@Steezyscott
6 Years
What are the signs your bf is not excited about you being pregnant?
Signs Your Partner Is Not Excited About Your Pregnancy
A partner who is not excited may show indifference, avoid discussions, or delay communication about the pregnancy. They might also respond with shock or negativity instead of support. Recognizing these signs can indicate emotional unpreparedness or discomfort about parenthood and may require open conversations.
Posted by Steezyscott
I told my bf I was pregnant and be said omg!! Stop getting pregnant and then didn't talk to me about it for two days and then asked me what was my plans on being prego??
Because I feel hes not excited
I think you are correct. Sorry but it sounds like he was hoping for an abortion.
Posted by Steezyscott
I told my bf I was pregnant and be said omg!! Stop getting pregnant and then didn't talk to me about it for two days and then asked me what was my plans on being prego??
How really dumb are you?
All of that you’ve posted ARE THE SIGNS!!!
What is your sign, stupid? 🤦♀️
How many times have you gotten pregnant before? How many kids do you guys even have now?
Posted by Erin
He told YOU to stop getting pregnant?
Yeah! Like in a happy way...🤦♀️
I am trying to replay in my head HOW DA FUCK can someone ask him he question after what she had heard from him?
I HOPE she is a troll! 🙏🏻
Wow. what a jerk.. I’d say he’s asking if you’re going to keep it or have an abortion.. that’s the complete opposite of excited.
Posted by Steezyscott
Because I feel hes not excited
What gave him out? Which one of bunch of things he said ACTUALLY made you think he is unhappy?!! 🤷♀️
You two didn't talk about this before huh?
And I'm assuming that he wore no condom and you weren't on birth control.
How long have you two been together?
Posted by nikkistar
How many times have you gotten pregnant before? How many kids do you guys even have now?
Hope none.
Does it really matter? Just hope none! World does t need another one of those...
How many kids do u have currently? And how many are his?
Lol second thread on the same topic.
Tell him your plans are anal sex only for the foreseeable future.
Posted by blvckphvse
Trolliolioli.. Come on guys, shit ain't real.
Yep. Signed up today and already multiply accounts? How does this shit works?
Posted by Bellabebe
He says “buuuut my pull out game STRONG?” Heehee
Add to that the plan B and your good to avoid kids.
Poor Cloudy, that serial catfish/perpetual victim syndrome is a real bitch to handle, eh?
Posted by Bellabebe
Posted by LibraSupreme
Posted by Bellabebe
He says “buuuut my pull out game STRONG?” Heehee
Add to that the plan B and your good to avoid kids.
Right! Confused men always want to put it in and see what happens .... the guessing games over kids!
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I am always amazed how are these INputs don’t result 18 years of financial OUTputs in 99% of occurrences?
Did you not know how babies are made?
He told me be was cool with a kid! We have been together for four years. That's why this is a shock. Like what did be think was gonna happen?
Sheesh. I feel bad for women who don’t get the support of their partner when they have pregnancy scares. My Scorpio was happy af. Left work during lunch, and took me to lunch and the doctor to confirm. This guy is definitely not excited about this.
Posted by Steezyscott
He told me be was cool with a kid! We have been together for four years. That's why this is a shock. Like what did be think was gonna happen?
I think he expecting you to use birth control to not get pregnant. Were you? I know couples who have been together 6 years but they use birth control. You can prevent pregnancy.
Posted by Erin
He told YOU to stop getting pregnant?
Unbelievable
Can you imagine what kind of father he's not going to be 😕
Posted by saggurl88
Did you not know how babies are made?
Lol....of Master Class with gifs.
If I'm in a relationship for over a yr, wtf are condoms.
Posted by Black-Mamba
Posted by LibraSupreme
Posted by Bellabebe
He says “buuuut my pull out game STRONG?” Heehee
Add to that the plan B and your good to avoid kids.
plan B damages the women in the future though if she does it too often
just gross
why are you like this
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Because I'm flawed and far from perfect.
Posted by LibraSupreme
Posted by saggurl88
Did you not know how babies are made?
Lol....of Master Class with gifs.
If I'm in a relationship for over a yr, wtf are condoms.
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I know, but the fact that she "keeps" getting pregnant.
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by LibraSupreme
Posted by saggurl88
Did you not know how babies are made?
Lol....of Master Class with gifs.
If I'm in a relationship for over a yr, wtf are condoms.
I know, but the fact that she "keeps" getting pregnant.
Thanks for the clarification because that does make a difference. I would man up and be ecstatic if she's my partner. I would take it as fate and me not having mind control to take the necessary precautions. Positive vibes to you Sagggurl.
I never wanted a whole human as a surprise. I practiced planned parenting.
But hey, I'm a weirdo like that.
Most people just get pregnant.
I had an array of birth control methods over the decades. My favorite was spermicide.
Posted by LibraSupreme
Posted by saggurl88
Did you not know how babies are made?
Lol....of Master Class with gifs.
If I'm in a relationship for over a yr, wtf are condoms.
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Condoms aren't the only form of birth control. As a matter of fact they are a poor choice but do help with disease. There are hundreds of forms of birth control. Talk to your gyno. This is getting ridiculous.
Posted by VenusAquarius
I never wanted a whole human as a surprise. I practiced planned parenting.
But hey, I'm a weirdo like that.
Most people just get pregnant.
I had an array of birth control methods over the decades. My favorite was spermicide.
It'd called being responsible...👍
Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by LibraSupreme
Posted by saggurl88
Did you not know how babies are made?
Lol....of Master Class with gifs.
If I'm in a relationship for over a yr, wtf are condoms.
Condoms aren't the only form of birth control. As a matter of fact they are a poor choice but do help with disease. There are hundreds of forms of birth control. Talk to your gyno. This is getting ridiculous.
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Agree completely. I have dodged that bullet successfully because of all thet echnology out there. I even considered getting clipped but backed out because later I do want kids.
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by LibraSupreme
Posted by saggurl88
Did you not know how babies are made?
Lol....of Master Class with gifs.
If I'm in a relationship for over a yr, wtf are condoms.
I know, but the fact that she "keeps" getting pregnant.
It could be that he forgot she is a current gf.
Not all in 1 from his past. Dude was shocked!
He wasn’t thinking. He is hillarious though...
You already know the answer to your own question. You don't need us to validate what YOUR heart & intellect already knows. This isn't some complex puzzle to figure out. He's shown you where he stands. You'll know when a person is excited b/c they'll say they are. On the flip side, you'll know a person is not excited b/c they won't mention anything about being happy or excited. Don't make this some complex puzzle just b/c you don't wanna stomach the ugly truth that your man isn't happy you're pregnant. Instead of denying his truth to soothe your ego, instead examine why he's not happy. Have you 2 had a rough patch recently? Has he communicated before that he doesn't want to have any kids right now or at all? And if you don't know where he stands, why on earth are yall having unprotected sex & taking the risk of bringing a child into the world despite you 2 not even being emotionally or verbally connected enough to know & respect where the other person stands on this topic?
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I told my bf I was pregnant and be said omg!! Stop getting pregnant and then didn't talk to me about it for two days and then asked me what was my plans on being prego??