Opposite signs?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by CoalBlooded on Thursday, November 25, 2010 and has 8 replies.

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@CoalBlooded
15 YearsLeo

What's the deal with that? Because mostly I've heard it's either very good or very bad. And I've heard it will always be a lil' bit of both too. I'm together with an Aquarian, and during the first month, we had already managed to break up twice, thinking we wouldn't get back together again. But still, we eventually started arguing (over facebook, lol) and somehow we finally made peace and the love came back... :/ I know some friends that are in "opposite" relationships as well. As for me and my GF we seem to get along better and better nowadays, so it's really lightning up, but sometimes I feel we want different things, and it's pretty accurate according to the astrological insights. Well, well, just curious if anyone has any tips or insights. I've got Aqua moon and she's got Aries moon BTW.

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@brianafay
19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

I think it has to do with the maturity of the two people...

As a Sag, my opposite is Gemini...I could never see myself dating one. They usually grate my nerves so bad there's a physical reaction. Haha, not kidding or being overdramatic.
But I consider myself very immature still. Maybe as I get older I'll appreciate them more?

Some say the opposites are more like complements - like with the color wheel.
So, they have all the qualities you don't...and therefore complete you.

I can definitely see that in some ways. With those Geminis I am able to stomach (lol,) we do make a good team. 🙂

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@lildol
16 Years5,000+ Posts

My longest relationship was with my ex-Cancer. I think we made a good pairing although he was a little too negative (moody) for me. I talk to him every once in a while, he still tells me he loves me.

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@prettyladii
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Don't do it. As a Cancer who's had experience with Caps, its HELL. Just don't. The whole thing is terrible but I found out they're like that with everybody anyway. There is no one sign that they can really keep or maintain.

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@happykitsune
15 Years1,000+ Posts

My most stable/healthy relationship was with my opposite a gem.

As a sag i like to debate and so does he. We ended in because, despite our religions being the same, we both had different views on the religion. He was also a different political party, liked the big city (i like small cities) and had a bunch of other things that were complete opposite from me. The only thing that bothered us tho was the religion thing. Back then it was a big deal. Now, not so much. Other than that the relationship was perfect.

Him and I still talk and we both agree we'd get back together now that we've grown up. Only problem is we live very far away from each other now since he graduated from college.

He gave me a nice blend of attention and space tho and the conversations were never dull. The sex was good and he was very affectionate.

So it can work...you just need to learn to live with the other persons opposites and learn to love em