Do Yourself A Favour

If you realise that YOURE the one that always initiates the conversation,text,whatever, and all the recipient does is respond!!
Do Yourself A Favour - Forget em and Move on.
It aint goin nowhere, no matter how much you want it too!

"Dont Waste Your Time On People Who Wont Waste Their's On You"

Youre Too Good For That :-)

I used to do that, then I realised "Hang On, how come it always seems to be ME that does the calling, texting etc" so i decided to go all quiet for 3weeks, sure enough, I never heard from them again. A Lesson Learned.

And think of all those cell phone minutes you'll never get back. Its harsh, in the least...

Romance, Friendship, Whatever!!
If YOURE the one that has to keep initiating any contact, then the Red Flag should go up!
If someone likes you, it would be 50/50
Thats my perspective anyway

Damn right. Listen up women, this man is speaking!

LOL - This Doggy has Spoken "Woof Woof"

Listen up people, Lucy here is speaking!

totally agree, its so tiring if its all one sided

Well I hate to say that I'm not so great at calling people back or reaching out to people. I've always been a "loner" type. I don't have many friends & I prefer it that way. Life gets busy & I know this sounds shitty but I don't want to feel obligated to call someone for the sake of calling when I have nothing interesting to say. In turn, I don't expect that from anyone else either. All of my friends know that if weeks go by & they don't hear from me it's not because I'm mad at them or don't value their friendship, I'm just busy or have nothing to talk about. No big deal.

The people who I can remain friends with are the people who not only understand this but can meet up with me after a few weeks go by & pick up where we left off the last time without any weird vibes that something is amiss in our friendship. I've lost friendships with people who require more then I'm comfortable giving & I completely understand that & I do have sadness about that but it is who I am.

Dog, you'd likely get the majority of men to hear you, and only a small percentage of women to listen .. for sure, most would hear it, nod their heads in agreement, then call/text a man anyway.


Women NEED to be nurtured, they crave it, depend on it .... and so this part of them would outwiegh any reasoning when it comes to self-worth.

... because a woman's self-worth comes from a man wanting her.

Everybody plays a fool sometime..theres no exception to the rule.lol. Better to waste some stupid cell phone minutes then years/ money for dates etc. consider yourself lucky.

"Women seem to look for a man to love them,complete them,when those are things they should be able to do themselves"


Absolutely .. they should be able to do this for themselves. However, the majority doesn't, and it's terribly sad, really. They will bombard a man with overwhelming emotions, with attempts to get him to reciprocate these same sentiments back to the woman, so she can be feel secure in her womanhood. And that is one of the saddest parts for me to have to face with being a female, and watching my female friends belittle themselves like that.

You ARE because YOU ARE .. not because someone approves of you.


"it seems that,that unhealthy desperation acts as a repellent to the good ones and attracts the kind of men who treat them bad."


A viscious cycle .. and the only end in sight is self-awareness so one can love themselves, be confident in themselves and their own abilities to be approving of themselves.



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Seriously .. a woman will read this, nod her head .. and then go make a post about how she's texted her man like 5 times, and he hasn't responded back .. and what is his problem.

::: sighs ::: ^^^^^ that problem isn't even him.

Its one thing for men to have trouble understanding women, but all this tells me is that women don't understand themselves either. Does this mean a massive proportion of women are counter-productive? Well, it hasn't caused a population decrease, so it can't be too damaging.

I say we just sum it up to biological wiring and call it a day. Men want what they want...women want what they want. Conflict of interest is always gonna be a problem.

how much communication is too much?? where to draw the line?

i agree with ashsag, its a two way thing, not only girls, but guys have this tendency *cough* have u seen scorps?? lol

I agree, let's call it a day. Never works, but we'll say it anyway.