Always a bridesmaidnever the bride....

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by cheenah on Sunday, August 12, 2007 and has 7 replies.

Profile picture of cheenah
@cheenah
19 Years

Its not what u think.. are u that girl that has tons of guy friends, you get along better with the fellas socially, than the girls? Yet with all the male buddy's u have, thats just it they are all just pals, not lovers... Do u joke with them sexually,and take it to the next level as far as u can, but yet they never cross that line.? Do u feel like wow, Im great enuff to be their pal, and we are close, share a lot of things together.. But romantically it never seems to happen, or its avoided. I understand on some level, as I have lost some of these friendships after they became romantic, and some we are arch enemies and don't speak to each other to this day. Its disappointing after haven been such good friends. the worst is when ur pal is attached, and u wanna be with him in some way, but it doesnt happen, but yet your so very close. Is being the good gal pal, second best or the runner up prize..If your so great to be their pal, then why cant u be their gal. Can anyone relate, or share guidance on this..God Bless..

Profile picture of cheenah
@cheenah
19 Years

Thanks, it must be a strong Sag thing then. I'm a sag, and never thought that had anything to do with it. All u said, thats me in a nutshell. WOW.. Being a sag is some strong stuff, it still hurts though that we are so open & honest, and still don't land the right guy.. Tx again..

Profile picture of fieryearth
@fieryearth
19 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

"Sags have a BIG problem seperating Love from Friendship themselves.. actually they can not make up their minds and hence end up totally confusing the other party."

So true. My best friend (Sagi) is just like this...

Profile picture of cheenah
@cheenah
19 Years

ALL I CAN SAY IS " W O W", you deserve a standing ovation. That theory is so on point, so on the money any sag a true sag that doesbt relate to that is not a SAG.
Girl you knocked me off my feet, all u said I feel, felt and have gone through and still experiebce. Its amazing this zodiac stuff, it really has a deep concentrated power and meaning of its own. Thats why I like being a sag, we love and desire to learn more about it. I hope enuff sags read this, it will help them as it will me.
THANK U SOOOOOO MUCH ARCHER.. It couldn't have been said better. Im glad to be your fellow sag on this site, some of you gals are just simply amazing and just great gals..