Stupid leo always knows how to get me upset

This is not about me still having feelings for a leo. It's just everytime we talk I always get upset. Idk if it's because I'm done taking what he says to heart because I don't like him like that anymore or if I'm upset because I know he's right.

I was doing just fine, feeling really great about my life and all the guys I've been talking to and seeing and then we start talking and he just makes me feel terrible by saying I'm weak when it comes to guys.

Idk...that's just me venting. I really just feel like not trying with guys right now. Maybe its because I don't know if the scorpio guy sees me as dating material, or the fact that I don't have as many options as I thought I did.

Bleh sorry, I'm done now -.-

omg, i feel the say way.

i was pumping gas this morning and i was thinkin of all the horoscopes that stated that saggis are supposed to have this breakout year in love and i caught myself saying "so what"

the 2 men that i fell in love with are wreaking havoc on my person and personality.

As like you, whenever my ex leo resurfaces, i cant turn him away because i still feel some love and loyalty for him. so in a way, talking to him and sometimes not talking to him makes it freaking hard to move on emotionally.

its like enough already. these two men are the exact reason why i hate and do not fall in love.

Well ladies I know how you all feel between the Sagg I am dating now and my Taurus baby daddy I need to let go of, I get confuse and sometimes feel like I just want to be alone and do me.

But after reading this steve harvey book Straigh talk no Chaser how to find keep and get a man which I read last night. He said you have to clear out everything meaning old flames, ex's and open your space for everything to be right when you meet of find Mr. Right.

So I feel like things arent perfect in my current relationship becuase I need to get rid of the clutter not corresponding with other guys, stop having the urges to be with the taurus I decided I am going to tell him about my relationship and let him know we will always be friends and parents for our baby and that it's I just feel like making some real changes and maybe I will get the relationship I want and desire.

@LoveBucket I get what your saying but if someone makes me feel bad when I talk to them espically when my life is fine and I am happy I stop talking to that person. Negative people really bother me if you don't have anything positive to say dont say ish at all unless ofcourse I am being destructive and you are telling me the truth to really help me out other than that I can do without it.

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Posted by DMV
omg, i feel the say way.

i was pumping gas this morning and i was thinkin of all the horoscopes that stated that saggis are supposed to have this breakout year in love and i caught myself saying "so what"

the 2 men that i fell in love with are wreaking havoc on my person and personality.

As like you, whenever my ex leo resurfaces, i cant turn him away because i still feel some love and loyalty for him. so in a way, talking to him and sometimes not talking to him makes it freaking hard to move on emotionally.

its like enough already. these two men are the exact reason why i hate and do not fall in love.

Maybe you have a lot of pride and a bit of an ego ?

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oh totally, me and my ego cant fit in the same room sometimes.

Posted by pigeonpie
I've never understood people's inability to move on though, that's always comes across as really weird to me.

i know me neither, till it happened to me...

but it takes 2 to tango....i could just as easily not answer the phone. sometimes i dont, sometimes i do

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Posted by happykitsune
This is not about me still having feelings for a leo. It's just everytime we talk I always get upset. Idk if it's because I'm done taking what he says to heart because I don't like him like that anymore or if I'm upset because I know he's right.

I was doing just fine, feeling really great about my life and all the guys I've been talking to and seeing and then we start talking and he just makes me feel terrible by saying I'm weak when it comes to guys.

Idk...that's just me venting. I really just feel like not trying with guys right now. Maybe its because I don't know if the scorpio guy sees me as dating material, or the fact that I don't have as many options as I thought I did.

Bleh sorry, I'm done now -.-

Why is your Leo stupid for telling you the truth, because some women ARE weak, spineless, some even downright stupid when it comes to men.

It's fine to vent, but sometimes people get so wrapped up in venting because they want to play the MAD card that they don't address the point. The lion is rough, but gentle too so while his delivery may have felt a bit rough to you, it's my take he was trying to help you. And, because we DO love to help, why not have a talk with him, asking him to expand on why he said this, tell him you want to know what he means this way you can maybe try and work on it.

Incidently, and I won't speak for all Leos but will speak for myself -- weakness and spineless females makes me gag. So, maybe while you're over here calling him stupid, he's somewhere over there gagging.

You two may not be able to get down to the bottom of what your troubles are however, the way I'm looking at this matter, through some communication with him you may at least be able to get down to the bottom of what he, as a man, feels are signs of weakness in you. There's a catch though -- before even going there with him, you have to be in the mindset that you want to look at and work on yourself.

Who knows, in the months to come, you may find yourself thanking him. 🙂

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I think your taking her word "stupid" too serious.....

i found her word stupid to be comical.

Posted by happykitsune
This is not about me still having feelings for a leo. It's just everytime we talk I always get upset. Idk if it's because I'm done taking what he says to heart because I don't like him like that anymore or if I'm upset because I know he's right.

I was doing just fine, feeling really great about my life and all the guys I've been talking to and seeing and then we start talking and he just makes me feel terrible by saying I'm weak when it comes to guys.

Idk...that's just me venting. I really just feel like not trying with guys right now. Maybe its because I don't know if the scorpio guy sees me as dating material, or the fact that I don't have as many options as I thought I did.

Bleh sorry, I'm done now -.-

because i have the same placements as you, i feel like we are going through the same transits.

its the venus in cap/moon in scorp thats messing with you. and the thought that the scorp could possibly be a mistake. dont fret. just take it one day at a time. us venus in cap require just as much assurance as scorpios. its the vulnerability that your feeling. i feel it too and i bet scorpdiva feels it tremendously. its a loss of control that youve always had over your emotions.

your falling in love with your scorpio silly and unfortuantley, the leo doesnt really want you moving on. how do i know? cause mine doesnt either. that would totally mean that the relationship is kaput and the leo will no longer get you full attention, if that. he scorp is making you feel a bit insecure. this the heart of the matter of your post. tell your scorp all that you are feeling. writing mey help. trust me, hes feeling a bit uneasy about you 2. tell him that your scared of him and his love and the love you give to him. but also tell him that hes worth it and the feeling is only temporary.

by the way, he sees you as more than simply dating material. you just have to see yourself as this 2.

you got it 🙂

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Posted by happykitsune
This is not about me still having feelings for a leo. It's just everytime we talk I always get upset. Idk if it's because I'm done taking what he says to heart because I don't like him like that anymore or if I'm upset because I know he's right.

I was doing just fine, feeling really great about my life and all the guys I've been talking to and seeing and then we start talking and he just makes me feel terrible by saying I'm weak when it comes to guys.

Idk...that's just me venting. I really just feel like not trying with guys right now. Maybe its because I don't know if the scorpio guy sees me as dating material, or the fact that I don't have as many options as I thought I did.

Bleh sorry, I'm done now -.-

Why is your Leo stupid for telling you the truth, because some women ARE weak, spineless, some even downright stupid when it comes to men.

It's fine to vent, but sometimes people get so wrapped up in venting because they want to play the MAD card that they don't address the point. The lion is rough, but gentle too so while his delivery may have felt a bit rough to you, it's my take he was trying to help you. And, because we DO love to help, why not have a talk with him, asking him to expand on why he said this, tell him you want to know what he means this way you can maybe try and work on it.

Incidently, and I won't speak for all Leos but will speak for myself -- weakness and spineless females makes me gag. So, maybe while you're over here calling him stupid, he's somewhere over there gagging.

You two may not be able to get down to the bottom of what your troubles are however, the way I'm looking at this matter, through some communication with him you may at least be able to get down to the bottom of what he, as a man, feels are signs of weakness in you. There's a catch though -- before even going there with him, you have to be in the mindset that you want to look at and work on yourself.

Who knows, in the months to come, you may find yourself thanking him. 🙂

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Yes he was trying to help. A lot of stuff was just coming together in my mind at that time tho and he was trying to push the whole bff's thing on me and somehow it came to the point where I feel like I'm not girlfriend material and I guess him co

Posted by pigeonpie
I've never understood people's inability to move on though, that's always comes across as really weird to me.

Not saying I haven't moved on. I keep him around as a friend at his request and while I do feel he deserves my friendship after all we've been through I can live without some of the stuff he mentions

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Posted by happykitsune
This is not about me still having feelings for a leo. It's just everytime we talk I always get upset. Idk if it's because I'm done taking what he says to heart because I don't like him like that anymore or if I'm upset because I know he's right.

I was doing just fine, feeling really great about my life and all the guys I've been talking to and seeing and then we start talking and he just makes me feel terrible by saying I'm weak when it comes to guys.

Idk...that's just me venting. I really just feel like not trying with guys right now. Maybe its because I don't know if the scorpio guy sees me as dating material, or the fact that I don't have as many options as I thought I did.

Bleh sorry, I'm done now -.-

because i have the same placements as you, i feel like we are going through the same transits.

its the venus in cap/moon in scorp thats messing with you. and the thought that the scorp could possibly be a mistake. dont fret. just take it one day at a time. us venus in cap require just as much assurance as scorpios. its the vulnerability that your feeling. i feel it too and i bet scorpdiva feels it tremendously. its a loss of control that youve always had over your emotions.

your falling in love with your scorpio silly and unfortuantley, the leo doesnt really want you moving on. how do i know? cause mine doesnt either. that would totally mean that the relationship is kaput and the leo will no longer get you full attention, if that. he scorp is making you feel a bit insecure. this the heart of the matter of your post. tell your scorp all that you are feeling. writing mey help. trust me, hes feeling a bit uneasy about you 2. tell him that your scared of him and his love and the love you give to him. but also tell him that hes worth it and the feeling is only temporary.

by the way, he sees you as more than simply dating material. you just have to see yourself as this 2.

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*nods head* mhmm, I am definitely wondering if he's a mistake or not. After going too fast sexually with him it's screwed up my whole "plan", but I'm taking it slow anyways, biting my tongue because I really want to be in a relationship, but at the same time I don't want to rush this.
Idk if he necessarilly doesn't want me moving on. I mean the leo does have a serious

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Posted by happykitsune
This is not about me still having feelings for a leo. It's just everytime we talk I always get upset. Idk if it's because I'm done taking what he says to heart because I don't like him like that anymore or if I'm upset because I know he's right.

I was doing just fine, feeling really great about my life and all the guys I've been talking to and seeing and then we start talking and he just makes me feel terrible by saying I'm weak when it comes to guys.

Idk...that's just me venting. I really just feel like not trying with guys right now. Maybe its because I don't know if the scorpio guy sees me as dating material, or the fact that I don't have as many options as I thought I did.

Bleh sorry, I'm done now -.-

because i have the same placements as you, i feel like we are going through the same transits.

its the venus in cap/moon in scorp thats messing with you. and the thought that the scorp could possibly be a mistake. dont fret. just take it one day at a time. us venus in cap require just as much assurance as scorpios. its the vulnerability that your feeling. i feel it too and i bet scorpdiva feels it tremendously. its a loss of control that youve always had over your emotions.

your falling in love with your scorpio silly and unfortuantley, the leo doesnt really want you moving on. how do i know? cause mine doesnt either. that would totally mean that the relationship is kaput and the leo will no longer get you full attention, if that. he scorp is making you feel a bit insecure. this the heart of the matter of your post. tell your scorp all that you are feeling. writing mey help. trust me, hes feeling a bit uneasy about you 2. tell him that your scared of him and his love and the love you give to him. but also tell him that hes worth it and the feeling is only temporary.

by the way, he sees you as more than simply dating material. you just have to see yourself as this 2.

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*nods head* mhmm, I am definitely wondering if he's a mistake or not. After going too fast sexually with him it's screwed up my whole "plan", but I'm taking it slow anyways, biting my tongue because I really want to be in a relationship, but at the same time I don't want to rush this.
Idk if he necessarilly doesn't want me moving on. I mean the leo does have a serious

...relationship going on now so I don't think him wanting me is the case, but he probably does want my attention because he's trying to keep me as a best friend.

I can't really say I love the scorpio but I do feel this need to protect him. I know, weird right? It's kinda hard to talk with him about stuff like love and caring and whatnot because it never really comes up. I mean one time I jokingly said "let me love you" while I was trying to kiss him neck and didn't get any weird reaction, but it was just jokingly.

Thanks tho, that last line really helps. I'm going to regroup and form a new plan. Hopefully one that doesn't fall through this time 😛

Posted by LoveBucket
^^^ That's negative, you are a negative person!! Just kidding, lol lol,

Not "too serious", more like, based on what followed in the OP, "unfitting", which is why I questioned why he got to be stupid just b/c he told her she needs to get a spine. Had she laid out some stupid stuff he did in her OP, calling him stupid Leo would have been very fitting. I just didn't see the fit and, I totally missed the humour.

If we're going to guess what she meant, then I'll take a stab at it -- maybe she used the adjective stupid Leo based on OTHER stupid stuff he's done, rather than based on what he said in her OP.

Idk o.O I just like to use the word stupid. He's not stupid at all, but I often don't use the right words in the right places. Like when I call my dog fat and really mean he's cute

Posted by happykitsune
...relationship going on now so I don't think him wanting me is the case, but he probably does want my attention because he's trying to keep me as a best friend.

I can't really say I love the scorpio but I do feel this need to protect him. I know, weird right? It's kinda hard to talk with him about stuff like love and caring and whatnot because it never really comes up. I mean one time I jokingly said "let me love you" while I was trying to kiss him neck and didn't get any weird reaction, but it was just jokingly.

Thanks tho, that last line really helps. I'm going to regroup and form a new plan. Hopefully one that doesn't fall through this time 😛

dont change a thing. what you are doing is working.....he just moves slow

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dont change a thing. what you are doing is working.....he just moves slow

I hope so....I got a little annoyed last night, but today we spent some time together which reassured me a little. Idk tho...I came close to just walking out of his life, no words, just leave to see if anything would happen.