too much name calling and it stopped being an effective conversation. So I shut it down. Why are you following my posts? Do wanna talk more about it in a effective way? I'm willing to try again.

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Make one about male casual sex and everyone will tell you that you're a dick and not entitled to your own body and you will burn in hell lol

Lol I missed the ending to that thread. First time I've seen you get heated actually. A new side to the eight nine.

It's that whole be your own sovereign thing that people just refuse to want to do. It makes me upset because its destroying the planet. Judgements are completely normal as are opinion's. But we are that own/ nd are the only taking care of ourselves at the end of the day and you gotta accept that.

So you think it's fear that people are throwing onto other's life style s? I could see it that way, but then when I talk to people of a slightly older generation than us I also have to agree with them that we've lost a sense of community that could be doing it's own fair share of destruction, if you know what I mean. Maybe there will come a time again where we really do need to trust one another to take each other to task, for all our sake's.

No but if you can't trust yourself you can't trust others. I'm saying you have to be in complete control of yourself before you go off trying to give back in a effective way. No one is perfect. But you can be responsible. Do you know what I mean?

Ok, I see where you're coming from now. I've calmed down a little bit on that end in the last couple of years. Working on ourselves is never truly finished, and you're never going to be quite where you want to be as an individual. It's all negotiable, but I agree with being responsible.

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yep balance as you leebs say 🙂

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Make one about male casual sex and everyone will tell you that you're a dick and not entitled to your own body and you will burn in hell lol

Lol I missed the ending to that thread. First time I've seen you get heated actually. A new side to the eight nine.

It's that whole be your own sovereign thing that people just refuse to want to do. It makes me upset because its destroying the planet. Judgements are completely normal as are opinion's. But we are that own/ nd are the only taking care of ourselves at the end of the day and you gotta accept that.

So you think it's fear that people are throwing onto other's life style s? I could see it that way, but then when I talk to people of a slightly older generation than us I also have to agree with them that we've lost a sense of community that could be doing it's own fair share of destruction, if you know what I mean. Maybe there will come a time again where we really do need to trust one another to take each other to task, for all our sake's.

No but if you can't trust yourself you can't trust others. I'm saying you have to be in complete control of yourself before you go off trying to give back in a effective way. No one is perfect. But you can be responsible. Do you know what I mean?

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I need to work on trusting myself. He's touchy feely for sure and he seems secure, but I will initiate some moves before he is comfortable. My best friend says he's the same way, or was in the beginning. DatScorpio moon I guess. Most people thought he was asexual in the past because he was never touchy feely at the club etc. but he is with me at least, even if I have to initiate. Come to think of it, I think my Virgo in venus ex was like that too