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SEX ON THE FIRST DATE LEADS TO RELATIONSHIPS? (Page 2)
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Posted by Koniuchaa
It has for meOh I'm Scorpio with Cancer moon, Virgo Venus
Yeah... it's Virgo Venus.
Haha, totally agree ?
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Elaborate on that Virgo Venus and sex on the first date? Is this a normal thing for this Venus or what?
Asking for a friend ?
Posted by Koniuchaa
It has for meOh I'm Scorpio with Cancer moon, Virgo Venus
Yeah... it's Virgo Venus.
Haha, totally agree ?
Elaborate on that Virgo Venus and sex on the first date? Is this a normal thing for this Venus or what?
Asking for a friend ?
Definitely not. We are actually very picky
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So would you say it's safe to say if a Venus in Virgo chooses to have sex with you on the first date they are thinking of relationship potential?
Posted by Koniuchaa
It has for meOh I'm Scorpio with Cancer moon, Virgo Venus
Yeah... it's Virgo Venus.
Haha, totally agree ?
Elaborate on that Virgo Venus and sex on the first date? Is this a normal thing for this Venus or what?
Asking for a friend ?
Definitely not. We are actually very picky
So would you say it's safe to say if a Venus in Virgo chooses to have sex with you on the first date they are thinking of relationship potential?
They are at least attracted to you. Now, if you make it to the 2nd date, then they are thinking about relationship potential. Mind you, that is very hard to do
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No worries lol... I'm sure he's analyzing like crazy. And I have my timeframe... one week then I'm on the hunt again. One thing for certain y'all Venus in Virgo are something when it comes to sex ?
Posted by Koniuchaa
It has for meOh I'm Scorpio with Cancer moon, Virgo Venus
Yeah... it's Virgo Venus.
Haha, totally agree ?
Elaborate on that Virgo Venus and sex on the first date? Is this a normal thing for this Venus or what?
Asking for a friend ?
Definitely not. We are actually very picky
So would you say it's safe to say if a Venus in Virgo chooses to have sex with you on the first date they are thinking of relationship potential?
They are at least attracted to you. Now, if you make it to the 2nd date, then they are thinking about relationship potential. Mind you, that is very hard to do
No worries lol... I'm sure he's analyzing like crazy. And I have my timeframe... one week then I'm on the hunt again. One thing for certain y'all Venus in Virgo are something when it comes to sex ?
No comment
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Lol
Posted by Arielle83
Ya well it has in my experience cuz I just want to bang. And I bang good.Cancer
Libra
Virgo
Why these boys trying to wifey me when I just want what's in their pants?
I'm not cooking them lasagna
Are they all Italian?
It leads to a quick escape just the same. After that there is nothing to build up to. Its like lighting a blazing fire with gasoline instead of slowly getting to that point by building it up with sticks one by one. It's just over and done with before it even had a chance to start. By time you both finally have a blazing fire it's worth more because it took you both a lot of time and effort to make it, which builds a true bond between the two.
Leo sun
Scorpio moon
Cancer Venus
Posted by Arielle83
Ya well it has in my experience cuz I just want to bang. And I bang good.Cancer
Libra
Virgo
Why these boys trying to wifey me when I just want what's in their pants?
I'm not cooking them lasagna
Are they all Italian?
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Your cancer Sun nurtures them the libra moon flirts with them and the Virgo Venus serves them... you give off everything a mom and woman energy they would want as a partner... you'll never escape that ??
Goodnight everyone studio in the am 5am... yeah I know I go to a 24 hour studio. Till the Morrows —
Posted by Arielle83
Ya well it has in my experience cuz I just want to bang. And I bang good.Cancer
Libra
Virgo
Why these boys trying to wifey me when I just want what's in their pants?
I'm not cooking them lasagna
Are they all Italian?
Your cancer Sun nurtures them the libra moon flirts with them and the Virgo Venus serves them... you give off everything a mom and woman energy they would want as a partner... you'll never escape that ??
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Who? Italians? —
Posted by SweetLily_89
I've never been on a date, let alone dated anyone before sex. It was always a hook up/Fwb situation that led to a relationship.Leo, Virgo, Virgo
*cyber high five 🙂
For a moment I thought I was going to be the only one who would come in here and say, "Fvck the date. Let's have sex, and if we still like each other after that, we can go get something to eat."
Pretty standard in my previous relationships that after a few sessions of hot sex, you notice this person for some weird reason isn't going away, and it starts to feel weird talking to other people. Then after another sweaty climax together, somebody says, "You know what? We should try going on an actual date."
And that's probably around the time the relationship becomes official.
Lol *cyber high fives back* 😄
I somehow end up in full blown relationships before there's ever a label put on it — It's starts off slow, hanging out here and there. Next thing you know your spending the weekends together, bickering about which football team is going to win, meeting his friends and getting cookies sent from his mother. Then one morning you wake up and you're hit with the feels. Lmao.
Once we get passed that awkward "I love you" talk, it's all good.
I've decided on attempting the more traditional approach to dating. I'll have to see where that one goes.
I'm sensing some serious Gemini from you my friend.. Is it your moon?
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Guilty! 😄
Gemini is my dominant sign, and my moon, Venus, Jupiter, and NN are placed there.
It's always been the same for me as well. I've never been one to favor labels, and a relationship just happens all on its own. Not making things official can tend to leave one or both partners feeling like the other is only keeping one foot in so it's not an issue for me having that awkward convo when we decide to be exclusive. Once I have the feels, my focus will already be on her anyway.
I've done things traditionally a couple times. One was quite successful, and the other was disastrous. So nothing to prove which way is better. I just don't hide that my initial interest in someone should be a given that I want to have sex, and I need sexual release constantly. I mean I'm going to be beating off to mad porn until we do sooo... 😉
It's just always been the best way for to me to connect, and the sooner the better.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Lol it worked for me?Well then again, we weren't on a date lol we just met at a party and hooked up, and 4 years later here we are ? Been together on and off for 3 years. Pshh, and they say never to have sex with a Taurus man on the first date cuz he won't want you?
Oh Taurus sun, cancer moon, Venus gemini
Sex is the way to a Taurus heart ? Add some food and you good. Congrats honey you bagged one of the hardest set of men ?
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Hahahaa I don't even know how tf I bagged his stubborn ass — I guess they like it when you act like you only want their dick ??
We were never friends met on POF. Fucked on our first hangout/date, kissed for 20 mins straight and was calling me daddy the rest of the night. . The longest I ever kissed anybody.
Cancer Gemini Gemini
Her: Leo Sag Libra
Dated fa 6 months and then left me for ex I didn't know she was missing.
Posted by carrazeda
With my ex gf we had sex on the first date. But we had met 9 months before. And that wasn't even a proper date - I only thought about it when she ask me to go upstairs..We stayed together 6 1/2 years.
I'm cancer, gemini, leo.
She aries, aquarius, aries.
It was meant to be.... for awhile ?
She tried to break-up for the last year and a half of the relationship. Feelings were there but we had been living in separate cities for three years. Three months after we finally had our last conversations, 9 months after our last holidays together, I told her I met someone that I really liked. She hated me. Badly. Now, three months after the hating phase, she restarted to text me. She misses me and thinks about all the time, she says. :/
Go get her... dilemma but it's clear something is still there
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I can't.. I love her but it took me a lot to accept we had to move one. We lived in separate countries for three years. She is the ex-wife of my first boss from whom she has a kid. It's nearly impossible for us to move in the next years. She never wanted to open up our relationship with the ex-husband and the kid. Yes it sounds like a novella. It really was but it was a great relationship for both. We had loads of friends around. When we break-up every single one told me yeah you'll have get together again. And both our families accepted it really well (except for my mother that cried in the first day).
We had to move on. It was too complicated to evolve the relationship.
Posted by carrazeda
With my ex gf we had sex on the first date. But we had met 9 months before. And that wasn't even a proper date - I only thought about it when she ask me to go upstairs..We stayed together 6 1/2 years.
I'm cancer, gemini, leo.
She aries, aquarius, aries.
It was meant to be.... for awhile ?
She tried to break-up for the last year and a half of the relationship. Feelings were there but we had been living in separate cities for three years. Three months after we finally had our last conversations, 9 months after our last holidays together, I told her I met someone that I really liked. She hated me. Badly. Now, three months after the hating phase, she restarted to text me. She misses me and thinks about all the time, she says. :/
Go get her... dilemma but it's clear something is still there
I can't.. I love her but it took me a lot to accept we had to move one. We lived in separate countries for three years. She is the ex-wife of my first boss from whom she has a kid. It's nearly impossible for us to move in the next years. She never wanted to open up our relationship with the ex-husband and the kid. Yes it sounds like a novella. It really was but it was a great relationship for both. We had loads of friends around. When we break-up every single one told me yeah you'll have get together again. And both our families accepted it really well (except for my mother that cried in the first day).
We had to move on. It was too complicated to evolve the relationship.
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Sometimes you have to love from a distance even if it hurts.
I'm in my 30's but I am beyond disillusioned with relationships. At this point a FWB would be ideal. I dont catch feelings for any one based on good sex. I would need a strong mental connection for that to happen.
Problem is I live in a town full of younger women, and most catch feelings even the girls who sleep around if you know how to sexually satisfy them.
But younger people and some my age confuse good boot knockin chemistry for love.
Is there any cities with a decent amount of single 30's women? I know some are looking for relationships, but there are others who are burnt out like me who just want to get off and leave.
Posted by Biboroon
All my relationships started after having sex on the first date. Was lucky enough that nobody dumped me right after, I guess. Libra Pisces Virgo
same lol libra perks
Why not?
He's a stranger...
A faceless vibrator.
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