Aqua Venus People

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AfternoonDelights22
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Sometimes I think my aqua venus gets suppressed by my pisces sun and Taurus mars. Since aqua venus gets this whole aloof image in love. But I love me some couple time and I will choke an assclown who gets too close to muh lady.

But with that said
Sometimes we do be the coldest, iciest, calculating mofos on the planet. At the start of relationships I will hold people at football field length. Cuz really I just want to get to know them. That's really the holy grail of relationships anyway. I want to keep inching slowly closer to her on the football field by a yard at a time until I finally get to her very essence.

It is then when I completely start to fall head over heels that the real aqua venus can leak on through. Once I let someone in to really know me and they open up so that I can really know them that is beautiful. I want them to be their total self. Because I will love every part of her. Every minor detail that make her, her. Nothing else in love would be worth it.

And I do have a knack for falling for something/someone who may be totally different from me.

But I do think we need a partner who while may be different, feels similar. Gotta be around someone who enjoys our company as much as we enjoy theirs. If we think they don't enjoy it we may want to start hiding that bearing of water again.

Theres more I want to say but I also have an aqua merc and we think too damn fast and just vomit words. So Maybe ill try again later
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I think it does really depend on what Sun sign an Aqua Venus is attached to. I have Venus square Uranus so I can't get into a real relationship without building a friendship first that allows space. I love the aloof, detached nature and comradery. There's something there that will pop up and zap you later down the line.

Now, put this on a Pisces Sun and chances are what's underneath is a bevy of rich emotions. Aqua Venus is capable of flashes of inspired love. Beautiful.
Put this on an Aquarius Sun and those flashes may contain hidden emotions that the person can't deal with because of the discomfort it causes them.

Unfortunately I experienced the latter. A painful past experiences that the Sun was unable or unwilling to deal with.

My Aqua Sun/Venus ex want's to remain friends with me. He values friendship over anything else and I??ve never betrayed him or his trust... even after he betrayed mine. I'm friendly but I can't be friends because he puts so much weight on friendship and it's tied up to his feelings. Witty conversation, banter and arguments turn him on. He tries to engage me at every turn and that makes me very uncomfortable.
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AfternoonDelights22
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Posted by FrostAndBite
*listens to aqua Venus chat intensely*

My sis is like you delights. Pisces sun Taurus mars and Aqua Venus.

She has had a few boyfriends here and there, but nothing really serious. She's fairly aloof with guys, and tends to be more attracted to someone when they become unavailable to her.

She's an odd mix of cold and highly affectionate with her family. I always wonder how similar or different she is to that with boyfriends.

I've been making an effort to understand her better recently, and see her for who she really is.



Whats her rising

So I can blame it on that 😛
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Aqua venus here. I think it's really hard to pin down or rather get an aqua Venus to commit. We look for something precise in our partner. If a person doesn't tick off most qualities we seek in a partner, we stay single. Aqua venus has no problem being single either. I've been single for the longest time because I can't find someone who fits most of what I look for in a person. I never got into a relationship after I broke up with my libra ex. That relationship was very exhausting for me and I feel liberated. Sometimes I feel like I dread getting into relationships because of the hard work and confinement involved. By confinement, I mean the rules and restrictions that come in.

My aqua Venus brother has been single for the longest time too! He has flings but doesn't get into relationships. He was dating a cancer girl for three yrs about 6-7 yrs ago who he dumped and then he never dated again. I think she suffocated him to death that he never entered into relationships again. I feel like he also dreads a painfully restrictive relationship, which most of them are.

My aqua Venus mother has been single mostly since my dad passed away. She dated one guy for three years, but after that she never liked a guy enough to get into a relationship with him. She once said that she likes being the queen of her time. She does what she wants when she wants it and no questions are asked.
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My capi has aqua venus n Taurus moon - seriously it's hard work at times. I have noticed lately whn we have a disagreement he tends to come around a lot quicker then he used to and becomes more open about how he or I could make things better... However he was hurt in the past by his ex n I don't think he's ever truely overcome it enough to fully commit. We love each other dearly but this one thing causes soo much work
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Posted by aquarius09
Aqua venus here. I think it's really hard to pin down or rather get an aqua Venus to commit. We look for something precise in our partner. If a person doesn't tick off most qualities we seek in a partner, we stay single. Aqua venus has no problem being single either. I've been single for the longest time because I can't find someone who fits most of what I look for in a person. I never got into a relationship after I broke up with my libra ex. That relationship was very exhausting for me and I feel liberated. Sometimes I feel like I dread getting into relationships because of the hard work and confinement involved. By confinement, I mean the rules and restrictions that come in.

My aqua Venus brother has been single for the longest time too! He has flings but doesn't get into relationships. He was dating a cancer girl for three yrs about 6-7 yrs ago who he dumped and then he never dated again. I think she suffocated him to death that he never entered into relationships again. I feel like he also dreads a painfully restrictive relationship, which most of them are.

My aqua Venus mother has been single mostly since my dad passed away. She dated one guy for three years, but after that she never liked a guy enough to get into a relationship with him. She once said that she likes being the queen of her time. She does what she wants when she wants it and no questions are asked.



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