Apologize or no contact

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Noreallynow
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First let me say that I am not going this to get him back. I am doing this because I believe that I was wrong for some of the things that I did. People made some valid points in the last post that I made. The main point was that I had no right for jumping on him about communicating with other females if we weren't in a committed relationship. Like I said before we was dating for a year, we was about to take a big step before we decided that we're not going to deal with each other anymore. I messed that up. Only because I had people coming to me left and right with negativity about him. Not realizing that it was only done to cause us to separate. The guy that brought it to me hated on him and the female wanted him. The guy and the female are friends. They're been friends for years. I wouldn't even ask for information. He would just throw things out there and run back and tell her. Which caused me to run back and tell the guy I was dating. Then the guy that I was dating he would go to her. So, it's like a big circle. I wanted to take myself out of it, because it was too much drama for me. I fucked up and I'm admitting my wrongs. I don't like ending things badly. I just would like to know if it's right for me to apologize or leave it alone?
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M143
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noreallynow,

First, you made mistakes. I suggest. You have to apologise.
Second, You don't want him back... this made me *trigger*
I won't apologise to somebody specially this is relationship matter.. You might not look
you are going to reconcile with this man but hey it will only leads to mis interpretation.

Apologising will create bridge in a relationship.

I am sure you want him back. Be honest in your intentions.

I always have this in mind: Why I would I bother if I don't have love for them.

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Noreallynow
@Noreallynow
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Posted by M143

noreallynow,

First, you made mistakes. I suggest. You have to apologise.
Second, You don't want him back... this made me *trigger*
I won't apologise to somebody specially this is relationship matter.. You might not look
you are going to reconcile with this man but hey it will only leads to mis interpretation.

Apologising will create bridge in a relationship.

I am sure you want him back. Be honest in your intentions.

I always have this in mind: Why I would I bother if I don't have love for them.



I never said that I didn't have love for him or feelings. C'mon, it's been a year. I don't want to be with him. I just don't want a bad vibe between the both of us.