when a venus in scorpio say SORRY ! does he really really really mean it?

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I'm reluctant to trust and believe him now after almost 2 years of torture from this man. i have moved completely forward with my new partner carrying his child.. i know its weired...but i'm perfectly happy . True i may still have feelings for him..and i will always love him but i have made a decision to cut him off for good.. and i told him to stay gone unless hes 1000 percents want to be part of this baby's life..

now after a month and a half of nothing from me. he turned around and emailed me apologising for everything for hurting me. he said he wants us to move forward and to be civilised with me and when the baby is born he wants to take the full responsibility as the father like he's supposed to.

Now ! ....i left and we had fight because he didn't stop playing around with drugs knowing that his baby was on the way.. ofcoz there were lies, and manipulation and others and there are things from my part that made us completely impossible to fix... i given up on that and learnt that we can never ever be together... yet the heart still lingers that way and it bothers me so much i heard from him... I HATE IT...

HELP.... my new partner is perfect..we are perfect together and i hate having this interfering with everything.. i don't know what to do...
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Posted by SeaGoddess
But I do say if he really wants to be apart of the child's life let him. But I wouldn't give up my new found happiness just because supposedly he's sorry and ready to man up now ya know ?
Unless you really wanna be with him still maybe take some time to think about what's best for you but I wouldn't think to hard on him focus on yourself and child for the moment
THank you, my baby is EVERYTHING for me.. and me and my partner now is awesome ...lol.... I will set up some strict guidelines and see if he can follow through..
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Posted by saweetz1988
I'm reluctant to trust and believe him now after almost 2 years of torture from this man. i have moved completely forward with my new partner carrying his child.. i know its weired...but i'm perfectly happy . True i may still have feelings for him..and i will always love him but i have made a decision to cut him off for good.. and i told him to stay gone unless hes 1000 percents want to be part of this baby's life..

now after a month and a half of nothing from me. he turned around and emailed me apologising for everything for hurting me. he said he wants us to move forward and to be civilised with me and when the baby is born he wants to take the full responsibility as the father like he's supposed to.

Now ! ....i left and we had fight because he didn't stop playing around with drugs knowing that his baby was on the way.. ofcoz there were lies, and manipulation and others and there are things from my part that made us completely impossible to fix... i given up on that and learnt that we can never ever be together... yet the heart still lingers that way and it bothers me so much i heard from him... I HATE IT...

HELP.... my new partner is perfect..we are perfect together and i hate having this interfering with everything.. i don't know what to do...


a new guy is dating you while youre preggo and you still thinkin abt the other guy? cant wait to see the next thread "there are no good guys out there" hahaha this ^^^^^^ is where the good guys are, dealing wit sheete like this
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I'm reluctant to trust and believe him now after almost 2 years of torture from this man. i have moved completely forward with my new partner carrying his child.. i know its weired...but i'm perfectly happy . True i may still have feelings for him..and i will always love him but i have made a decision to cut him off for good.. and i told him to stay gone unless hes 1000 percents want to be part of this baby's life..

now after a month and a half of nothing from me. he turned around and emailed me apologising for everything for hurting me. he said he wants us to move forward and to be civilised with me and when the baby is born he wants to take the full responsibility as the father like he's supposed to.

Now ! ....i left and we had fight because he didn't stop playing around with drugs knowing that his baby was on the way.. ofcoz there were lies, and manipulation and others and there are things from my part that made us completely impossible to fix... i given up on that and learnt that we can never ever be together... yet the heart still lingers that way and it bothers me so much i heard from him... I HATE IT...

HELP.... my new partner is perfect..we are perfect together and i hate having this interfering with everything.. i don't know what to do...


a new guy is dating you while youre preggo and you still thinkin abt the other guy? cant wait to see the next thread "there are no good guys out there" hahaha this ^^^^^^ is where the good guys are, dealing wit sheete like this
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sadly i still do but now i'm not only thinking about him in that way. He's the father of the child for god sake. I can't just cut him off for good and ps: my new guy is the one who tells me to give my ex a chance if he truly wanna take responsibility ! ...
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Posted by SeaGoddess
But I do say if he really wants to be apart of the child's life let him. But I wouldn't give up my new found happiness just because supposedly he's sorry and ready to man up now ya know ?
Unless you really wanna be with him still maybe take some time to think about what's best for you but I wouldn't think to hard on him focus on yourself and child for the moment
thank you great advise without judgement 🙂
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Posted by DMV
Just have him be there for the child and thats it.

Dont worry bout apologies.

Set a schedule up with father of the child for visits, overnight stays, a child raising plan.

If you cant seperate your wants for this man and his duties as a father then you really need to break up with this new guy. Youre using him.

at this moment in trying very hard to meet up with him in person to face my fear for us not to touch each other as we both are extremely physically very very attrscted to each other . Almost like addicted to each other's body and it was been a torturenfor me moving on but i finally did it. Me n my ex made love like no tomorrow n I believe we are more souly very connected. so I asked him to meet up so we can be just friends n really not touch each other in that way and he says * your funny. It will be hard if we are going to raise a child together *... I said we need to make it happen.. I truly do want to make it happen.. all my exs I had no problem separating my feelings coz once imove on I really do move on n I don't feel nothing anymore.. He is different 😢 ... With the new guy, I can't brake up with him because he's amazing to me and I can see us working out together long term.. but yes u r right I will see how things are when the baby is born.. in less than 2 months... he knows of my previous strong feelings for my ex n I have explained everything thoroughly to him.. anyway. When the baby is born I will seperate everything and will only have serious matters with him about the baby and child support n visits etc... I'm not using my current boyfriend. I enjoy being with him and I do a lot for him as well. but yes I need to be fair on my feelings at the same time but I can't go back with my ex, he will hurt me again most likely 😢 and I'm very scared of that.
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Posted by saweetz1988
I'm reluctant to trust and believe him now after almost 2 years of torture from this man. i have moved completely forward with my new partner carrying his child.. i know its weired...but i'm perfectly happy . True i may still have feelings for him..and i will always love him but i have made a decision to cut him off for good.. and i told him to stay gone unless hes 1000 percents want to be part of this baby's life..

now after a month and a half of nothing from me. he turned around and emailed me apologising for everything for hurting me. he said he wants us to move forward and to be civilised with me and when the baby is born he wants to take the full responsibility as the father like he's supposed to.

Now ! ....i left and we had fight because he didn't stop playing around with drugs knowing that his baby was on the way.. ofcoz there were lies, and manipulation and others and there are things from my part that made us completely impossible to fix... i given up on that and learnt that we can never ever be together... yet the heart still lingers that way and it bothers me so much i heard from him... I HATE IT...

HELP.... my new partner is perfect..we are perfect together and i hate having this interfering with everything.. i don't know what to do...

No we don't really mean it