Venus Gemini...

Is there a high potential for leading double lives— How can you possibly love two or more people at once—

I hope not!

By the way, if you have Venus in Gemini in your birth chart, you are likely to enjoy the word games and witty banter with a prospective partner or close friend. Venus in Gemini is a "flirt" who will use wit and words to attract - and will be attracted to someone "who has a way with words". Clever conversations can be quite seductive. I would guess that Venus in Gemini people are the most likely to use Internet chat rooms and email and long-distance telephone to carry on a romantic relationship or an intimate friendship - because one of the strategies of Gemini is "communicating", and these are all ways to use "communication" as a strategy in expressing the Venus function of "relationship". A Venus is Gemini person is more likely than most people to fall in love over the phone, or by reading letters. Maybe romantic Venus in Libra too, for both are Air Signs which relate through the intellect and would respond strongly to a "meeting of minds".

Me and my "friend" (lol) started our relationship over the phone... we haven't seen each other in months... but like I still feel like the relationship could work...

And a few of my friends with this placement are currently in long distance relationships too...

~the only problem with my relationship is exactly what you mentioned Lovelylibra, the fact that he could be leading a double life.

He is an aries, so that automatically makes him a flirt (which I already know he is), and his venus in gemini adds to it.

Venus in Gemini: will never fall in love with a silent person. They have to talk well --- and a lot. This placement of Venus gives the desire to have more than one relationship at a time, and even makes it possible to fall in love with more than one person at the same time. Gemini likes variety.


Well I read this as I encountered two guys with that placement who seem to have lovers other than the one they are "with" as though it's acceptable