Frequent thoughts about someone you don't want to be with?

Has this ever happened to you?

What does it mean?

Yes.

It means you developed feelings of attachment for that given person (the more time you invested with/in them - the stronger the attachment) - but in the same time - you have mixed feelings or there's a logical reason that makes you wanna keep your distance.

sometimes i think about these guys with mustachioed gfs

Posted by neves

Yes.

It means you developed feelings of attachment for that given person (the more time you invested with/in them - the stronger the attachment) - but in the same time - you have mixed feelings or there's a logical reason that makes you wanna keep your distance.

BINGO!!!!!

I definitely became marginally attached to this person...mostly because of her consistent efforts to contact/hang out with me and the extreme unsolicited "vulnerability " she showed me early on in our friendship

I did read the extreme unsolicited "vulnerability " as a manipulative ploy to make me feel closer to her early on.............

as a pisces though ....we can still become attached to a person whom uses "vulnerability" as ploy because it is indicative of other non healthy issues/trauma....

that pisceans are drawn too.

that being said as a 31 year I logically understand how unhealthy that is

as well as harbor several other reasons as to which why I should keep my distance/not even pursue a friendship with this person.

it's still weird to have frequent thoughts about someone though and not want to physically be with them , or reach out or even think about them in a happy way/caring way.

I have never had this happen to me before.

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Has this ever happened to you?

What does it mean?

When you think of them...what do you think?

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it's mostly just images of her face (based on photos she sent me or showed me in person)...

but sometimes it is accompanied by this secondary thought that she kind of looks like a reptile or a demon

or has an angular face or really sharp teeth in some photos she sent me

sometimes I think how it looks like she's wearing a grotesque mask with exaggerated facial features when she smiles and is wearing make up

sometimes I think I'm not sure exactly what she looks like.....and I think about some of the reasons why that is

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Has this ever happened to you?

What does it mean?

When you think of them...what do you think?

it's mostly just images of her face (based on photos she sent me or showed me in person)...

but sometimes it is accompanied by this secondary thought that she kind of looks like a reptile or a demon

or has an angular face or really sharp teeth in some photos she sent me

sometimes I think how it looks like she's wearing a grotesque mask with exaggerated facial features when she smiles and is wearing make up

sometimes I think I'm not sure exactly what she looks like.....and I think about some of the reasons why that is

That's totally different. YES i have experienced this.

Many times. IT DOESNT MEAN YOU WANT TO BE WITH SOMEONE. It means spirit or your guide is trying to tell you something.

Now ...with experience of being physic and experiencing pareidolia and apophenia..I can say ..while it always MEANS something ...it doesn't always mean they are a bad person ...

Some reptile people and vampire people are sound.

But some people have a supernatural energy around them ...and reflect back at you a bit...

Not all are bad not all are good.

Does she practice magic at all? Does she have an aura about her?

If she is a practitioner ..it could be something/an energy she is working right now...it always alters your appearance ...

People who work with the goddess always look a lil different ...

If you feel it means something negative ...it will show more in her actions. Not her mask or face....the real her is how she behaves.

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ummm....what?lol

what is a reptile person?

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by neves

Yes.

It means you developed feelings of attachment for that given person (the more time you invested with/in them - the stronger the attachment) - but in the same time - you have mixed feelings or there's a logical reason that makes you wanna keep your distance.

BINGO!!!!!

I definitely became marginally attached to this person...mostly because of her consistent efforts to contact/hang out with me and the extreme unsolicited "vulnerability " she showed me early on in our friendship

I did read the extreme unsolicited "vulnerability " as a manipulative ploy to make me feel closer to her early on.............

as a pisces though ....we can still become attached to a person whom uses "vulnerability" as ploy because it is indicative of other non healthy issues/trauma....

that pisceans are drawn too.

that being said as a 31 year I logically understand how unhealthy that is

as well as harbor several other reasons as to which why I should keep my distance/not even pursue a friendship with this person.

it's still weird to have frequent thoughts about someone though and not want to physically be with them , or reach out or even think about them in a happy way/caring way.

I have never had this happen to me before.

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This type of weirdness is kinda ironic (feelings and logic proving to be a lot like oil and water at times) - but it does make sense. I mean... modern logic is an outcome of human evolution ("i think, therefore i am" - is a modern statement) - while feelings and instincts are still... primordial (something we share in common with our ancient ancestors - from thousands of years ago...). The human intellect obviously evolved, yet... we're still primitive in terms of feelings and instincts (this two are still part of our innate guiding system - unfortunately, since it's not something we can turn-off). For same reason - even our fears/anxieties - don't make much sense for the modern times we live in (primitive and inefficient - thus... more often than not - they work against us).

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Posted by sweet_poison

Yes. It is like I became attached but I don’t want to. I think it’s a Pisces thing. ( Venus and Mars here). We care too much. I just try to listen to my logic and be guided by it

I agree, and I say love has no logic so this scenario is common. Pisces moon here.

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hmm.. doesn't feel like love?

or at least being in love...

more like awww there's this troubled person out there.....I hope she finds her way and learns to truly love herself.

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Posted by sweet_poison

Yes. It is like I became attached but I don’t want to. I think it’s a Pisces thing. ( Venus and Mars here). We care too much. I just try to listen to my logic and be guided by it

I agree, and I say love has no logic so this scenario is common. Pisces moon here.

hmm.. doesn't feel like love?

or at least being in love...

more like awww there's this troubled person out there.....I hope she finds her way and learns to truly love herself.

I meant feelings that occur in the love/romantic realm, not necessarily the big one, however you define it.

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hmmmmmmm