Call me then ignore me. Advice?

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I need advice and opinions:

I was supposed to have a dick appointment tonight and all of a sudden, he stops answering the phone. We've talked basically all day today and all of a sudden, when I told him I wasn't at home at the moment, he told me to give him a call once I got home. That was at 8:30.

9:30 rolls around and I finally get home. I give him a call and his phone rings until I get his voicemail. I leave a voicemail and called him about 2 more times before I just said fuck it.

I called my best friend for advice and she told me that he could've went to sleep or is busy and that he'll call me back on the following day.

I have a major habit of over thinking things so she calmed me down a lot but I don't understand...how do you go from asking me to come over to all of a sudden not answering the phone?
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Posted by Capri__unicorn
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I am afraid you will find out just later. Can be any reason
Could be, but I've already blocked his number.


Girl stop being dramatic by blocking him and at least wait til you know the reason. You're not even giving him the opportunity to explain.
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And if it's a bullshit reason then what? I feel like I'm saving time.
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Posted by Chelsey07
Posted by Chuckcem
Um...it doesn't sound like things between you two are terribly serious, correct? If this was just a booty call, it's possible he's hooking up with someone else.
No it wasn't but don't talk to me all day and then not answer. All because I wasn't ready when he was😑😒
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Fair. It's probably best to just go with your backup option (I'm assuming you have a backup option).
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Posted by Chuckcem
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Um...it doesn't sound like things between you two are terribly serious, correct? If this was just a booty call, it's possible he's hooking up with someone else.
No it wasn't but don't talk to me all day and then not answer. All because I wasn't ready when he was😑😒
Fair. It's probably best to just go with your backup option (I'm assuming you have a backup option).
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I do. I have a date tomorrow, but I don't want to sleep with him you know?
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Posted by Chelsey07
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Posted by Chelsey07
Posted by Chuckcem
Um...it doesn't sound like things between you two are terribly serious, correct? If this was just a booty call, it's possible he's hooking up with someone else.
No it wasn't but don't talk to me all day and then not answer. All because I wasn't ready when he was😑😒
Fair. It's probably best to just go with your backup option (I'm assuming you have a backup option).


I do. I have a date tomorrow, but I don't want to sleep with him you know?

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Understandable. I guess my only advice then would be to not put too much effort into the booty call guy(s) in the future. If they wind up flaking, you won't feel as if your time was wasted.
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Posted by Chuckcem
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Posted by Chelsey07
Posted by Chuckcem
Um...it doesn't sound like things between you two are terribly serious, correct? If this was just a booty call, it's possible he's hooking up with someone else.
No it wasn't but don't talk to me all day and then not answer. All because I wasn't ready when he was😑😒
Fair. It's probably best to just go with your backup option (I'm assuming you have a backup option).


I do. I have a date tomorrow, but I don't want to sleep with him you know?


Understandable. I guess my only advice then would be to not put too much effort into the booty call guy(s) in the future. If they wind up flaking, you won't feel as if your time was wasted.
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Duly noted☺