What the hell is going on

in the sky??

The last month or so, we've had an onslaught of these women (girls) who are just... cray cray in dealing with guys. I've noticed it in 3-4 forums that these poor, desperate girls are coming here, begging, pleading, desperately scrambling to keep some loser around or they did some stupid, crazy shit because of insecurity and want to know how to get the guy back.

It leaves me o.O Is there something in the water? Is it a seasonal? Is someone spiking all those pumpkin spice lattes with a dash of stupid? Is something going on in the sky? I think someone mentioned some sort of transit/retrograde/whatever going on and could explain why.

Hell, on another forum that I read, I'm seeing it there, too.

IT'S EVERYWHERE. And it makes me sad. 😢

Posted by rockyroadicecream
in the sky??

The last month or so, we've had an onslaught of these women (girls) who are just... cray cray in dealing with guys. I've noticed it in 3-4 forums that these poor, desperate girls are coming here, begging, pleading, desperately scrambling to keep some loser around or they did some stupid, crazy shit because of insecurity and want to know how to get the guy back.

It leaves me o.O Is there something in the water? Is it a seasonal? Is someone spiking all those pumpkin spice lattes with a dash of stupid? Is something going on in the sky? I think someone mentioned some sort of transit/retrograde/whatever going on and could explain why.

Hell, on another forum that I read, I'm seeing it there, too.

IT'S EVERYWHERE. And it makes me sad. 😢

I know right? Lol
What's more sad is that in most cases they don't just spew the story to vent.. They say "..so how do I get him back?...waaaaaaahhhhhh! 😢(((("

...so this is the low life douchebag who:
Charmed your pants off so that you gave it up too soon
Won't text you anymore
Won't text you back
Says "I'm just busy that's all"
Says he doesn't want a relationship
Says "it's not you, it's me"

K....

Posted by rockyroadicecream
in the sky??

The last month or so, we've had an onslaught of these women (girls) who are just... cray cray in dealing with guys. I've noticed it in 3-4 forums that these poor, desperate girls are coming here, begging, pleading, desperately scrambling to keep some loser around or they did some stupid, crazy shit because of insecurity and want to know how to get the guy back.

It leaves me o.O Is there something in the water? Is it a seasonal? Is someone spiking all those pumpkin spice lattes with a dash of stupid? Is something going on in the sky? I think someone mentioned some sort of transit/retrograde/whatever going on and could explain why.

Hell, on another forum that I read, I'm seeing it there, too.

IT'S EVERYWHERE. And it makes me sad. 😢

Simple answer.

Many of these women don't understand that they are being used, pure and simple for one thing and one thing only, SEX.

Women get attached and fall in love after sex with man thanks to Oxytocin. Men don't. In reality, when a man has sex with a woman, his testosterone levels actually decreased. This is the reason why he feels the need to leave and analyze. It's how he's wired.

So this is the biological reasoning behind much of what you refer to in you post.

The sad part is that women give it away too early and too easily. Most Men don't respect women who do that. In fact, they put them in the "FWB" zone and will never consider her GF material.

Women feel deep feelings and often project them onto the guy, when the reality is, the guy usually isn't feeing the same at that moment. So when they both get intimate, the girl gets clingy and the man runs.

Before social media and when dating was more traditional (courting etc.), a true relationship could be developed before sex. When you make a man wait, he'll respect you more for it and fall deeper in love with you. Everything today is on speed dial. Is it any wonder things are so out of natural sync?

Posted by AirMan
i honestly think its better they come here asking for relationship advice than come here escorting. like umm.... if you know what i mean. we've had had at least 2 former dxp escorters that i can recall. 1 male and 1 female.

DXP escorters?

Posted by cheekyfaerie
I blame "cuffing" season.

This came to mind too haha.

Posted by AriesGirl74

I know right? Lol
What's more sad is that in most cases they don't just spew the story to vent.. They say "..so how do I get him back?...waaaaaaahhhhhh! 😢(((("

...so this is the low life douchebag who:
Charmed your pants off so that you gave it up too soon
Won't text you anymore
Won't text you back
Says "I'm just busy that's all"
Says he doesn't want a relationship
Says "it's not you, it's me"

K....

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Nevermind climbing down chimneys...

They won't take "no" for an answer because... —?

Gem 64, I know why these chicks are getting suckered in. Just wondering why so much in one fell swoop lately.

Also, you might want to rethink that "Oxytocin" argument. Recently, there's been some contradicting research and it's not as easily written off as just "Oxytocin." I forgot where I came across it, but it was interesting.

Posted by cheekyfaerie
I blame "cuffing" season.

This. And Saturn has had insecure folks flailing about for like two years.

I find these women quite entertaining ... they want the D *drinksmytea*

Posted by rockyroadicecream
in the sky??

The last month or so, we've had an onslaught of these women (girls) who are just... cray cray in dealing with guys. I've noticed it in 3-4 forums that these poor, desperate girls are coming here, begging, pleading, desperately scrambling to keep some loser around or they did some stupid, crazy shit because of insecurity and want to know how to get the guy back.

It leaves me o.O Is there something in the water? Is it a seasonal? Is someone spiking all those pumpkin spice lattes with a dash of stupid? Is something going on in the sky? I think someone mentioned some sort of transit/retrograde/whatever going on and could explain why.

Hell, on another forum that I read, I'm seeing it there, too.

IT'S EVERYWHERE. And it makes me sad. 😢

I think a few are trolls, however, the threads can make for time killers and DXP has been a tad boring lately. But some are like WTF, why would you even miss a dude that all but pissed on you..😐

Posted by justagirl

Posted by rockyroadicecream
in the sky??

The last month or so, we've had an onslaught of these women (girls) who are just... cray cray in dealing with guys. I've noticed it in 3-4 forums that these poor, desperate girls are coming here, begging, pleading, desperately scrambling to keep some loser around or they did some stupid, crazy shit because of insecurity and want to know how to get the guy back.

It leaves me o.O Is there something in the water? Is it a seasonal? Is someone spiking all those pumpkin spice lattes with a dash of stupid? Is something going on in the sky? I think someone mentioned some sort of transit/retrograde/whatever going on and could explain why.

Hell, on another forum that I read, I'm seeing it there, too.

IT'S EVERYWHERE. And it makes me sad. 😢

I think a few are trolls, however, the threads can make for time killers and DXP has been a tad boring lately. But some are like WTF, why would you even miss a dude that all but pissed on you..😐

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Yeeeah, baffles me too. There was one on the Libra forum that told her story and the consensus was that the guy seemed to be in on it for sex. She seemed to be somewhat set in what she wanted to do next (not contact him and leave it up to him to see where she REALLY stood), and then is back a few days later, asking us if it's okay to contact him first- she's fretting she "scared" him off because she didn't give up her lady bits for his jerk ass.

There's a few Scorp chicks that have shown some serious wtfery on the Aries forum, too. I also read one on the Cap forum awhile back, and just today that 19 year old chick fretting over some douche who conned her into putting out.


...it's just... all over the place lately haha. Maybe it IS cuffing season.

Posted by oyes0435
Saturn transit scorpio.

It's not to blame (they are) but may be why their own soily, honest desperations are potruding through that justification dermis and becoming really hard to ignore.

Currently I guess, for everyone else
Maybe everyone else should hold up a mirror for em instead of a tissue

That's the one I heard about. All I remembered was Scorpio, but couldn't remember what specific transit it was. :/

I like the ones that ask for advice, gets it, then gets pissed off because it's not what they wanted to hear.

lol!


Down here in the south, I'd blame all the girl problems on hunting season, football and Nascar. The men are busy, so the gals are lonely and they have nothing else to do but focus on relationships! lol!

Posted by truecap
I like the ones that ask for advice, gets it, then gets pissed off because it's not what they wanted to hear.

lol!

Those happen pretty consistently here haha.

Down here in the south, I'd blame all the girl problems on hunting season, football and Nascar. The men are busy, so the gals are lonely and they have nothing else to do but focus on relationships! lol!

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Pfft, they need to get a damned hobby, Jesus. There's more to life than relationships.

But it IS the south. The mentality of "getting married and having babies" as life's aspirations is very much alive and well. I got in touch with a friend there awhile back and she joked about how she didn't blame me for not wanting to move back. "Yeah, everyone's getting married and having babies because there's nothing else better to do, haha."