very odd 3rd date with Mr Virg....advice please!!!

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by qwertty on Tuesday, November 27, 2012 and has 7 replies.

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@qwertty
13 Years

I have posted this on the virgo forum.

last night he asked if i want to come over to his to see him and to watch a dvd and i said thats fine.
Tonight I came over to his and he was making himself dinner and offered me a drink. He didnt offer me dinner, which is rude. Ok so i sat on the sofa and he sat on a sofa chair near me to eat and only offered food while he was eating and i said im fine. I thought after he ate he would sit next to me on the sofa but he didnt. We just spoke about our weekend and about work. He had a crazy weekend away of drinking. He didnt really make any effort with me and hinted that hes tired so i got the hint and said he looks shattered and i should go...he didnt stop me.
Kissed on the cheek and i left, he told me to text him when im home and i have done and no reply.

this is really odd and im very confused! if he was tired why invite me over and then i leave after an hour. waste of my time!!

we haven't even kissed, only held his arm.
what do i do? leave him to it and not contact him? im stunned and very confused!!!!

he hasnt replied to my text last night saying that im home and it was nice seeing him.

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@qwertty
13 Years

i was a bit surprised by the situation. He wanted to see me but made no effort at all and now ive not heard from him since. its just odd!! i havent done anything for him to be so weird like this!

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@WaterCup
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Wow @ the dinner thing..who does that? Thats just rude. He ate 1st and then asked u to eat while eating, what.. was he going to chew and then mouth feed u? Somebody took the word chick too literally, he must have mistaken u for a baby bird. I find his behavior disgusting tbh. Dump the loser! Dont call or text him ever..at least until he learns some manners about inviting people to eat BEFORE eating and answering messages in a timely manner. What a neadernthal!!

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@qwertty
13 Years

WaterCup lol im pissed too!! like what the hell?! who does that?! yes i was very hungry, saw him after work but i have my dignity and refused saying that ive eaten. didnt want him to think im a tramp!!

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@truecap
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Posted by WaterCup
Wow @ the dinner thing.. was he going to chew and then mouth feed u? Somebody took the word chick too literally, he must have mistaken u for a baby bird.

LMAO!!!! Someone come help me up off the floor!! I've fallen out of my chair and I'm laughing so hard, I can't get up!!

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@qwertty
13 Years

rachelsnow12 that was the 3 time we met up and it was so odd! He would constantly text me every day, so I feel we know a bit about each other. On the other 2 dates he was a gentleman and this just took me by surprised, I was shocked!!

StillWater youre right, where the hell did his manners go?! He got back in touch today acting like nothing happened!! I havent replied.

Watercup, you're tooo funny!! lol 🙂