@DeeLovesRed
10 Years1,000+ Posts
Hard To Let Go...
As a Pisces, with many Pisces placement, ifcI loved you once, I'll always have some love for you. Doesnt mean I want another try for relationship tho. Just, the love never really disappears. And thats pretty toxic for me. I can go years without ever talking to you but still have some love for you....
Cancer moon. I'll love you to death.
Funny you mention Cancer moon. The Taurus has Cancer moon. He cant let me go fully. I'm done with it tho, something happened that shattered the last bit of trust I had in him, left. And yet, he'll just text me after days of not talking, knowing he has hurt me. He has a lot of Cancer placements in him. Kinda good to know that I'll linger for a while.
Cancer moon Scorpio rising 😂
No don’t blame it on the Scorpio rising 😩😩🤣🤣
Sometimes it’s hard to let people go... especially when YOU know that someone isn’t good for you, your future, etc.... and you love them 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
But, what aspects and/or placements could a person have that’ll make it hard for them to let people go—
none. no aspect or placement. this is learned behaviour.
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Not necessarily, because there’s different ways of “not letting go”.. not everyone witnessed a person struggling to let someone go..
Sometimes it’s hard to let people go... especially when YOU know that someone isn’t good for you, your future, etc.... and you love them 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
But, what aspects and/or placements could a person have that’ll make it hard for them to let people go—
Its worse than that. I tend to try and manipulate or use them.
I let the idea of ...love go ..or a pure relationship.
I start thinking oh they hurt me i deserve something ...so i use them...Its actually pretty toxic for me though.
Its a difficult habit to get out of i really don't recommend it.
Delusions of grandhair?
Obviously nothing gives me the right to do that. So i must have a false sense of my own importance.
In a way though that is like NOT letting go isn't it? rather than walk away ..you stay to see what you can get do etc to the other person....that's like not letting go ...like Moby Dick or something.
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Yea that’s technically “not letting go” because you’re still holding onto something wishing for a gain...
It’s hard to let go of relationships because people hope things will get better, but in your case the hope is revenge??!!
Sometimes it’s hard to let people go... especially when YOU know that someone isn’t good for you, your future, etc.... and you love them 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
But, what aspects and/or placements could a person have that’ll make it hard for them to let people go—
Not my placements 🙂. If I’m in love and he bails out , or tortures me emotionally and mentally, the pain I would constantly feel would eventually undo any ties, desires, hopes and love.
Isn’t that the role of the emotional pain? To set one free?
Yep... known a cancer sun aqua moon for 9 years on and off.
Just noticed that she has been stalking me for 8 months.... never ever end a relationship with a virgo venus they will stalk you till your dead always let them end it.... although if she showed me THIS type of affection early in the relationship I wouldn't have cut her off.
Cancer Moon ...😔
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Sometimes it’s hard to let people go... especially when YOU know that someone isn’t good for you, your future, etc.... and you love them 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
But, what aspects and/or placements could a person have that’ll make it hard for them to let people go—