Anyone here been scared of liking someone?

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I am,the attraction is too strong that i cant speak when she is near me,i cant open a proper topic or convo when she talks to me all i do is answer in short version,like one time i visited her home when she saw me she approach me touched my face with both hands and said hi (my name) i just said hi then nada not another word ?,ugh! I can talk to anyone with any topic but with her.....now im always scared of crossing paths with her wishing that i wont see her when im around their area but miss looking at her face,and scared to get close to her coz i know i will fall for her but it wont do any good as she already has someone and knowing a taurus i dont stand a chance so im saving my heart the pain 😢
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If you want to feel love be ready to feel pain. They go together. Its beautiful.
That's moronic!

Where are they going together?

And how beautiful can pain be?
🙂 Thinking that love exists by itself and that you can find love that will never cause you any pain is naïve. A coin has two sides and love is just one of them. Without love you cannot feel pain in the form of hatred, sorrow and etc, and without these feelings you will not know what love is.

Its magic - most beautiful thing, because its the essence of life, from my perspective.

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There is nothing beautiful in being in pain 24/7 unless you are some sort of basket case!

I have to drink myself into sleep to drawn that gorgeous pain of mine! Want a piece?

I can give it all to you!

Beautiful my ass...
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Posted by cvurko
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Posted by cvurko
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by cvurko
If you want to feel love be ready to feel pain. They go together. Its beautiful.
That's moronic!

Where are they going together?

And how beautiful can pain be?
🙂 Thinking that love exists by itself and that you can find love that will never cause you any pain is naïve. A coin has two sides and love is just one of them. Without love you cannot feel pain in the form of hatred, sorrow and etc, and without these feelings you will not know what love is.

Its magic - most beautiful thing, because its the essence of life, from my perspective.


There is nothing beautiful in being in pain 24/7 unless you are some sort of basket case!

I have to drink myself into sleep to drawn that gorgeous pain of mine! Want a piece?

I can give it all to you!

Beautiful my ass...
Pain is not beautiful by itself because it is not entire and whole when you take it alone. The same way love cannot really exist alone. They are two parts of the same coin and that is what is beautiful.

Pain will always be there and we will always feel it. As we can always feel the love. Its our choice on which we will focus and what our behavior and mentality towards the feeling we will have. And its a personal choice that should be made on a daily-basis.

I feel you are in pain, but remember that nothing is black and white, apart from the colors themselves if we are being literal. You have the ability to make yourself feel better. How can it be anything other than beautiful?
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I don't HAVE ability to make myself better!

I feel no pain 10 min a day. While I hear his voice and forgetting the pain!

Soon as it ends - I am having a spear in my chest! How wonderful really is it—
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Honestly if only she was available i woudnt feel scared,the pain is fine if she rejected me if shes free im not an idiot and definitely not naive i have my fair share of pain trying all the time with the person i like but this is different since she already have someone unlike my past crushes or attraction that is available for me to pursue them this girl is not,and this attraction is much stronger than any of the past its too powerful that i can barely contain myself when she is around,what i mean is that im saving myself the pain of not having a chance with her because she already has someone and staying away from her is the better option as to not fall completely,see?what did i tell almost everyone?my words are misinterpreted most of the time for another meaning,im not good when it comes to expressing myself with words that is why i always do actions instead ugh! Forget it! Thanks anyway ?
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Posted by Freetobe007
Nah, I love for that level of passion and intensity! Don't ever let fear be a roadblock. There is such thing as a heartbreak worth having

Buuuut....seeing as she's...you said she already has someone? Like a legitimate significant other or just a boo thang?

she already has a girlfriend 4yrs and counting,besides the fact that she doesnt even contact me so i must move on,and i feel like she is avoiding me whenever im online it will take a minute or two i see her online then she goes offline lol,if its one time i woudnt think like that