Being in a serious relationship

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by 777 on Sunday, December 1, 2019 and has 10 replies.

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@777
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Is a big serious "life" decsion that I think people take lightly. I've noticed alot of women are always trying to trick men into this scenario with diff tactics. I think the way relationships affect me causes me to be very patient & very selective.

No matter the tactic I cant be conned into romantic commitment. We can be friends though

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I’m asking this because I’ve noticed a theme with a few Virgos- do you tend to feel everyone is conning you? At some level? Like others are out to get something from you or take advantage? Asking for a friend... lol

I do know what you mean tho- I’ve witnessed it.

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Posted by Weeds

Where are these women you speak of?

I only attract what I give off.

Tell that to the lady on freeway who just tried to cut someone of slammed onto her breaks and swerved in my lane. I'm sure im responsible for her actions with my cruising relaxed back at 65 mph

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Posted by justagirl

I’m asking this because I’ve noticed a theme with a few Virgos- do you tend to feel everyone is conning you? At some level? Like others are out to get something from you or take advantage? Asking for a friend... lol

I do know what you mean tho- I’ve witnessed it.

Idk, but being with me isn't going to be any diff than being by yourself. I just like people who are refined

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Posted by 777

Posted by Weeds

Where are these women you speak of?

I only attract what I give off.

Tell that to the lady on freeway who just tried to cut someone of slammed onto her breaks and swerved in my lane. I'm sure im responsible for her actions with my cruising relaxed back at 65 mph

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If you hadn't been there it wouldn't have happened to you.

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Posted by Weeds

Posted by 777

Posted by Weeds

Where are these women you speak of?

I only attract what I give off.

Tell that to the lady on freeway who just tried to cut someone of slammed onto her breaks and swerved in my lane. I'm sure im responsible for her actions with my cruising relaxed back at 65 mph

If you hadn't been there it wouldn't have happened to you.

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Alright mrs. Cleo

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@justagirl
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Posted by 777

Posted by justagirl

I’m asking this because I’ve noticed a theme with a few Virgos- do you tend to feel everyone is conning you? At some level? Like others are out to get something from you or take advantage? Asking for a friend... lol

I do know what you mean tho- I’ve witnessed it.

Idk, but being with me isn't going to be any diff than being by yourself. I just like people who are refined

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Well ya- imo, anyone that seeks to fulfill who they are through another person is definitely not ready for a relationship.

For me to even consider a man for something serious he has to understand that with some things I may jump in feet first but with major life decisions I need time to think and see if it’s the right choice to make for everyone involved. Especially a relationship. Also, I need to be able to determine if he is bringing the same level to the table so to speak.