Not understandable behaviour of a Taurus Man??

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Mia25
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14 Years

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Dear all,
This is the first time in my life that I have any what so ever experience with a Taurus man and I must admit I am totally confused. I am Leo/Aries while he is Taurus/Pisces. I fell in love with him, although he is almost 5 years younger than me and all the time he was really at tentative, gentle and kind. Although I knew that he is quite a ladies man and that he had numerous, mainly sexual, relationships, I really fell in love with him. In the first month of our "relationship" he was kind of careful - he would say that he feels we have nice friendship and that I am very dear to me, but never told me that he was in love with me as I said to him. After a while, although we had absolutely no problems and never quarreled or had negative energy between us, I felt kind of lonely and thought of breaking up with him. As though he felt it, he started to behave completely different - he became more affectionate towards me, more gentle, he told me that he love me, he started to sleep over at my place, spend much more time with me etc. I questioned him what brought the change and he told me that he needed time to estimate me and to be sure of me. And everything was great until today, when accidentally I saw his Facebook account open and saw in messages that he corresponds still with other, much older women - even with two of them in the same time. Reading those messages was a real blow not only to my pride, but mainly to my relationship to him as a human being. How can he say that he loves me and wants something serious with me and in the same time flirt with other women? I don't think that a man in love would behave like that and I would ask him about it, but the only problem is that I don't feel comfortable with looking at his FB account without his permission (although he left the page on my laptop, as though he "wanted" me to see it). He behaved today completely normal, but was very confused with my avoiding me and I still don't answer his calls because I just want to distance from him. So, please, what is your opinion about the whole situation with this particular Taurus man?
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nimbue
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he's baiting you...and you're falling for it.

1-he changes how he behaves towards you once you think of moving on. coincidence? nah. you're his ego boost. yes, he may have feelings for you but they aren't genuine ones.

2-ooh, he's messaging other women and oops: magically leaves the page up for you to see. and you already have doubts about him, so you read the messages.

most people who trust someone don't invade their privacy like that. yes, he left it open, no you didn't have to look at/read anything.

you're allowing him to confuse/manipulate you. his behaviour speaks for itself. once you look at him as just another guy and not someone you have feelings for, the confusion will clear.