Is men considered a hoe when they cheat

Is men considered a hoe when they cheat

men are just being men when they do the do but cheating for us is paying another womans bills now just sex dont count cause theres no fillings in that for most men we could do it and not think about u at all the next day. but when yo man is like paying this ladys bills takin her shopping buying her kids stuff thats cheating but sex is just sex

^ dude!!!really? so if you cheat, you don't feel guilty or nothing? 🙂

really, I always wondered why so many females hate on libra men! 🙂
but I do love them cos I get along great but... damn

Yep i could easily believe in what VSOP is saying but don't believe it's with all men just the dogs...can't think what that percentage might be but probably higher than I can imagine!

And the answer to your question, Women consider them "DOGS" but they generally get the high five from other "DOGS"

lol GB...

since women see a relationship as more than sex, how come women only see sex as a form of cheating?

Loads of women consider sex as a relationship counterpart so generally, if a guy's having sex with another women, he is in a relationship with the other woman too, no? I think that's how most people see it... guys I know never forgive women that cheat on them, so why do they expect to be forgiven when they do the same? idk

i always had a theory that women follow men in life.

well naturally, if all attempts to do the same thing are initially blocked by said men 😛

as time goes by, the theory is shifting, not quickly enough though... but it is what it is

GB: how come women only see sex as a form of cheating?

Some women will look the other way if their man is only having sex with other women -- no emotional connections. It's still cheating, but as long as she has his love, she's content. I'm not advocating it, but I've seen a few women in this situation...

For me, fidelity is an absolute. You're either committed to that person, or you're not; and if you can't be faithful, you owe it that person to be honest with them about it...

Yes, Men can be Whores, too. And FYI ladies: Not all guys will give a man-whore a high-five for sleeping with lots of women. Not all guys think it's cool for a guy to talk about all the stuff he does in the sack -- not because we're jealous of his sexcapades, but because we find that kind of talk demeaning to the women involved...

I used to fly with another pilot who'd go on & on & on in great detail about the women he slept with -- he really wasn't bragging, he was just a vulgar guy, and probably a sex addict... Hearing about it got old. And yeah, even though he was careful, he got herpes...

guys I know never forgive women that cheat on them, so why do they expect to be forgiven when they do the same?


If a women cheats she is considered a low down dirty slut...in the opinion of alot of people, no excuse is a good excuse as to why this happened...it's unforgivable!

If a man cheats there's always reasons, he tries justifying and looking for support and gets it alot...it's also considered a forgivable situation or more acceptable...

There is clearly an uneven view upon a man cheating and a women cheating world wide.

And yes Dystar, Not all men are like that. Alot have high values and morals...The Good Guys. But in this strange world the women want the "Dogs"

" so why do they expect to be forgiven when they do the same?"

cuz you're not men.



In actual fact a real "MAN" wouldn't go there, these guys are simply just boys, baby boys at that, that have the mentality of 2 year olds!

You're obviously one of the boys huh?

the only thing that will stop a man from having sex with other women while married is a couple who is dedicated to god in their life a religious couple without god the devil creeps in and affairs happen all to often

Tunnel vision VSOP!

Seen religious couples do that too.

You are what you are and if you're a cheater then that's it, there are real men out there that dont!

phss religious indeed - lol, ever being to church vsop? I know people that go to pick up or get picked up by available 'good' people - HA!

cuz you're not men.

Well, then that explains it all GB... good to know only women contract stds too 😛

If he cheated on me he would be a hoe... he'd be considered good as dead. 😉

how about swinging?! some couples do that to keep the marriage alive.

I've always wondered about the number of brain cells those type of people have. Whatever floats your boat but I have a hard time believing that fycking other people keeps the spice in the marriage LOL!!! Thats just a way to cheat without feeling guilty.

Just stating the obvious 😉

^ lol I know!

how about swinging?! some couples do that to keep the marriage alive.
i have no idea how that works though.

way too risky I think, I don't have enough brain cells to concentrate... then imagine if you swung with a way hotter partner than your partner --- how would it make it better?!

men are just being men when they do the do but cheating for us is paying another womans bills now just sex dont count cause theres no fillings in that for most men we could do it and not think about u at all the next day. but when yo man is like paying this ladys bills takin her shopping buying her kids stuff thats cheating but sex is just sex

Hmmmm, okay

vsop seems to be part of a certain 'breed' of guys. Through my years in college, I've heard the way these 'breeds' talk and therefore I hear how they think.

Its no shocker to hear this sort of thing really ^_^.

hahaha Zena, we are partners in crime 😄

Who would have thought, an Aries and an Sag-Cappie 😛

Although my partner likes to kick my in the booty behind my back once and a while LOL!!!

But I know its only because I've grabbed and poked her in one of her butt cheeks too 😛

way too risky I think, I don't have enough brain cells to concentrate... then imagine if you swung with a way hotter partner than your partner --- how would it make it better?!

To me, if you want someone else than it is what it is. "Swinging" is just an excuse -- especially if you can a sexually transmitted disease. You can blame it on the swinging, not the fact you were cheating LOL!!!

Oh, and I'm very open-minded about things but I'm also realistic too. Relationships aren't meant to last forever (in my opinion), so don't cheat, just go on your merry way.

sweet: But in this strange world the women want the "Dogs".

Yeah, and there's a scientific explanation for it: Women tend to be sexually attracted to men who are risk-takers, and these are generally not Nice Guys. Bad Boys are exciting, Nice Guys are boring. What's a gal to do? Some will fuck the Bad Boy, and marry the Nice Guy, and maybe try to have an occasional Bad Boy on the sly...

Guys do something similar: We want Mama in the Kitchen, and a Porn Queen in the bedroom...

IMHO, long-term happiness for a monogamous couple requires that both are willing to compromise between their desires and the realities of domestic life. What makes it tougher these days is that we've been sold a package of ideas that we can have perfect bodies, exciting careers, mind-boggling sex, etc. - with no responsibilities for our misjudgments & screw-ups...

So in this schizophrenic society, Men can fuck hundreds of women, and that's okay; while a woman who fucks around is a whore...

At least STDs level the playing field! Viruses don't care who's fucking more...

As V S O P stated earlier "sex is just sex". Amen... ;}

Nomatter which way the wind blows, cheaters are doing the deed to this day.
Others are probably doing the deed right now as we type away our opinions.
Male and Female have been cheating since the beggining of time.

It's what you do to them at the "end".... ;}

What goes around comes around... ;}

cappy, your a life-rookie, like me, so without being married for a long time, how can you know that?!

here's my problem with ideals, ppl have ideals that are made up in a vacuum, but hold no worth on the battlefield of life. some wonder why they keep losing, is because they can't adapt to a situation.
i learned this lesson the hard way.

Oh please GB, age and experience has nothing to do with commonsense. Either you have it or you don't 🙂 My opinion was based squarely on that. I don't care what others do but thats just the way I see. When I'm in my 40s I'll probably see things the exact same way LOL, I'm a capricorn, I'm practical like that 😉

human emotions HAVE NO common sense.

Says who? you? lol 😉


Muhummed Ali(a cap) said, "if you think the same way at 30 as you did at 20, then you wasted 10 years of your life."

— hahaha, yeah okay.

From an astro prospective: He's a Cap-Aqua Cusp and I'm a Sag-Cap cusp -- we see things differently, trust me 🙂 Plus, that man never really practiced what he preached anyway, from what I've heard so whatever 😛