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Men don't love you. They want to Fk you?
Understanding Male Desires and Love in Relationships
Men may desire sex without emotional attachment, but repeated encounters can sometimes lead to feelings of love. Recognizing the difference between physical attraction and emotional connection is key to understanding relationship dynamics and expectations.
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Maybe two women are enough for some men, especially when they get older?......then one day *BOOM* number three comes along and they have all they need....three is a charm 😉
....no need for love....so much sex to think about....love doesn't come into it
....they leave that up to women
The title lol! I always feared that.
Sex isn't everything. The best is when you click at other stuff too, when you have similar tastes in movies or music, or similar interests so that you can always have quality time together.
So I think men would look for someone they find sexy but also respect their tastes in everything and can spend quality time with 😛
To me it seems that sexual compatibility alone is pretty shallow unless backed up with other things.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Maybe two women are enough for some men, especially when they get older?......then one day *BOOM* number three comes along and they have all they need....three is a charm 😉....no need for love....so much sex to think about....love doesn't come into it
....they leave that up to women
NO! We are talking ONE! Because if there is more - unprotected sex is dangerous!
Posted by Teena
The title lol! I always feared that.
Don't! How wouldn't love YOU?
Posted by BuffaloBills28
If anything, men are more loving then women.
Come again...
Posted by BuffaloBills28
If anything, men are more loving then women.Come again...
lol. Yeah, I went there!
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......says the bloke who repeatedly says as long as the sex is good, he is happy?
Posted by Teena
The title lol! I always feared that.*whispers*
They do love
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Haha.I think they do yeah..
Posted by MyStarsShine
Maybe two women are enough for some men, especially when they get older?......then one day *BOOM* number three comes along and they have all they need....three is a charm 😉....no need for love....so much sex to think about....love doesn't come into it
....they leave that up to women
NO! We are talking ONE! Because if there is more - unprotected sex is dangerous!
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But aren't you with one that has two women (or maybe more) in his life?
Posted by Teena
The title lol! I always feared that.Don't! How wouldn't love YOU?
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🤗
I just find it hard to shrug off that feeling sometimes.
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.
Posted by Teena
The title lol! I always feared that.*whispers*
They do love
Haha.I think they do yeah..
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Yes ma'am they do....believe me.....
Or rather they need to fuck in order to show love.
Posted by Teena
The title lol! I always feared that.*whispers*
They do love
Haha.I think they do yeah..
Yes ma'am they do....believe me.....
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I do 🙂
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.
This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
Interesting to see that 4 people clicked on this thread.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
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I think a guy can care about you but without that important component of physical intimacy they can't leap over to love. But what do I know...I have a vagina.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
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Christina... Stay away from this friend. You are a good girl. Don't get influenced by others.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Maybe two women are enough for some men, especially when they get older?......then one day *BOOM* number three comes along and they have all they need....three is a charm 😉....no need for love....so much sex to think about....love doesn't come into it
....they leave that up to women
NO! We are talking ONE! Because if there is more - unprotected sex is dangerous!
But aren't you with one that has two women (or maybe more) in his life?
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No! If he could have his wife that's all he would need!
Though after all these years I am not sure if he wants her anymore except to keep the family intact.
We have each other only. This is where trust and unprotected sex coming from.
If he ever had sex with her he would tell me. Once in 3 years it has happened and I am not sure if he was being funny or truthfull. I don't care either way.
Posted by Teena
The title lol! I always feared that.Don't! How wouldn't love YOU?
🤗
I just find it hard to shrug off that feeling sometimes.
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You are a Scorpio! Men magnet, Teena!!!
Posted by LadyNeptune
Or rather they need to fuck in order to show love.
Yes
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.
Yes they do!
Lust he had for me for 5 years was him wondering how is she going to be if I got between her legs? And we talked and laughed about it!
Then we said its just to take edge off and see what's what!
Then it came as a thing that is going on and on and on and I honestly think one day we will end up until death do us part!
Posted by LadyNeptune
Or rather they need to fuck in order to show love.
It's natural! It would be nuts to want to just hold hands...
Posted by BuffaloBills28
If anything, men are more loving then women.Come again...
lol. Yeah, I went there!
......says the bloke who repeatedly says as long as the sex is good, he is happy?
what's a bloke? and just because somebody is sexual doesn't mean they don't have the capabilities to love another. What are you talking about..? (and not everything is meant to be taken seriously).
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I took it seriously as you said it a few times ....
Posted by MyStarsShine
Maybe two women are enough for some men, especially when they get older?......then one day *BOOM* number three comes along and they have all they need....three is a charm 😉....no need for love....so much sex to think about....love doesn't come into it
....they leave that up to women
NO! We are talking ONE! Because if there is more - unprotected sex is dangerous!
But aren't you with one that has two women (or maybe more) in his life?
No! If he could have his wife that's all he would need!
Though after all these years I am not sure if he wants her anymore except to keep the family intact.
We have each other only. This is where trust and unprotected sex coming from.
If he ever had sex with her he would tell me. Once in 3 years it has happened and I am not sure if he was being funny or truthfull. I don't care either way.
Are you sure he is not cheating on you with his wife? Lol
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Didn't you see I wrote I don't care either way and if he does he tells me?
Read!!!
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
I think a guy can care about you but without that important component of physical intimacy they can't leap over to love. But what do I know...I have a vagina.
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It amazes me how it can be a deciding factor.
?Lol!!Ofcourse ...how would we know..
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
Christina... Stay away from this friend. You are a good girl. Don't get influenced by others.
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Teena* or Just Tina ?
He's a good guy or seems so..but yeah I kinda always felt a lil odd about him. The way he says this n the way he shows an immense interest in sex talk(everything should always end up here). He's pretty confident that it can make him fall in love. But what if he thinks the sex has been bad? He'd still fall in love? No right? Then how is that true!
Posted by MyStarsShine
Maybe two women are enough for some men, especially when they get older?......then one day *BOOM* number three comes along and they have all they need....three is a charm 😉....no need for love....so much sex to think about....love doesn't come into it
....they leave that up to women
NO! We are talking ONE! Because if there is more - unprotected sex is dangerous!
But aren't you with one that has two women (or maybe more) in his life?
No! If he could have his wife that's all he would need!
Though after all these years I am not sure if he wants her anymore except to keep the family intact.
We have each other only. This is where trust and unprotected sex coming from.
If he ever had sex with her he would tell me. Once in 3 years it has happened and I am not sure if he was being funny or truthfull. I don't care either way.
Are you sure he is not cheating on you with his wife? Lol
Didn't you see I wrote I don't care either way and if he does he tells me?
Read!!!
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S.t.d's?
Posted by Teena
The title lol! I always feared that.Don't! How wouldn't love YOU?
🤗
I just find it hard to shrug off that feeling sometimes.
You are a Scorpio! Men magnet, Teena!!!
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Lol! It doesn't make anything easy really ?
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
Christina... Stay away from this friend. You are a good girl. Don't get influenced by others.
Teena* or Just Tina ?
He's a good guy or seems so..but yeah I kinda always felt a lil odd about him. The way he says this n the way he shows an immense interest in sex talk(everything should always end up here). He's pretty confident that it can make him fall in love. But what if he thinks the sex has been bad? He'd still fall in love? No right? Then how is that true!
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Big risk girl. Brain in pants and maybe heart too......where does that leave women ?
Posted by Hare
So they can't love you and want to fuck you at the same time?
With a lot of men, no......sex first.....love follows.....
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
I think a guy can care about you but without that important component of physical intimacy they can't leap over to love. But what do I know...I have a vagina.
It amazes me how it can be a deciding factor.
?Lol!!Ofcourse ...how would we know..
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It's a deciding factor for me. I could never be one of these waiting-till-marriage. I need that level of physical intimacy in order to let myself go fall into love.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
Christina... Stay away from this friend. You are a good girl. Don't get influenced by others.
Teena* or Just Tina ?
He's a good guy or seems so..but yeah I kinda always felt a lil odd about him. The way he says this n the way he shows an immense interest in sex talk(everything should always end up here). He's pretty confident that it can make him fall in love. But what if he thinks the sex has been bad? He'd still fall in love? No right? Then how is that true!
Big risk girl. Brain in pants and maybe heart too......where does that leave women ?
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Exactly!! What if every man actually thinks so? We just keep sleeping with different guys to see if they'll fall in love with us?
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
I think a guy can care about you but without that important component of physical intimacy they can't leap over to love. But what do I know...I have a vagina.
It amazes me how it can be a deciding factor.
?Lol!!Ofcourse ...how would we know..
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Why is it amazes you as deciding factor?
Yes long time ago people fell in love and life was so sex-forbidden than people were getting married quickly to get sex legally and that's all it was. Wanting sex!
Nowadays we know so much more about sex...so everyone wants better one!
My Mom still thinks bj is form of prostitution! We got drunk once and she said why would anyone wants to do that?
I said you mean my poor father never got any? She said I am not a slut! It's disquieting. And then she looked at me like...who raised YOU??!
I was ROFLMAO!!!
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
I think a guy can care about you but without that important component of physical intimacy they can't leap over to love. But what do I know...I have a vagina.
It amazes me how it can be a deciding factor.
?Lol!!Ofcourse ...how would we know..
It's a deciding factor for me. I could never be one of these waiting-till-marriage. I need that level of physical intimacy in order to let myself go fall into love.
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I get that. But I do believe in loving a person deeply without this being a deciding factor at all. I can do that.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
Christina... Stay away from this friend. You are a good girl. Don't get influenced by others.
Teena* or Just Tina ?
He's a good guy or seems so..but yeah I kinda always felt a lil odd about him. The way he says this n the way he shows an immense interest in sex talk(everything should always end up here). He's pretty confident that it can make him fall in love. But what if he thinks the sex has been bad? He'd still fall in love? No right? Then how is that true!
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Keep an eye on that guy Christina...
Love has nothing to do with sex. There is love and there is sex, two separated things.
You don't show you love someone by making sex. Or you don't fall in love with someone just because of the sex. When a guy (or a girl!) says "i love you" after sex, it's meant to be: "i want to do this more often with you", but it doesn't necessary mean he/she is in love with you.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
Christina... Stay away from this friend. You are a good girl. Don't get influenced by others.
Teena* or Just Tina ?
He's a good guy or seems so..but yeah I kinda always felt a lil odd about him. The way he says this n the way he shows an immense interest in sex talk(everything should always end up here). He's pretty confident that it can make him fall in love. But what if he thinks the sex has been bad? He'd still fall in love? No right? Then how is that true!
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I can tell you with all my confidence that love sometimes comes alone. No sex yet.
Just feelings that you can die if you can't have this person.
Then sex is bad...(trust me it happened like wow! ) but IF you love this person you can make anything happen!
Sex can improve. Feelings will be amazing!
Just beware! If sex does not improve within some time...it will bite you in ass later and you will become ME!
Who wants that— Not even me...lol
So be smart!
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
I think a guy can care about you but without that important component of physical intimacy they can't leap over to love. But what do I know...I have a vagina.
It amazes me how it can be a deciding factor.
?Lol!!Ofcourse ...how would we know..
Why is it amazes you as deciding factor?
Yes long time ago people fell in love and life was so sex-forbidden than people were getting married quickly to get sex legally and that's all it was. Wanting sex!
Nowadays we know so much more about sex...so everyone wants better one!
My Mom still thinks bj is form of prostitution! We got drunk once and she said why would anyone wants to do that?
I said you mean my poor father never got any? She said I am not a slut! It's disquieting. And then she looked at me like...who raised YOU??!
I was ROFLMAO!!!
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Lol!! That's funny she thinks it's a slutty work. I don't have any inhibitions about anything relating to sex. I'm pretty open to most of the ideas.
But sex can never ever be a deciding factor for me to love. N no!! I definitely won't wanna get married so that I can finally n legally have sex. My marriage would definitely be out of love n to love the person more. I said this before. I don't mind dying a spinster or not having sex all my life. I'm not looking for a person who can be more better at sex definitely.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
Christina... Stay away from this friend. You are a good girl. Don't get influenced by others.
Teena* or Just Tina ?
He's a good guy or seems so..but yeah I kinda always felt a lil odd about him. The way he says this n the way he shows an immense interest in sex talk(everything should always end up here). He's pretty confident that it can make him fall in love. But what if he thinks the sex has been bad? He'd still fall in love? No right? Then how is that true!
Keep an eye on that guy Christina...
Love has nothing to do with sex. There is love and there is sex, two separated things.
You don't show you love someone by making sex. Or you don't fall in love with someone just because of the sex. When a guy (or a girl!) says "i love you" after sex, it's meant to be: "i want to do this more often with you", but it doesn't necessary mean he/she is in love with you.
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Who put you in charge?
Love has nothing to do with sex—
Marry man with no dick or a woman with no vagina and see how long can you last
In this loving environment!
Until someone will look at you and your pants will fall off without hand movement!
There you go...entering world of sin baby!
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
Christina... Stay away from this friend. You are a good girl. Don't get influenced by others.
Teena* or Just Tina ?
He's a good guy or seems so..but yeah I kinda always felt a lil odd about him. The way he says this n the way he shows an immense interest in sex talk(everything should always end up here). He's pretty confident that it can make him fall in love. But what if he thinks the sex has been bad? He'd still fall in love? No right? Then how is that true!
Keep an eye on that guy Christina...
Love has nothing to do with sex. There is love and there is sex, two separated things.
You don't show you love someone by making sex. Or you don't fall in love with someone just because of the sex. When a guy (or a girl!) says "i love you" after sex, it's meant to be: "i want to do this more often with you", but it doesn't necessary mean he/she is in love with you.
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Exactly!!! I'm glad there's someone else who thinks so. These have always been my thoughts. They are two different things. Sex for me is "love making" . Not just a fun thing.It's just an extension of love we already share if anything...a sweet thing. But then there are people who think otherwise. It's how it works for them. I'm not against it. For *me* it's not how it works.
Posted by Hare
So they can't love you and want to fuck you at the same time?
It would be a big turn off! Wouldn't that?
Where is the respect—
Lol first time laughing at your post! Let's have a drink to that!
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
Christina... Stay away from this friend. You are a good girl. Don't get influenced by others.
Teena* or Just Tina ?
He's a good guy or seems so..but yeah I kinda always felt a lil odd about him. The way he says this n the way he shows an immense interest in sex talk(everything should always end up here). He's pretty confident that it can make him fall in love. But what if he thinks the sex has been bad? He'd still fall in love? No right? Then how is that true!
I can tell you with all my confidence that love sometimes comes alone. No sex yet.
Just feelings that you can die if you can't have this person.
Then sex is bad...(trust me it happened like wow! ) but IF you love this person you can make anything happen!
Sex can improve. Feelings will be amazing!
Just beware! If sex does not improve within some time...it will bite you in ass later and you will become ME!
Who wants that— Not even me...lol
So be smart!
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But how would I know if sex is bad to start with?
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
Christina... Stay away from this friend. You are a good girl. Don't get influenced by others.
Teena* or Just Tina ?
He's a good guy or seems so..but yeah I kinda always felt a lil odd about him. The way he says this n the way he shows an immense interest in sex talk(everything should always end up here). He's pretty confident that it can make him fall in love. But what if he thinks the sex has been bad? He'd still fall in love? No right? Then how is that true!
Big risk girl. Brain in pants and maybe heart too......where does that leave women ?
Exactly!! What if every man actually thinks so? We just keep sleeping with different guys to see if they'll fall in love with us?
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You can't be serious!
Of course we sleep around and find biggest dick because it's easier to drug one to the Ciry Hall by holding it! Small one can slip out and run away! Lol
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
Christina... Stay away from this friend. You are a good girl. Don't get influenced by others.
Teena* or Just Tina ?
He's a good guy or seems so..but yeah I kinda always felt a lil odd about him. The way he says this n the way he shows an immense interest in sex talk(everything should always end up here). He's pretty confident that it can make him fall in love. But what if he thinks the sex has been bad? He'd still fall in love? No right? Then how is that true!
Big risk girl. Brain in pants and maybe heart too......where does that leave women ?
Exactly!! What if every man actually thinks so? We just keep sleeping with different guys to see if they'll fall in love with us?
You can't be serious!
Of course we sleep around and find biggest dick because it's easier to drug one to the Ciry Hall by holding it! Small one can slip out and run away! Lol
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Rofl!!C'mon really—?
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
Christina... Stay away from this friend. You are a good girl. Don't get influenced by others.
Teena* or Just Tina ?
He's a good guy or seems so..but yeah I kinda always felt a lil odd about him. The way he says this n the way he shows an immense interest in sex talk(everything should always end up here). He's pretty confident that it can make him fall in love. But what if he thinks the sex has been bad? He'd still fall in love? No right? Then how is that true!
Keep an eye on that guy Christina...
Love has nothing to do with sex. There is love and there is sex, two separated things.
You don't show you love someone by making sex. Or you don't fall in love with someone just because of the sex. When a guy (or a girl!) says "i love you" after sex, it's meant to be: "i want to do this more often with you", but it doesn't necessary mean he/she is in love with you.
Who put you in charge?
Love has nothing to do with sex—
Marry man with no dick or a woman with no vagina and see how long can you last
In this loving environment!
Until someone will look at you and your pants will fall off without hand movement!
There you go...entering world of sin baby!
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Evidently some people will have an idiosyncratic outlook.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
Christina... Stay away from this friend. You are a good girl. Don't get influenced by others.
Teena* or Just Tina ?
He's a good guy or seems so..but yeah I kinda always felt a lil odd about him. The way he says this n the way he shows an immense interest in sex talk(everything should always end up here). He's pretty confident that it can make him fall in love. But what if he thinks the sex has been bad? He'd still fall in love? No right? Then how is that true!
Keep an eye on that guy Christina...
Love has nothing to do with sex. There is love and there is sex, two separated things.
You don't show you love someone by making sex. Or you don't fall in love with someone just because of the sex. When a guy (or a girl!) says "i love you" after sex, it's meant to be: "i want to do this more often with you", but it doesn't necessary mean he/she is in love with you.
Who put you in charge?
Love has nothing to do with sex—
Marry man with no dick or a woman with no vagina and see how long can you last
In this loving environment!
Until someone will look at you and your pants will fall off without hand movement!
There you go...entering world of sin baby!
Evidently some people will have an idiosyncratic outlook.
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I love all Saints who frequent dxpnet!
Should we call this forum dxpnet sanctuary or dxpnet temple? I don't think mosque will fly here... Lol
Posted by Hare
So they can't love you and want to fuck you at the same time?
That would be ideal
Edit: I'm not sure
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men fall in love through fucking. Sometimes.This!!! A guy friend of mine always told me that. Do you think it can be true?
Christina... Stay away from this friend. You are a good girl. Don't get influenced by others.
Teena* or Just Tina ?
He's a good guy or seems so..but yeah I kinda always felt a lil odd about him. The way he says this n the way he shows an immense interest in sex talk(everything should always end up here). He's pretty confident that it can make him fall in love. But what if he thinks the sex has been bad? He'd still fall in love? No right? Then how is that true!
Keep an eye on that guy Christina...
Love has nothing to do with sex. There is love and there is sex, two separated things.
You don't show you love someone by making sex. Or you don't fall in love with someone just because of the sex. When a guy (or a girl!) says "i love you" after sex, it's meant to be: "i want to do this more often with you", but it doesn't necessary mean he/she is in love with you.
Who put you in charge?
Love has nothing to do with sex—
Marry man with no dick or a woman with no vagina and see how long can you last
In this loving environment!
Until someone will look at you and your pants will fall off without hand movement!
There you go...entering world of sin baby!
Evidently some people will have an idiosyncratic outlook.
I love all Saints who frequent dxpnet!
Should we call this forum dxpnet sanctuary or dxpnet temple? I don't think mosque will fly here... Lol
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Would you like to be the naughty priest or the naughty nun in the temple?
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Just saw this title of the book in Promotios section.
Chuckled thinking ok they don't love you. They just want sex. Then they got it and want it again. And again. And it's going in like they can't have it anywhere else because you know he just don't have time for more considering his schedule!
So years go by and he still doesn't love you but for some reason he still wants to Fk you! Like is it maybe love now?
Or why wouldn't he explore other opportunities?
Let's pretend we are 100% sure he doesn't do anyone else because you have unprotected sex...otherwise he would be worried.
I am LMAO. Just thinking what are your opinion on this will be...