Venus Retrograde,

Venus Retrograde,

what does this Venus Retrograde mean for you?

http://www.lynnkoiner.com/astrology-articles/venus-retrograde-for-2009



HOW TO CONSTRUCTIVELY USE THE VENUS RETROGRADE PERIOD✭

From MARCH 6 through APRIL 15 2017, the planet Venus will be retrograde. The retrograde motion of an inner planet is an apparent phenomenon as viewed from earth in which Venus appears to move backwards in the sky. Every 1 ½ years, when Venus moves approximately 29 degrees ahead of the Sun (in the astrological ephemeris), it will begin to move backwards in the sky until it reaches a point approximately 21 to 29 degrees behind the Sun.

When Venus is retrograde, it provides lessons in evaluating the real worth and value of people and things in our life (Taurus-Libra issues). With existing relationships, this cycle produces experiences wherein it is easier to discern the relative worth and value of these people in your life.

Discrimination is more effective. You become readily aware of any problems, differences or unresolved issues.

It is NOT a time, however, to act upon any unfavorable awareness. It is purely a time of evaluation rather than direct action. As little frictions and disagreements crop up, they serve to remind you that the relationship is not perfect. Under the retrograde influence, you must assess the severity of the problem and the “cost-benefit” of the relationship. Only after Venus turns direct should you initiate any alienation if this is deemed necessary.

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venus 2nd house 7th house.



talks about LOVE in a lot of youtube channels...



when REALLY it is what you value!! MONEY.





what do you value this retrograde season?



your relationship with others and your money possessions.

*bump*



nothing that you think is VALUABLE in your life? 😕

I'm over the mood swings these last few days. My heart feels like it's on fire one minute then ice cold the next.

I honestly feel like I've taken off my rose colored glasses and have managed to see relationships for what they are. I've had a friend who I valued very much but at this point I realized I've been beating a dead horse.

Another ex thing came into my life and I shut him down and he blocked me lol.

And now I'm talking to some Libra dude but I keep flaking on him. Sheesh

Posted by libralotus
I honestly feel like I've taken off my rose colored glasses and have managed to see relationships for what they are. I've had a friend who I valued very much but at this point I realized I've been beating a dead horse.

Another ex thing came into my life and I shut him down and he blocked me lol.

And now I'm talking to some Libra dude but I keep flaking on him. Sheesh

what happened? you are not happy in your relationship?

Posted by I_am_you


-Realistic expectations

-Chance to evaluate relationships with a clear mind

-It's about self-love



Personally, I feel very light with this transit (minus the current moon transit).

I like your list.





she has a good descriptions, she mentions about there is a net and then the veil is opened, or lifted.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by libralotus
I honestly feel like I've taken off my rose colored glasses and have managed to see relationships for what they are. I've had a friend who I valued very much but at this point I realized I've been beating a dead horse.

Another ex thing came into my life and I shut him down and he blocked me lol.

And now I'm talking to some Libra dude but I keep flaking on him. Sheesh

what happened? you are not happy in your relationship?

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Just thought about my relationships as a whole but my friendship with the cancer is just over. I've put way too much energy into someone who doesn't care a bit. The past year I've communicated what's bothering me but he doesn't care and he's made it abundantly clear. I'm tired of being taken advantage of and being there for people that won't reciprocate the favor.

Blah.

My problem is I can't cut ties but it needs to be done and hopefully I'll have the strength this time!

Posted by libralotus

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by libralotus
I honestly feel like I've taken off my rose colored glasses and have managed to see relationships for what they are. I've had a friend who I valued very much but at this point I realized I've been beating a dead horse.

Another ex thing came into my life and I shut him down and he blocked me lol.

And now I'm talking to some Libra dude but I keep flaking on him. Sheesh

what happened? you are not happy in your relationship?

Just thought about my relationships as a whole but my friendship with the cancer is just over. I've put way too much energy into someone who doesn't care a bit. The past year I've communicated what's bothering me but he doesn't care and he's made it abundantly clear. I'm tired of being taken advantage of and being there for people that won't reciprocate the favor.

Blah.

My problem is I can't cut ties but it needs to be done and hopefully I'll have the strength this time!

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cancerian energies/cancer usually is a "shows you" they love you, more than "communication"

if you see those little things that he loves you, and cares about you, you don't need words.

and maybe, too, you have communicated what is bothering you,

but unless we know what it is that is bothering you,

we won't understand the depth of why...

for example, you want him to do something for you that he cannot do?

or you want him to pursue a career which enables him that he can't at this time? making him go into himself to get sad about it.

so many many reasons.

how has he made it clear that he doesn't care?

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by libralotus

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by libralotus
I honestly feel like I've taken off my rose colored glasses and have managed to see relationships for what they are. I've had a friend who I valued very much but at this point I realized I've been beating a dead horse.

Another ex thing came into my life and I shut him down and he blocked me lol.

And now I'm talking to some Libra dude but I keep flaking on him. Sheesh

what happened? you are not happy in your relationship?

Just thought about my relationships as a whole but my friendship with the cancer is just over. I've put way too much energy into someone who doesn't care a bit. The past year I've communicated what's bothering me but he doesn't care and he's made it abundantly clear. I'm tired of being taken advantage of and being there for people that won't reciprocate the favor.

Blah.

My problem is I can't cut ties but it needs to be done and hopefully I'll have the strength this time!

cancerian energies/cancer usually is a "shows you" they love you, more than "communication"

if you see those little things that he loves you, and cares about you, you don't need words.

and maybe, too, you have communicated what is bothering you,

but unless we know what it is that is bothering you,

we won't understand the depth of why...

for example, you want him to do something for you that he cannot do?

or you want him to pursue a career which enables him that he can't at this time? making him go into himself to get sad about it.

so many many reasons.

how has he made it clear that he doesn't care?

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I'm consistently the only one that tried to make plans. If he can't or doesn't want to then he will just ignore my texts. Sometimes he shows he cares it with subtle gestures but it's very rare and at his convenience.

I've always communicated what I need from him as a friend but he goes right back to being inconsiderate.

For example, I will buy his coffee or dinner if we're together. I do make more money but it would be nice to hang out and not always pick up the bill. Also, when I need a friend to talk to he will absolutely not pick up the phone. Maybe a text back.

I feel like his actions are quite loud and clear.

Posted by libralotus

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by libralotus

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by libralotus
I honestly feel like I've taken off my rose colored glasses and have managed to see relationships for what they are. I've had a friend who I valued very much but at this point I realized I've been beating a dead horse.

Another ex thing came into my life and I shut him down and he blocked me lol.

And now I'm talking to some Libra dude but I keep flaking on him. Sheesh

what happened? you are not happy in your relationship?

Just thought about my relationships as a whole but my friendship with the cancer is just over. I've put way too much energy into someone who doesn't care a bit. The past year I've communicated what's bothering me but he doesn't care and he's made it abundantly clear. I'm tired of being taken advantage of and being there for people that won't reciprocate the favor.

Blah.

My problem is I can't cut ties but it needs to be done and hopefully I'll have the strength this time!

cancerian energies/cancer usually is a "shows you" they love you, more than "communication"

if you see those little things that he loves you, and cares about you, you don't need words.

and maybe, too, you have communicated what is bothering you,

but unless we know what it is that is bothering you,

we won't understand the depth of why...

for example, you want him to do something for you that he cannot do?

or you want him to pursue a career which enables him that he can't at this time? making him go into himself to get sad about it.

so many many reasons.

how has he made it clear that he doesn't care?

I'm consistently the only one that tried to make plans. If he can't or doesn't want to then he will just ignore my texts. Sometimes he shows he cares it with subtle gestures but it's very rare and at his convenience.

I've always communicated what I need from him as a friend but he goes right back to being inconsiderate.

For example, I will buy his coffee or dinner if we're together. I do make more money but it would be nice to hang out and not always pick up the bill. Also, when I need a friend to talk to he will absolutely not pick up the phone. Maybe a text back.

I feel like his actions are quite loud and clear.

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oh maybe he is having emotional problems in his life. and if you are picking the bill, he is not feeling good that you are always doing the bulk of everything.

that will put a lot of men into depression. maybe just give him space and let him know you are there for him.

sometimes one of the other gives MORE, and that's ok too, just so you understand where he is coming from.

good luck.