u canT b serious...

ok i know im not the only single person wondering this....

What the heck is up with couples who date for like a couple months....n just KNOW there meant to be?

or people who say i knew the 3rd time we hung out we where gonna get married?

is this real.. or just chemistry doin its thing.

So WhatS real Love..the kind that is instant or the kind that develops over many years...im confused.

please share stories.....

I like it when people say things like ..

I met my soulmate, but, it didn't work out .... or ...

My last boyfriends were my soulmate

^^^^^ funny shit, right there

There are a lot of married people wondering the same thing!

Proof once again that you know its not first love, just mating season rearing its awkwardly twisted head. If you're saying its love at first sight, then I say love is no different than teenage premature ejaculation. You have no bodily control over the nightmare, and no matter how many times you ask others how to stop it, everyone says the same thing, "Don't worry, its natural, try to enjoy yourself."

There are a lot of married people wondering the same thing!
they've been punk'd !

deeZird ... these people saying it .. are they still with these men that they knew after a couple dates that it was meant to be?

Here's a story ....

My husband and I went on first date on June/July 1982 .. moved in together on July 4, 1982 .. were married on September 20, 1982 ... all within 3 months time.

so im assuming u n ur husband R still together.

i just dont see how their are people looking everywhere for love n saying its so hard to find .... n others who just like ur husband...found it in a matter of months.

Because most people don't know what their looking for.

A person will see a trait in another, and think this is it, this is the wo/man ... and rush towards this person, only to find that it was only this trait, in particular that they actually liked.

And I believe that to be the case the majority of the time ..... we aren't really loving the "person", we are loving/wanting this "trait".

And yes .. we are still married.