SEX ON THE FIRST DATE LEADS TO RELATIONSHIPS?

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Why? Why Not?

SUN, MOON, VENUS?
I always played it safe by not ever going there for at least a couple of months-until I am comfortable with them and it feels right. Until I met my Aries-I think it was on the 2nd date OOPS! I felt pretty guilty about it but I was needing it, and I believe he too so whatever! That was 9 months ago, we're living together now. That scenario told me never say never lol!
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Why? Why Not?

SUN, MOON, VENUS?
I always played it safe by not ever going there for at least a couple of months-until I am comfortable with them and it feels right. Until I met my Aries-I think it was on the 2nd date OOPS! I felt pretty guilty about it but I was needing it, and I believe he too so whatever! That was 9 months ago, we're living together now. That scenario told me never say never lol!
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I guess when it's right or needed ... just go for it regardless of the outcome.. great story ?
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Why? Why Not?

SUN, MOON, VENUS?
Yes can happen you don't buy a car without a test drive do you ?

Sun: Virgo

Moon: Sagittarius

Venus: Leo


Amen to that honey ❤️
I had sex on the first date with my sagg and now 2,5 years together my previous relationship of 5 years i also had sex the first date must be my chiron,vesta jupiter,chiron in the 8th house this is what is says you should look up your chart too.

I either attract men with alot of money or alot of good sex or both i heal my partners through sex

Chiron in the 8th house: This shows your deepest wound residing in resource, death, and sex. There are many different ways this placement can express itself. Materially, it can manifest through dependence on others or others depending on you too much. Physically, it can manifest through difficulties in feeling fulfilled sexually, yet being able to fulfill partners easily. Emotionally, it can manifest in great sorrow regarding death. Possibly having deaths in your early childhood or having those close to you die. You may be able to console those who are feeling sorrow, but are unable to console yourself. Whichever these are, the important thing to remember is to respect yourself, accept the cycles of life, and let go. You can heal each of these wounds by being honest and upfront. You must learn to share your emotions in order to transcend them. You know transformation lurks behind disaster better than anyone. Clear the soot. Embrace the change.



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Very interesting analysis! I don't know how to look it up... recently I learned my rising is in Scorpio due to a possible birth time between 3-6pm (born in Jamaica so have to go back to see the actual time). that would be a great help...people message me things that appear to fit me based on my discussions and it helps me to find my houses and such if I can say yes that's me after reading it lol... a lot I don't know about myself.

Now as for you, wow that is amazing that you have that ability and congratulations to you and your partner as well ❤️ This may also explain why some do have relationships after and why some don't, because it's not supposed to happen based on their chart or placements. Some should wait and some should leap into it... I never knew the chart could be so deep that could help analyze the directions you've been going or headed. Thanks for that.
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Why? Why Not?

SUN, MOON, VENUS?
Yes can happen you don't buy a car without a test drive do you ?

Sun: Virgo

Moon: Sagittarius

Venus: Leo


Amen to that honey ❤️
I had sex on the first date with my sagg and now 2,5 years together my previous relationship of 5 years i also had sex the first date must be my chiron,vesta jupiter,chiron in the 8th house this is what is says you should look up your chart too.

I either attract men with alot of money or alot of good sex or both i heal my partners through sex

Chiron in the 8th house: This shows your deepest wound residing in resource, death, and sex. There are many different ways this placement can express itself. Materially, it can manifest through dependence on others or others depending on you too much. Physically, it can manifest through difficulties in feeling fulfilled sexually, yet being able to fulfill partners easily. Emotionally, it can manifest in great sorrow regarding death. Possibly having deaths in your early childhood or having those close to you die. You may be able to console those who are feeling sorrow, but are unable to console yourself. Whichever these are, the important thing to remember is to respect yourself, accept the cycles of life, and let go. You can heal each of these wounds by being honest and upfront. You must learn to share your emotions in order to transcend them. You know transformation lurks behind disaster better than anyone. Clear the soot. Embrace the change.





Very interesting analysis! I don't know how to look it up... recently I learned my rising is in Scorpio due to a possible birth time between 3-6pm (born in Jamaica so have to go back to see the actual time). that would be a great help...people message me things that appear to fit me based on my discussions and it helps me to find my houses and such if I can say yes that's me after reading it lol... a lot I don't know about myself.

Now as for you, wow that is amazing that you have that ability and congratulations to you and your partner as well ❤️ This may also explain why some do have relationships after and why some don't, because it's not supposed to happen based on their chart or placements. Some should wait and some should leap into it... I never knew the chart could be so deep that could help analyze the directions you've been going or headed. Thanks for that.


Scorpio rising gives you a very penetrating stare and you ooze sexuality that will also attract alot of men.

Whats your venus and in what house is it placed ?

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Yes... I always get the ora when I walked into a room even when I sit in the corner and no matter what I have on! I always be like I'm no different from the girl in that sexy dress but they always seem to gravitate to me... also, I used to always look away from people because they used to stare at me a lot, and made me uneasy so I had no idea about the stare until recently... I've been staring now since and it actually makes me laugh when men look away like you're too much lol...

I'm a Aries Venus (the placement I hate as I am earth mixed with fire I want to be calm but my impulses irritates me cause I suppress it but it springs up anyway)... not sure which house. I just recently found I have libra in 12th and it also said Aries in 6th in brackets? So that may be where My Venus is so not sure. Still learning.
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I've never been on a date, let alone dated anyone before sex. It was always a hook up/Fwb situation that led to a relationship.

Leo, Virgo, Virgo

*cyber high five 🙂

For a moment I thought I was going to be the only one who would come in here and say, "Fvck the date. Let's have sex, and if we still like each other after that, we can go get something to eat."

Pretty standard in my previous relationships that after a few sessions of hot sex, you notice this person for some weird reason isn't going away, and it starts to feel weird talking to other people. Then after another sweaty climax together, somebody says, "You know what? We should try going on an actual date."

And that's probably around the time the relationship becomes official.

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With my ex gf we had sex on the first date. But we had met 9 months before. And that wasn't even a proper date - I only thought about it when she ask me to go upstairs..

We stayed together 6 1/2 years.

I'm cancer, gemini, leo.

She aries, aquarius, aries.
It was meant to be.... for awhile ?
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She tried to break-up for the last year and a half of the relationship. Feelings were there but we had been living in separate cities for three years. Three months after we finally had our last conversations, 9 months after our last holidays together, I told her I met someone that I really liked. She hated me. Badly. Now, three months after the hating phase, she restarted to text me. She misses me and thinks about all the time, she says. :/
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With my ex gf we had sex on the first date. But we had met 9 months before. And that wasn't even a proper date - I only thought about it when she ask me to go upstairs..

We stayed together 6 1/2 years.

I'm cancer, gemini, leo.

She aries, aquarius, aries.
It was meant to be.... for awhile ?
She tried to break-up for the last year and a half of the relationship. Feelings were there but we had been living in separate cities for three years. Three months after we finally had our last conversations, 9 months after our last holidays together, I told her I met someone that I really liked. She hated me. Badly. Now, three months after the hating phase, she restarted to text me. She misses me and thinks about all the time, she says. :/
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Go get her... dilemma but it's clear something is still there
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I've never been on a date, let alone dated anyone before sex. It was always a hook up/Fwb situation that led to a relationship.

Leo, Virgo, Virgo

*cyber high five 🙂

For a moment I thought I was going to be the only one who would come in here and say, "Fvck the date. Let's have sex, and if we still like each other after that, we can go get something to eat."

Pretty standard in my previous relationships that after a few sessions of hot sex, you notice this person for some weird reason isn't going away, and it starts to feel weird talking to other people. Then after another sweaty climax together, somebody says, "You know what? We should try going on an actual date."

And that's probably around the time the relationship becomes official.

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Love this ❤️
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Lol it worked for me?

Well then again, we weren't on a date lol we just met at a party and hooked up, and 4 years later here we are ? Been together on and off for 3 years. Pshh, and they say never to have sex with a Taurus man on the first date cuz he won't want you?

Oh Taurus sun, cancer moon, Venus gemini
Sex is the way to a Taurus heart ? Add some food and you good. Congrats honey you bagged one of the hardest set of men ?
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I have done in the past but the focus seemed to be too much on sex

If I dated again, I would like to wait a while to get to know the man and he I


Well if one way don't work... ain't nothing wrong with changing it ?
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🙂

I always had long rships but I don't want the next one to be so sexually focused......I want something deeper



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I have done in the past but the focus seemed to be too much on sex

If I dated again, I would like to wait a while to get to know the man and he I


Well if one way don't work... ain't nothing wrong with changing it ?
🙂

I always had long rships but I don't want the next one to be so sexually focused......I want something deeper





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I can so agree with you ❤️?
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Never. And you lose respect for eachother too. Or I would, anyway.

Gemini Sun, Sag Moon, Aries Venus.
Could be our Venus is Aries? We like a chase before being able to bag em?

Maybe. I don't want someone that is too easy. It's a turn off to me. Or someone who throws themselves at me. No thanks.

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Me too lol... make me work for it the same way you working for this lol.
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Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Why? Why Not?

SUN, MOON, VENUS?
I always played it safe by not ever going there for at least a couple of months-until I am comfortable with them and it feels right. Until I met my Aries-I think it was on the 2nd date OOPS! I felt pretty guilty about it but I was needing it, and I believe he too so whatever! That was 9 months ago, we're living together now. That scenario told me never say never lol!
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23 years later I must say...I shouldn't had...lol
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I have done in the past but the focus seemed to be too much on sex

If I dated again, I would like to wait a while to get to know the man and he I


Well if one way don't work... ain't nothing wrong with changing it ?
🙂

I always had long rships but I don't want the next one to be so sexually focused......I want something deeper





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Does it get deeper than sex?
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I have done in the past but the focus seemed to be too much on sex

If I dated again, I would like to wait a while to get to know the man and he I


Well if one way don't work... ain't nothing wrong with changing it ?
🙂

I always had long rships but I don't want the next one to be so sexually focused......I want something deeper






Does it get deeper than sex?
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Ooooooo GEMI... you done hit the nail ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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No.

The relationship now has a core of SEX, instead of intimacy and feelings. I'm not saying that you should wait forever to have sex, to each their own. But often when that's what the beginning is marked as, it becomes the basis of it. Obviously not all the time, but you get my point.

Sun: capricorn

Moon: gemini

Venus: Sagittarius
No!

There is nothing wrong with having sex.

It does not affect relashionships in a bad way. Unless it wasn't meant to be...
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Yeah, as long as the people were relationship minded to start with. i don't think there's anything wrong with it.

Libra/aries/Scorpio
Love that way of thinking. And that is true if they're already the commitment type... sex won't matter whether it's an hour in or a month in ❤️
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I was trying to deliver this message unsuccessfully...if he meant to dump you -he will! Even if he courting you for weeks - after sex he will be gone!

If he wants you - have sex anytime and he will stay...

First example is waste of time and feelings...the longer you know him - the harder you'll be hurt!
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Yeah, as long as the people were relationship minded to start with. i don't think there's anything wrong with it.

Libra/aries/Scorpio
Love that way of thinking. And that is true if they're already the commitment type... sex won't matter whether it's an hour in or a month in ❤️
I was trying to deliver this message unsuccessfully...if he meant to dump you -he will! Even if he courting you for weeks - after sex he will be gone!

If he wants you - have sex anytime and he will stay...

First example is waste of time and feelings...the longer you know him - the harder you'll be hurt!
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Never thought of it this way Tati! And this just opened my eyes! Who the hell wanna bet but hurt later and the sex may even be whack at that point — lesson learned get laid sooner than later ?
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I have done in the past but the focus seemed to be too much on sex

If I dated again, I would like to wait a while to get to know the man and he I


Well if one way don't work... ain't nothing wrong with changing it ?
🙂

I always had long rships but I don't want the next one to be so sexually focused......I want something deeper






Does it get deeper than sex?
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Hope so

Any old dick can have sex .....
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No.

The relationship now has a core of SEX, instead of intimacy and feelings. I'm not saying that you should wait forever to have sex, to each their own. But often when that's what the beginning is marked as, it becomes the basis of it. Obviously not all the time, but you get my point.

Sun: capricorn

Moon: gemini

Venus: Sagittarius
No!

There is nothing wrong with having sex.

It does not affect relashionships in a bad way. Unless it wasn't meant to be...
Yeah, I would argue that that's not true. I don't think there's anything wrong with sex. But sex early in the relationship(before it's even a relationship), imo clouds judgement. Instead of bonding over characteristics and ideas, you're bonding over the dance of genitals. I think that's why so many people have issues in finding a partner or creating lasting relationships. Their relationship was based on sex.

Please note, I am not saying that it's impossible to have a relationship with someone after having sex on the first date. Friiends of mine had sex with their SOs very early and they've been together for years. BUT, they made additional bonds that weren't sex related.



You need more than sex to create a lasting bond, imo.
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So true
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i used to have a saying, "if you make me laugh, i'll fuck you" but i've grown out of that ?

now i like to hold back & seduce until the other person cant handle it anymore & has to be direct about wanting me. im not opposed to sex on the first night but i find the withholding a big turn on

sun in scorp (9th)

moon in libra (8th)

venus in cap (11th)
That Scorpio power ? Yummy lol
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Yeah, as long as the people were relationship minded to start with. i don't think there's anything wrong with it.

Libra/aries/Scorpio
Love that way of thinking. And that is true if they're already the commitment type... sex won't matter whether it's an hour in or a month in ❤️
I was trying to deliver this message unsuccessfully...if he meant to dump you -he will! Even if he courting you for weeks - after sex he will be gone!

If he wants you - have sex anytime and he will stay...

First example is waste of time and feelings...the longer you know him - the harder you'll be hurt!
Never thought of it this way Tati! And this just opened my eyes! Who the hell wanna bet but hurt later and the sex may even be whack at that point — lesson learned get laid sooner than later ?

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?

Sure deal! And never be on 'sex too soon'...

If he is gone - it's inevitable and would happen anyway...
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Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Posted by Insertusername
Yeah, as long as the people were relationship minded to start with. i don't think there's anything wrong with it.

Libra/aries/Scorpio
Love that way of thinking. And that is true if they're already the commitment type... sex won't matter whether it's an hour in or a month in ❤️
I was trying to deliver this message unsuccessfully...if he meant to dump you -he will! Even if he courting you for weeks - after sex he will be gone!

If he wants you - have sex anytime and he will stay...

First example is waste of time and feelings...the longer you know him - the harder you'll be hurt!
Never thought of it this way Tati! And this just opened my eyes! Who the hell wanna bet but hurt later and the sex may even be whack at that point — lesson learned get laid sooner than later ?


?

Sure deal! And never be on 'sex too soon'...

If he is gone - it's inevitable and would happen anyway...
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?? this is why I love my Tati ❤️
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No.

The relationship now has a core of SEX, instead of intimacy and feelings. I'm not saying that you should wait forever to have sex, to each their own. But often when that's what the beginning is marked as, it becomes the basis of it. Obviously not all the time, but you get my point.

Sun: capricorn

Moon: gemini

Venus: Sagittarius
No!

There is nothing wrong with having sex.

It does not affect relashionships in a bad way. Unless it wasn't meant to be...
Yeah, I would argue that that's not true. I don't think there's anything wrong with sex. But sex early in the relationship(before it's even a relationship), imo clouds judgement. Instead of bonding over characteristics and ideas, you're bonding over the dance of genitals. I think that's why so many people have issues in finding a partner or creating lasting relationships. Their relationship was based on sex.

Please note, I am not saying that it's impossible to have a relationship with someone after having sex on the first date. Friiends of mine had sex with their SOs very early and they've been together for years. BUT, they made additional bonds that weren't sex related.



You need more than sex to create a lasting bond, imo.
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Show me long lasting couple with bad sex vs couple with good sex?

Those with good sex surviving more than those with bad sex.

Plus how do you know about anything at your age— From books— Oh paleze!
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i used to have a saying, "if you make me laugh, i'll fuck you" but i've grown out of that ?

now i like to hold back & seduce until the other person cant handle it anymore & has to be direct about wanting me. im not opposed to sex on the first night but i find the withholding a big turn on

sun in scorp (9th)

moon in libra (8th)

venus in cap (11th)
That Scorpio power ? Yummy lol
and that aloof venus in cap/11th house combo ?

romantic mind games abound

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By the time they ready they wanna turn you inside out and lick your soul ??❤️
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