@VenusStar
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Libra Man coming on strong...
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i'm 29 and he's 31 next month. He had a crush on me during our college years. He would always find a way to approach me but he would be scared to speak or get nervous. He didn't start off that way, I blame myself because sometimes I was a little cold. He asked me out once and I turned him down for a stupid reason (panicked about going out dancing, no rythem). Anyway he has shown on and off interest from then on with about a year in between each time except the last five years.
I recently ran into him earlier this summer; he moved to my neighborhood. I haven't seen him in a while and He hasn't shown romantic interest in me since 2010. Our first meeting this summer in July , he seemed wary of me but still willing to talk to me. Then I started running into him a lot more often. Well, he's trying something new. Being more aggressive. A few weeks ago he saw me walking towards a coffee shop from his car. He turned his car around, parked it and beat me to the coffee shop. He insisted on buying me a drink, a hug, complimented the way I smelled and offered random information about himself. He was flustered. I was flustered. The next encounter, a few weeks later he waited around my building (I suspected, to pretend he just happen to be around, so he can spend time with me) He hasn't given me his number even though I hinted at it. I finally realized what it was that initially had me confused by some of his behavior all those years back. He's shy!!!! He knew everyone that walked by us on the street but sometimes he would stand and stare at me from a foot away and trip over his words.
He fits the Libra Male description, i.e. the charming guy but at the same time he doesn't. What I've gathered about him.
He's definitely frugal(not cheap), Low key in the way he dresses, smart, short temper, sensitive, passive aggressive, charming, intuitive, perceptive, laid back, kind, hard working...
I love that he has liked me through all of my weight fluctuations (I am a Taurus after all) That means a lot to me. I'm a plain jane but he makes me feel like the prettiest girl. Sigh...