So for those of us who have ghosted in the past, which is probably all of us at some point, have you ever tried to make things right with that person?
I ghosted on two guys, and I have ghosted on another awhile back and with all three guys I apologized.
The first guy I ghosted on was a Cancer about 2 yeara ago. He came on super strong, kinda clingy but the clinginess only felt like that because I was still emotionally reeling over an Aries who hurt me about 6 months prior. So for some strange reason this guy trying to be with me just pissed me off lol.
Eventually I started just giving him excuses about how finals were ramping up (which was true) and how I had two thesis to write (true) and two internships (true) and him pressuring me all felt too much to deal with at one time. So I was honest. But he didnt listen really and kept at it so I disappeared. Completely ignored him. Felt bad but at the same time didnt care because I had some vendetta against men at the time thanks to the Aries.
In the end, I reached out about 8 months later and just apologized. Gave an explanation to everything, told him I thought he waa a great guy and he is and wished him the best.
The last 2 guys. I ghosted on, I pretty much did the same. Apologized to them last week and feel good.
If you're honest about where you would like things to go at some point before ghosting, I think there is nothing wrong with it. I have only ghosted one guy before who was a leo, but that is only because he tried to come back to me like he had never disappeared after ghosting me. I never apologized for this, and I never got an apology. I was ghosted by a co worker I had worked with for 4 years and he was a libra, but that was an example of him being honest with me before ghosting, and me still bugging him. I never got an apology for the ghosting, but I am sure I will at some point because he is in the Army now, has only been home one for a week since joining, and we are practically neighbors. He is part of the "work family"
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I'm a Libra woman who has fallen in love w/ a cappy. I met him in my home town on his last day in the US. He is from Spain. We chatted for about an hour, I gave him my info as he said he felt a connection & wanted to know me more. A wk later he emailed me
I ghosted on two guys, and I have ghosted on another awhile back and with all three guys I apologized.
The first guy I ghosted on was a Cancer about 2 yeara ago. He came on super strong, kinda clingy but the clinginess only felt like that because I was still emotionally reeling over an Aries who hurt me about 6 months prior. So for some strange reason this guy trying to be with me just pissed me off lol.
Eventually I started just giving him excuses about how finals were ramping up (which was true) and how I had two thesis to write (true) and two internships (true) and him pressuring me all felt too much to deal with at one time. So I was honest. But he didnt listen really and kept at it so I disappeared. Completely ignored him. Felt bad but at the same time didnt care because I had some vendetta against men at the time thanks to the Aries.
In the end, I reached out about 8 months later and just apologized. Gave an explanation to everything, told him I thought he waa a great guy and he is and wished him the best.
The last 2 guys. I ghosted on, I pretty much did the same. Apologized to them last week and feel good.