Leo Sun and Scorpio Moon madness!

Hi there, I'm new here and this is my first topic on the forums 🙂

Well, in april I started dating a Leo Sun, Cancer rising and Scorpio Moon guy. I'm a Taurus Sun, Sagittarius rising and Aquarius Moon girl.
He's smart guy, with lots of occultist and alternative interests, amazing taste in music (he's a musician also), really funny and charming. He seems to have a big ego and self-steem but at the same time he feels really deeply.
I get along with him amazingly well. We never had an argument. We think in very similar ways, and we seem to hold each other.
My problem here is that he seems very avoiding of the 'love' topic.
Everything was very intense from the beginning. I talk to him two months ago about what was going on , because I was going mad, and he told me that he was very confused about his feelings, that he wast just seeing me, not other women, and that he didn't know where this was going. After that he started to behave more and more loving: we talked every day, he texted me, we see . Half month ago I told him that I had strong feelings for him and he didn't answer, just started to kiss me and hug me, and he looked really happy. I confronted him and asked him if he was confused, and he answered 'no, I'm not longer confused, everything is fine with you, I just thought you already knew'.
Since then, he behaves like a boyfriend with me. But my biggest concern is that I feel insecure. I don't know how he feels about me and he's very avoiding of the topic. It's like he has a barrier with words. I have to restrain and adapt how I express some things because he oftens gives really short, avoiding or confusing answers. I feel that he puts me to the test, that he is still evaluating me as a couple. I don't really know what to think!
I believe that the Moon in Scorpio is to blame, and i feel I can adapt but i'm going crazy! I don't know how to handle this.
Have you gone through similar experiences with that signs—
Thanks to all! Cheers!!

Posted by Ssupes
I'm confused as to why your insecure?

You said hes acting like a boyfriend........hes loving and caring and stuff.

His actions are showing you he cares. Plain and simple.

Just embrace it and let his love flow

I think I need the verbal reassurance and he seems so avoiding about that... I think you are right though, I'm willing to letting it flow. I just think that some day he might wake up and tell me to go to hell with no explanation whatsoever!

It wasn't me I sware.

Ffs stars, you need to quit birthing those water signs into Leo sun's.

My advice is just be strong and try to stay yourself. Don't show fear or he might pick up on it due to the scorpio moon, especially the Cancer rising. He can feel others emotions in his life like they are his own, so if you start to fear or feel somthing is wrong it will influence him to feel the same, even if words were never exchanged. Just be your normal self and he should remain the same.

Leo sun with a scorpio moon is a bad combo. I had a female friend with this combo and she was a very secretive and revengeful person. She used to test people a lot whoever she dated as if she was perfect. Lol. Then she used to reject people afterwards. If the person you have mentioned is not disclosing his feelings towards you then you should let him go. You are in the testing period where he is testing you. If you fail to get high marks in his tests then he might reject you. He dosen't love you actually. So be careful before giving your heart to him. He can act like your boyfriend but can't tell you about his feelings, this shows he is not serious about you. Don't let him play with you. This leo sun with scorpio moon people continue dating people one after another testing their dates and never come into conclusions. When you are in his testing period then i don't think he is being loyal to you and probably he is dating other girls too at the same time. So don't waste your precious time and emotions on him. Find another guy.

Please date someone who is honest.

Look up the 5 Love Languages.

That might actually answer your question.

Also... all fixed signs (Taurus, LEO, Aquarius, and Scorpio)

have big egos.

🙂

Posted by Soul
It wasn't me I sware.

Ffs stars, you need to quit birthing those water signs into Leo sun's.

My advice is just be strong and try to stay yourself. Don't show fear or he might pick up on it due to the scorpio moon, especially the Cancer rising. He can feel others emotions in his life like they are his own, so if you start to fear or feel somthing is wrong it will influence him to feel the same, even if words were never exchanged. Just be your normal self and he should remain the same.

He is indeed very sensitive and I feel great when we are phisically together, the problem seems to arise when my exagerated verbal part tries to collide with his way of showing his feelings. Thanks a lot for the advise!!!

Posted by Tanya Jones
Leo sun with a scorpio moon is a bad combo. I had a female friend with this combo and she was a very secretive and revengeful person. She used to test people a lot whoever she dated as if she was perfect. Lol. Then she used to reject people afterwards. If the person you have mentioned is not disclosing his feelings towards you then you should let him go. You are in the testing period where he is testing you. If you fail to get high marks in his tests then he might reject you. He dosen't love you actually. So be careful before giving your heart to him. He can act like your boyfriend but can't tell you about his feelings, this shows he is not serious about you. Don't let him play with you. This leo sun with scorpio moon people continue dating people one after another testing their dates and never come into conclusions. When you are in his testing period then i don't think he is being loyal to you and probably he is dating other girls too at the same time. So don't waste your precious time and emotions on him. Find another guy.

I feel that it is a test but actually, we -are- dating. He express his feelings in another way, and I just can't seem to handle or understand that very well. He's not dating anyone else, and I know that very well. We share the same group of people and I know he had long relationships. I actually know her ex gf, who dated him for 4 years... I don't think that he's dishonest either. Just very careful with the words. That doesn't mean that he never says anything, he just takes his time. I feel insecure because I feel he's a box of surprises, but that's part of my own limitations.

Posted by Montgomery
Look up the 5 Love Languages.

That might actually answer your question.

Also... all fixed signs (Taurus, LEO, Aquarius, and Scorpio)

have big egos.

🙂

Hahahaha I noticed the ego issue... but it's also what bring us toghether! Never realized that those were all fixed signs.
I'll read that book right now, thank you!

You don't need to buy the book (unless you just want to):

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http://www.5lovelanguages.com