Signs that have a hard time after break up

What do you guys think. How do most signs act after breakups? whos the best and worst. I hear cancers have a hard time.

yeah man. they say cancers live in the past and have a hard time letting go. Its weird, i just broke up with a cancer and the last time i talk to her to seemed ove me and had nothing to say. acted very odd. she went to great lengths after the break up to. wouldnt return my calls. and deleted my facebook and pics 2 way after we got closure to the break up 2 months ago. dramatic

Cancers and Pisces

i feel bad for Cancers..no matter how much advice they get, its like the run around in circles..they are such nurturers that they never want to cut the cord.

my pisces ex STILL thinks that were in a realtionship, 11 months after we stopped dating.

for sure. i guess the fact that she is going to all those lengths to take me out of her life shows how hurn she still is....poor thing. I took is as her being a bitch but i dont think it that anymore. prob just something she has to do for herself. she had her best friends delete me to.

Cancers. They love REALLY hard. They spend so much time building themselves up to fully love a person so when someone leaves them, they kind of have that, "You break, you buy" mindset. Cancers "feel" everything so those horrible breakups where both people end off as enemies are the worst for Cancers to deal with.

Scorpios seem to only have a hard time "letting go" IF they haven't yet gotten some kind of revenge yet. Once they get their revenge or payback, they'll let go & never turn back.

Libras tend to have the hardest time breaking the communication with their ex's though. Even if they've been done terribly wrong, they'll still look for ways to keep talking to them, keep their pictures (or memorabilia), or even in some case, still want to hang out with them. They make excuses b/c they hate being seen as the "enemy" or like the 1 whose holding a grude. They may not have as hard a time emotionally/psychologically detaching, but physically detaching is another story

how long did it take you guys to get over your ex's (oe not over it yet) and whats your sign. Its been 3 months for me with ac caner girl and im still having a really really hard time. Im a Taurus. i dont know where she's at with it though

my one and only boyfriend Leo..dated 3 years and still trying to completely remove him from my life for 3 years

Posted by DMV
Cancers and Pisces

i feel bad for Cancers..no matter how much advice they get, its like the run around in circles..they are such nurturers that they never want to cut the cord.

my cancer didnt seem to have to hard of a time cord cutting. Well, actually i said i need to tell her go because i thought it was the mature thing to do and thought she was hinting at it and just didnt have the heart to say it. from that point and she ignored me and when i talk to her 6 weeks after she was very stern and said dont call me because it has a very negative effect of her life. kinda selfish.

Posted by PandorasBox
Cancers defo. They have the hasrdest time letting go emotionally when they become comfortable in a relationship but that doesnt mean they wont try. My Cancer chick friend got hurt by a Scorpion male.. 😢 Poor thing shes prolly still in love or holdin on to something about him but she went to extremes to remove him from her life as she knew he was no good for her. doesnt mean she's let go emotionally tho. thinkin and doin and feelin are all different things.

All Cancers are diff tho.

I think my cancer ex is doing the same. Trying reallyyy hard even though she may not want to.

I'm a pisces and when my libra and I broke up in the summer, I felt so lost and depressed. I was so blinded, that I couldn't even see how bad he was for me... after weeks of distancing myself I saw everything in a clearer view and now know that we definitely do not belong together. Then things went up and down I had my moments of missing him, and my moments of hating him. I still have to see him a lot, but now I don't feel any emotions towards him what so ever. I'm as cold as ice to him.

how some you are so cold to him, just because he wasnt right for you? he do anything to you.

Posted by mac101
how some you are so cold to him, just because he wasnt right for you? he do anything to you.

yeah he talked shit about me behind my back through our "relationship" and then to my face he would act ok so I never thought anything was wrong. I was blinded. I was pretty much in a one sided fake relationship for 5 months. big waste of my time. :/

anyone whose ever had a Pluto square Venus synatry with another person, is going to have a hard time breaking up.

i agree. break ups are really hard

Virgos, Scorpios, Pisces, Leos and Libras.

Unfortunately but yes.

are those all your ex's?

Posted by mac101
how long did it take you guys to get over your ex's (oe not over it yet) and whats your sign. Its been 3 months for me with ac caner girl and im still having a really really hard time. Im a Taurus. i dont know where she's at with it though

I'm a sag sun with a scorpio moon and mars and capricorn venus and it took me 3+ yrs to get over a leo of 1 yrs and 2 months. I was finally able to move on a few months ago. I always take break ups hard tho. Takes me so long to get over the person and I grieve like no other. It sucks

wow thats a really long time. how long did you guys have 0 contact for?

@happykitsune..

i am also a scorpio moon and venus capricorn...

and i also dated a leo

Posted by mac101
wow thats a really long time. how long did you guys have 0 contact for?

We never had 0 contact. I always stay friends with my exes. I guess we were figuring we'd be mature enough to be just friends. Slowly that is becoming a reality. It took so long and for both of us to fall for other people in order for that to happen tho

Posted by DMV
@happykitsune..

i am also a scorpio moon and venus capricorn...

and i also dated a leo

Oh wow... o.o Sheesh we have a lot in common my brotheren 😄

and which is probably why we are both involved with scorpios at the moment

i am 11/25...what r you?

its the transits, we probably both have the same transits.

thats very mature of you. my cancer ex (20 yo) dosnt even want to talk about the break up or anything, just disappear (i think). and we had such a perfect mature relationship. no fights or anything in a year. Talk about a future together and stuff. blows my mind.

Posted by DMV
and which is probably why we are both involved with scorpios at the moment

i am 11/25...what r you?

I am 11/26. Was born at 6 pm in Dallas, TX
very close bdays

Posted by mac101
thats very mature of you. my cancer ex (20 yo) dosnt even want to talk about the break up or anything, just disappear (i think). and we had such a perfect mature relationship. no fights or anything in a year. Talk about a future together and stuff. blows my mind.

I think sometimes cancers like to cause drama...my sister does it... she acts like she doesnt care a lot when she breaks it off with a guy and I usually hear some speal later about how people were calling each other names and girls were fighting over guys. Idk..I just stay away from dating cancers so I've never really dealt with their drama...idk I'm just not attracted to them...but I am a sag...and they are clingy >.

Posted by krysrenee7
Libras tend to have the hardest time breaking the communication with their ex's though. Even if they've been done terribly wrong, they'll still look for ways to keep talking to them, keep their pictures (or memorabilia), or even in some case, still want to hang out with them. They make excuses b/c they hate being seen as the "enemy" or like the 1 whose holding a grude. They may not have as hard a time emotionally/psychologically detaching, but physically detaching is another story

Absolutely! I broke up with my Taurus ex, but knowing how great of a person he was, I just couldn't let him go. He wasn't right for me as a boyfriend, but we became such close friends following our break-up. Knowing that we ended on amicable terms, I couldn't burn a bridge between such a genuinely wonderful individual. I was much younger, and thus immature, so I now see how it was selfish of me to breakup with him and not give him an opportunity to "get over it," but we are friends to this day. In fact, I'm going to his housewarming party tonight!

I always have a really hard time getting over guys and I'm a Leo. Even if i don't have feelings for them anymore i get upset. Manly because i was scared of being a lone.

i need be a libra gal that talks about things. i hate how cancers hold everything and leave the other person in doubt ofd whats going on and try to walk out the back door without saying anything ahaha

I feel bad for cancers, they can't seem to let go for the longest time : (

any good stories and cancers bringing up there ex way after the fact. or going back? my dad is a cancer and he still brings up his first love form 20yo ahahah. acts like it was yesterday

nah she'll be back.

just gotta play and cool and there will come around

Posted by DMV
my pisces ex STILL thinks that were in a realtionship, 11 months after we stopped dating.

Mmm yeah, been there! Though it was funny because I took it hard as well and I was the one that did the breaking up. What in the hell. I think it's the thing of not wanting to hurt the ones you care for and not wanting to be hurt by the ones that care for you.

Two guys I ended it with who found it hard (cried actually) and kept pestering me to work it out were Cancer and Pisces.

Not getting over it in the sense of not being able to let go because they hate my guts and want me 6 feet under - that would be Scorpio. 😛

Posted by PandorasBox
So you did do something to cause her to hide in her shell? So what is it?

Crabs certainly hide in their shells after they bury themselves in the sand when they are hurt.

Makes me wish that there was some way to reach them when they are upset, but like ya'll said a person has to be cool and then they come around.

I cannot go back to my ex tho.

She got married on the rebound to this complete psychopath, and I don't think she is the same person anymore.

If anything, she is probably mentally jaded and emotionally distraught.

Kind of like a human bomb.

Definitely Cancers.....

Those pointing at Cancer.. pffffffffft.. Onc i amdone i am done and if i getleft it doesnt take me long to get over it. I Vote Pisces

The Earth signs .... they are pretty much out of touch with their feelings, and struggle to grasp how they are "suppose" to feel ... key word "suppose".


Everyone else usually just goes throught the motions of experiencing the emotions, which gives them a pretty accurate assessment of how it really feels ..... whereas the Earth people put thier focus into analyzing how it's suppose to feel, so actually miss the experience.


Therefore, not only would the struggle the most with a break up, they would struggle the most with everything in life that involves feelings.

Virgo's definitely being the most handicapped out of the three in this area of life.

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like that

Pandora, maybe he's trying to see if you feel.


My Virgo husband is much like you in this aspect, I will try and talk to him about how I feel abotu something ... blank stare.

And it's not boredom .. I can see in his eyes, emotionally, he's vacant to another persons feelings .. he's that way to our son also, to any person who tries to let him know how they feel.

like you, he thinks feelings are messy ... problem with is though, when he needs to feel he finds himself alone and can't figure out why nobody understands that he needs them.


Like I said ..... Earth people, mainly Virgos, are extremely handicapped when it comes to understanding how they are suppose to feel .. due to not every letting themselves experience emotions.

LOL @ Cancer and Pisces being the main two mentioned. I've seen all signs even the "strong" ones go through it. Signs can't be used for this kind of thing. Even the almighty Scorpio can break. Even beyond them the Capricorn, and Taurus can stay in a brooding phase forever. Idk why people aren't talking about the air signs as much they definitely should be up here. The only signs really that I don't see doing much crying or sulking is the fire. None of them seem to really hold a grudge, or think too long about that person they move on very very quickly and not to be rebound but because they really are doing fine.

Posted by prettyladii
LOL @ Cancer and Pisces being the main two mentioned. I've seen all signs even the "strong" ones go through it. Signs can't be used for this kind of thing. Even the almighty Scorpio can break. Even beyond them the Capricorn, and Taurus can stay in a brooding phase forever. Idk why people aren't talking about the air signs as much they definitely should be up here. The only signs really that I don't see doing much crying or sulking is the fire. None of them seem to really hold a grudge, or think too long about that person they move on very very quickly and not to be rebound but because they really are doing fine.

I Think the poster was just curious out of the two signs, which would be harder. I dont think they meant "which sign out of all the signs" ..lol

Definetely water signs. Especially Pisces and Cancer.

CancerianGoddess .... please do somethig with that face.

You have others, use one of them .. you have your hand to your mouth as if in a pose, so I'm thinking that you were going for a "hey baby, I'm asexy" .. and it failed.

It's kind of scarey, actually.

Posted by CancerMoon


The thing Virgos need to understand is that we can't always fix it and we also don't have to comment it. Jut listening, being there for the person and showing that we care and understand is more than enough.

1. nobody asks you to fix anything, so the thing Virgo needs to understand is that they are asked to feel, not fix.

2. just listening and being there is NOT more than enough if you cannot relate to how a person feels through feelings, since you aren't feeling, you are looking for something practical to fix.

Posted by P-Angel
CancerianGoddess .... please do somethig with that face.

You have others, use one of them .. you have your hand to your mouth as if in a pose, so I'm thinking that you were going for a "hey baby, I'm asexy" .. and it failed.

It's kind of scarey, actually.

Actually its a "Suprised Look" I Can do sexy, that wasnt it. Maybe you should of just asked since you dont have the ability to read people. *smile*