Sex & You : Turn Ons and Turn Offs

Put your Sun sign, as well as Mars and Venus Sign
then list what makes you randy!

Details are expected,
inhibition forbidden...unless bondage is your thing.

Sun, Venus & Mars: Taurus

Turn ons: being submissive, dressing up/role play, oral (giving and receiving), light hair pulling(my hair), sex in public places, someone flirting with me for ages and finally getting my way with them (I love the chase!), me being on top, dirty talk, extended foreplay, spanking(them spanking me)

Turn offs: Dirt, old sweat, smelly, stick thin(like I might break them) or obese (like they might break me!), no kissing during sex, just rolling off afterwards and going to sleep (my ex-virgo did this to me, we didn't last much longer after that), anything involving me or them peeing etc on each other, bad breath

More turn offs! Me always initiating, them not being very adventurous, it happening on the same days/times week in, week out.

My and my ex-boyfriend just broke up; well, three weeks ago. It was a mutual decision, and well I want him back, and both him and I talked about our feelings for one another, once, because desperation is never a way to get back with anyone. I messed up because I hung out with a guy he DESPISES that same weekend. He found out and got upset, and that's been three weeks too.
We were friends before we went into the relationship, so he hung out with MY friends and still does (I don't mind that he does and he's close to my best friend, which I don't mind either.)
But anyway, today I was driving past him (we park on LITERALLY opposite ends of the school) and he drives past where I park to then just go one block over (making a 360 circle) and end up at the same spot to get onto the main road.
What I'm getting to is, I don't know what to think of the drving situation. He's driven by my parking spot for a few days now.
I told him I was sorry if I made him look foolish in any way, but with that happening, I don't know what it means.
Oh and on top of that, today during lunch, a friend of ours and a childhood friend of his, came up to me and ran his hands on my back (the comforting way people do when they greet one another, honestly no big deal.) My ex's response to that was that the kid was "touchy-feely." Should it bother him if were not together? I feel the same way when a girl comes and hugs him too. I'm just afraid that he doesn't want to get back because he thinks I've changed and will hurt him?

Sun: Virgo
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Aries

Turn-ons: play fighting, pulling hair, biting, dirty letters/texts, sweat, kisses on the neck, random places, oral...

sun gemini
venus cancer
mars, i think capricorn...

turn ons: I like to dominate and be dominated, alot of kissing, rubbing, and different positions are a plus

turn offs: doesn't take their time, small ****, dripping in sweat (ugh), lack of confidence...

Sun: Leo
Moon: Taurus
Mars: Taurus

Turn-ons:
Somewhat conservative dressing style s.. non-mini skirts, sweaters, hairbands, etc
Hair pulling partner, spanking and being spanked
comfortable bed and nice sheets!
Either being dominative or submissive
Being massaged
appriciates humor

Turn-offs:
non-natural (ugly) changes to the body (piercings, tattoos, etc)
short skirts, anything that is intended to bring attention due to revealing

whispering sweet nothings while doing it, now thats hot...

Sun-Cancer, Venus-Leo, Mars-Libra

Turn ons: a sense of humor, lots of eye contact, extended foreplay, sex in public places, deep kissing, being kissed on the neck

Turn offs: groping, vulgar or degrading talk, anything that hurts

Sun and Venus = Virgo
Mars = Gemini

Turn On's - Good scents, perfect ambiance set by classy bedroom themes (arabian not jungle). REAL foreplay consisting of lots of kissing, holding, rubbing and touching, moaning, groaning, an dry humping. telling me how much you like it, love being with me in a way that says you couldn't keep it a secret if your life depended on it (drives me wild), knowing the difference between arousing and abusing (lightly tap my ass don't spank me like I stole something). being lightly touched along my back by his chest, holding my hips while I'm on top and gently guiding me up and down, kissing me passionately while I am having an orgasm. Dark outside morning sex. Drunk sex. Role playing where I am submissive to a romantic lover, taking time to stir the pot and get the juices flowing. Telling me or making me feel like you've never had it like that before.

Turn Off's - bad scents, goofy nervousness, too playful in a teen boy annoying way, forgetting that I am not being paid by the hour and I am in it for the prize too, raunchy talk that degrades what we're doing and who I am to you, not being able to give me an orgasm, licking my ass, things not being equal, taking too long to come when I am down on the job, getting leg cramps, big bellies that make riding awkward, not being able to give me a round two, that farting noise the coochie makes from being suctioned with latex, cumming inside me if we're not using condoms, a man who thinks he's done something awesome when he aint did a damn thing, wanting a threesome, doing it in places where we would get caught and possibly lose big, rauncy PDA, leaving too quickly or before I have had enough of your company making me miss you and desire you again.

Sun: Aquarius
Mars: Libra
Venus: Pisces

Turn Ons:
Okay here we go... please just bear in mind I do tend to the freaky side..... but I also enjoy a bit of good romance thrown in...

Good conversation with a mental connection first and for most otherwise the rest is just moot.

Kink: Love to watch, love good oral sex both giving and receiving, hands on my throat slowly choking me... anal sex but not too often.... nipples lightly bitten, dirty sex talk... tell me what you are going to do to me. Hard deep and rough.

Sensual: Sharing a glass of wine in front of a fire, walks together, an irresistible smile, humor, sarcasm, and light caresses. Kissing me on my neck....


Do you think that would scare a Taurus guy away? I have my eye on one... and it is slow going.... laughing....

Sun: Aquarious, Venus: Pisces, Mars: Capricorn

Turn offs:
-When HE smells good (it will naturally draw me to be even more affectionate & touchy)
-Kissing on the neck before sex (+ foreplay). It's always good when there's a beginning, middle & end
-Pulling my hair (not to gentle like he's afraid of it but not too hard like he's lost his mind)
-HIM undressing me with his eyes (lots of eye contact during foreplay & sex)
-Anything that's unexpected (E.I. quickly flipping me over during sex, slapping my 🙂

Turn Offs:
-Answering the phone or reading texts during foreplay or sex!
-No foreplay before sex. Someone who just wants to get straight to it but then take forever to get "hard"
-Getting straight in the bed, under the cover (because of insecurity), leaving TOO much to the imagination
-Absolutely TOO much dirty talk. Someone who NEVER shuts up
-Making those ugly faces without even moaning. Touch & Hearing are the 2 senses that make the experience either the best or the worst

Sun in Aquarius
Venus in Pisces
Mars in Sagittarius

Anything and everything.

Turn ons: Honesty, ALOT of kissing, touching, rubbing, quiet confidence, deep and hard penetration, fires, walks, not afraid to be rough with me since your bigger, slightly choking me, open-minded, rough or romantic depending on the night, waking up in the middle of the night to make love, biting, simple and to the point or romantic and extended play, clean clothes, freshly showered smell of soap, hasn't shaved in a day, hair smells like shampoo, hands, holding hands, cuddling, being submissive being assertive yet not aggressive, sex wearing a skirt or while keeping panties on, someone who has energy to last, isn't paranoid about making noise, spontanous, passionate, placing his hands on my hips or upper half of my leg, when he's had a few drinks, oral (giving and receiving), hands all over me, light hair pulling(my hair), being held down, sex outdoors, dry sex, deep kissing, making out, bottom and laying on my side with him behind me holding my leg, watching eachother pleasure themselves, hands being held down over my head as he goes inside me, someone with a body in shape but not muscle man and not real skinny, lacing fingers together, saying how he feels, hearing him breathe and softly groan, extended foreplay, spanking(them spanking me) lightly, slow massage that starts at my lower back, kissing the back of my knees, massaging my lower back with your tongue, kissing neck and navel. eye contact, in complete darkness finding eachother in a room, slow dancing while kissing and being picked up, whispers, talking, being able to laugh and have fun, blindfolds, oils, candles,




turn off: bad teeth, dishonesty, bad odor, answering you phone/texts or leaving it on, no manners, bad jokes, smelly feet, arrogance, excessive cursing, crass phrases, bad breath, doesn't like some dry sex, total domination, role playing, flavored lubes or weird smelling lotion, ugly old shoes, lack of confidence, lack of inteligent conversation, doesn't like to kiss much, low sex drive, too fast, licking my a $ $ , doesn't go with the flow of the moment, nothing anal is appealing unless a massage or spanking, anything too fast or rushed, not putting effort in to please as I do, closeminded, needing LOTS of verbal praise in bed (sorry Leos)

Turn-On: Say my name....softly and passionately
Turn-Off: Inexperience