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have you ever had a boyfriend who has a big penis but he does not know how to use it? How should i go about telling him i wanna teach him somethings but i don't want to hurt his feelings. I know he will get mad but i need to tell him. i Don't want this relationship to fail because of this

Honey, it's all about the Positions that you do during sex because different positions give different feelings of penetration than others.

1. Suggest that you guys do more positions (don't just do the routine missionary, doggy style , etc. positions). Suggesting more positions (in your mind) might seem as a clue to him that you're not sexually satisfied, but to HIM, it's a clue that you might want to take your sexual relationship to another level, a FREAKY level & no guy would turn that down!

2. Do some of the work too. Even if he's on top of you, grind with him. Move your body too. It not only feels better for them when you do some of the work (even when they're in control) but it also for the 2 people having sex to get more deep into it.

3. Or you could say in a sexy way, "Baby, I want you to do this when you...." It's not WHAT you say, it's HOW you say it.

"Let's play a game," lol. That's my favorite. I use that for everything. When I want to ask a thousand questions, I'll say, "Let's play a game... it's called 21 Questions."

When I want a dude to kiss me differently, "Let's play a game... you have to mimic everything that I do." Lol.

Not experienced with sex, but I know the ego for dudes in that department can be easily bruised. So "Let's role play... I'm the teacher and you're the student." Throw in some props that'll take his mind off of you being in control and then 'teach' him what you like.

If he's not into role playing, suggest something else that puts you in control. Or make it a, "I don't want you to move a muscle," type thing. Make it seem like it's all about him and you pleasing him when you're really pleasing yourself.